6 months + since mc and no luck getting pregnant... Come join me in the wait!!

[Smiler79]

No I am not still using opks as confused me and we weren't supposed to be ttc this month but now I am even more confused!!!!!!!!

 

[kelly1973]

annibobs so pleased for your results we can be bump buddies xx
Smiler your body built up to ov but didn't and is trying again I would do the opks twice daily or even 3 times as it might just be a quick surge and just get bding xxxx

 

[Smiler79]

Just checking in to see how everyone is. Been a bit quiet on here last few days. Hope everyone is ok x x x

 

[kelly1973]

hey smiler how are you?

 

[Ltruns33]

I'm gonna hop on here and join the discussion. I had a early miscarriage in late august, almost spetember. It's crazy that I only knew I was pregnant for 48 hours but was already so amazed/thrilled/attached. We had been ttc for 16 months at that point so, I felt so much relief, whew the long wait was over. After the miscarriage, it was pretty dark for a month or so. I was pretty positive I'd be pregnant by the due date, more fearfully hopeful. I have dreaded April 30th for 8.5 months. It is coming so close that I just want to crawl in a hole until it passes. Mother's day is even right after that. To make matters worse, my sister is due May 10th. She looks like what I should look like right now. Our babies could have been "twins" almost I bet. She's having a boy; I've always wanted a boy. Sadly, this has put a little bit of a strain on our relationship. Of course I am happy for her, and can't wait to meet my nephew- its just a hurt only people in our position can understand.

My af is due tomorrow and i can pretty much feel it coming. So, I am devastated. I just *knew* I would be pregnant by this month. I heard once that the anniversary of a loss is like you are experiencing that loss all over again, for the first time. I definitely agree.

Hubby and I are going to take a weekend trip around the time of my old due date. So that's a positive.

Hope you all get your much hoped for BFP's. SOrry to sound so glum, just having that kind of a day.

2nd round of clomid was this month, 100mg days 3-9.
Probably will start round three this week.



Hubby and

 

[Smiler79]

Hi ltruns33 welcome to the group. Please do not apologise for being glum. We are all here to listen and support you. This is a great group for that.

I know exactly how you feel so be my due date was 14 th May so it is creeping round and I am still not pregnant and very unlikely this month as we are supposed to taking a break from ttc although still bd a couple of times this month without being careful so who knows.

I was like You and convinced I would be pregnant again by my due date as I that is what happened wi. My rainbow baby. I fell pregnant 6 months after losing I my first angel. Although it didn't take away the pain from the loss of my angel, it did seem to make the due date a little easier to deal with. I am dreading the 14th May, ESP as I know 2 other pekoe who are due that day too xxxx

 

[amanda111308]

My original due date was April 25th and as it approaches I am feeling slightly disheartened although I must say, the break from ttc this month has definitely helped keep me calmer and more relaxed. Sometimes I have moments where I wish I hadn't quit temping but truthfully I have way less stress which is ideal this month with Easter this coming weekend.

I am feeling pretty good how is everyone else? Anything good to report?

 

[Nataliek]

Hi Ltruns,

As someone who has had two early losses, I know the pain all too well. It truly does not matter how long you are pregnant for, it hurts no matter what. Did the doctors classify it as a chemical pregnancy? The first time my levels reached 181 and then dropped within a week. The second time I got to 80 and then gone. All in all over by 5 1/2 weeks. It devastated us and I am on the road to recovery after an ectopic pregnancy last month. My original due date for our first loss was in early May so I feel your pain and my girlfriend is pregnant, just announced and I have been distancing myself from her. It's hard but you know what? You are going to get through it. I was not coping well after the ectopic was over and I am now feeling so much more positive about things. My husband and I are going away this weekend and I am really looking forward to it, sounds like you could use a get-away too. The ladies on here are lovely and you will get lots of support!

@Smiler, how are you hanging in there sweetie?

@Amanda, how are you doing????

 

[Ltruns33]

Thank you all! It's nice to know others know how I feel- of course, i'd never wish this sort of understanding on anyone- bc understanding in this case means you've been there. Still no af today, but I'm on clomid so I may have to take provera to induce a period.

Wishing you all the best! and lots of strength as sensitive dates come and go.

 

[Smiler79]

HI Natalie.

Glad you have got a nice weekend away to look forward to. Af is due fr me this Friday and although I am expecting her to arrive on time there is a small chance of a bfp as we dod bd without protection three times this month but I have no symptoms so not expecting any miracles.

my depression is not improving and I have to waot til middle of may for my 16 weeks of counselling to start. in fact first session will be in week of my due date. I know counselling is not going tohelp over night but hate waiting as despite the bding without protection hubby is still saying he wants to put ttc on hold until I am better and longer I wait to get started woth counselling longer I have to wait for my rainbow baby.xxx

sorry rant over xxxx

 

[Anniebobs]

So sorry so many of you are approaching your due dates. It was a really tough time for me as well as that was the date I was hoping to be pregnant by. Think once it passed I actually felt a weight was lifted. Luckily the month after my baby should have been born, I found out I was pregnant again. I still have 2 more due dates to pass but as you can imagine the first one was the one I was most stressed about and hopefully I'll stay pregnant this time.

It does get a lot easier once the due date passes, even if it's really hard at the time.

 

[Baby.Love12]

Hi girls. Just read the whole thread. Congrats to those who have BFPS and so sorry to those that are feeling so low.

My background: I have 2 daughters ages 5 and 8 from a previous marriage. Tried for 8 months and finally got a BFP early December 2013 only to find out I had a blighted ovum and had a d&c onjJanuary 3rd. What a great way to start off the new year. Any how been trying since then and no luck so I know how you feel. I think I ovulated yesterday or maybe today so just entering the 2 ww I think.

 

[Smiler79]

Welcome to baby love x x

 

[Nataliek]

Hi Smiler - I am so sorry you are struggling so much, I have been there myself. This whole process can be very consuming and draining. I feel much better and I know now how much I need this physical/emotional break. Maybe your husband is trying to indirectly take the pressure off? You know, trying but not trying?

Hi Babylove, I have two children from a previous marriage as well. My husband and I have had two chemicals and an ectopic in the past year. Not fun, I know how you feel.

 

[Baby.Love12]

You are so right natalie it is so emotionally draining. I dont know what i would do if it happens again. I wanted to have one more before i turn 30 ..i am 28 so well see.

 

[amanda111308]

Hey ladies! So... I caved and poas... (Opk) and got a positive this morning! I haven't seen a true positive opk like this before ever... Now I wish O didn't have to work all day and then bd... I want to bd right now!! Lol

I texted hubby and said exactly the following: " sexy time tonight and tomorrow am... "

Lol I know it at least made him smile

 

[Baby.Love12]

Hey ladies! So... I caved and poas... (Opk) and got a positive this morning! I haven't seen a true positive opk like this before ever... Now I wish O didn't have to work all day and then bd... I want to bd right now!! Lol

I texted hubby and said exactly the following: " sexy time tonight and tomorrow am... "

Lol I know it at least made him smile

yay!! Sucks to have to wait all day, won't be able to concentrate.

 

[amanda111308]

Exactly! Ugh I just want to rush through today and get home but at the same time I just don't want to be excited. It's been months of trying and nothing.

 

[Baby.Love12]

I totally know how you feel.

 

[MrsKitty]

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