6 months + since mc and no luck getting pregnant... Come join me in the wait!!

[amanda111308]

It is complete crap, you don't know what to believe or think. I just spoke with my friend that had years and years of struggle and she used to go to the clinic I went to and she left for the very reason I am considering switching. If we are not successful with this iui next cycle I think we will look into switching. How are you feeling Amanda?

Hi Natalie, I am feeling... Scared. My mind is overrun with thoughts of the worst happening. I just can't stop. I wish I had some way to know if it all works out and I have a new bundle I get to hold. I wish I was sick as a dog right now or had a heartbeat on a ultrasound... Something... Anything more than just a positive pee stick... I am sick but only from all the worry and foolishness I put myself through. Someone tell me I am being stupid...

 

[Smiler79]

I wish I could te ll you you are being stupid Amanda but I am feeling exactly the same. Next Tuesday can not come quick enough. I am obviously hoping for good news but even if it is bad news I would rather know than keep going along thinking everything is ok like I did last time. I know there is still a risk of something happening after 7 weeks but I know risk of miscarriage drops drastically if you see a heartbeat and with both miscarriages I have lost baby by 7 weeks xxxx
I am keeping fingers crossed and saying lots of prayers for all of us that have our little beans growing right now and have fingers crossed and saying lots of prayers for those of you still trying for those precious bfps. I really have a good feeling that we will all be having good news very soon cxxxxxx

 

[MrsKitty]

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[Nataliek]

Amanda, Smiler and Mrskitty,

I know all to well how you are feeling, it just isn't fair. It feels like our losses have robbed us of any positive thoughts and the ability to relax and not live in fear that something will go wrong. I know I will feel the same when I get pregnant again. I am already anticipating our next steps if the IUI doesn't work or if I have another loss, awful way to think. I know there is nothing anyone can say or do to bring you comfort but look deep in you and breathe, just hold onto every positive thought and have faith that things will be ok.

Mrskitty, you are right but honestly, my gut thought it was rushed which is another reason why I called and questioned and I am glad I did. I'm not happy with the clinic doctors not all being on the same page and plan to discuss this with my doctor when I see her on the 22nd.

 

[amanda111308]

Thank you ladies I am proud to say this morning in the shower I had my first major wave of nausea which sent me crashing out of the shower to the toilet! I know this sounds awful and nothing to be excited about but I feel like crap and couldn't be happier right now!!

 

[MrsKitty]

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[Smiler79]

Can I ask for prayers and positive vibes please ladies. Just off to drs as been getting pains in my side all day. Probably just stretching pains but very painful and pains in my side was beginning if discovery of my last miscarriage so very scared. Hubby still at work too so got to take my 3 yr old woth me

 

[Anniebobs]

Natalie it definitely sounds like it needs discussing if they can't even decide between themselves. Sucks that it means more waiting though.

Amanda yay for nausea! Enjoy every heave

I'm in that limbo stage at the moment, my nausea has pretty much gone but my next scan isn't for another 3 weeks. With my first mc my nausea stopped around 10-11 weeks and I miscarried at 13 weeks but they guessed that baby had stopped developing a few weeks earlier (it was an incomplete miscarriage by the time I got scanned). I just can't wait to get further along than that mc. I've seen baby twice but still can't shake the feeling it could all go wrong, no matter how I try and relax.

 

[Anniebobs]

Can I ask for prayers and positive vibes please ladies. Just off to drs as been getting pains in my side all day. Probably just stretching pains but very painful and pains in my side was beginning if discovery of my last miscarriage so very scared. Hubby still at work too so got to take my 3 yr old woth me

Smiler it is just stretching pains, I just know it let us know how you get on

 

[Ltruns33]

Mrs kitty what cd are you?

I am cd10, I got my positive opk today (I normally get it two days in a row). This is a day early, not sure it is to do with the new supplements but think if it means my lp is longer it is not a bad thing? Now I just have to hope dh is up to some bd

How are you feeling Amanda? Has it began to sink in yet?

Oh yay!! Positive opk means it's prime time at your house! And yes a longer lp is always a good thing

AFM I was cramping a lot last night and I am still scared silly but overall I have a pretty good feeling about this pregnancy. I'm not sure yet if I should trust this feeling because it is still SUPER early... I have a new doctor and he is amazing. He called me yesterday to offer some words of encouragement and to let me know he will order every test and sonogram I want to keep me as stress free as possible. I am incredibly grateful to have him on team baby #2 that's for sure! He has ordered weekly blood draws up to 10 weeks to keep an eye on my hcg levels at which point we will have already had the first sonogram and prenatal appointment. feeling blessed and enjoying every moment no matter what happens!

That sounds awesome and congrats!

 

[MrsKitty]

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[amanda111308]

Can I ask for prayers and positive vibes please ladies. Just off to drs as been getting pains in my side all day. Probably just stretching pains but very painful and pains in my side was beginning if discovery of my last miscarriage so very scared. Hubby still at work too so got to take my 3 yr old woth me

Smiler I am sure everything will be just fine. Don't stress hun! Will be praying for you! Keep us posted!!!

 

[Nataliek]

Smiler I am sure its growing pains, hang in there!!!!

 

[Smiler79]

Thank you ladies. Ihave been kept in hospital over night as a precaution and will be getting a scan sometime tomorrow morning. Will let you know how I get on. Cannot bear the thought of losing another baby :'-(

 

[amanda111308]

Why are they keeping you overnight? Are they doing any other testing?

 

[MrsKitty]

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[kelly1973]

hi ladies im back again reassurance scan today showed baby stopped growing at 8+6 im devastated im trying to be strong and not think abouy it I need to deciede what to do have you ladies had a d and c

 

[MrsKitty]

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[Anniebobs]

hi ladies im back again reassurance scan today showed baby stopped growing at 8+6 im devastated im trying to be strong and not think abouy it I need to deciede what to do have you ladies had a d and c

I'm so sorry for your loss. I had a d&c after waiting a week to miscarry, the bleeding was getting heavier and I was contracting but my body couldn't miscarry naturally. I was 13 weeks though so that might have been why. The d&c was great, I woke up with pretty much no pain and just had spotting for a few days. If it were to happen again I would opt for the d&c rather than wait.

 

[Smiler79]

So sorry to hear your news Kelly.

Me well had scan this morning. Baby in right place but too small to see a heartbeat yet. Measuring 5 weeks 3days when I thought I should be 6weeks 1day.

Sonography and doctor said not to worry too much as until 12 weeks it is more of an estimate due yo cycle lengths etc. they are scanningme again next Thursday to check baby has grown.

No bleeding, pain has subsided a bit and cervix is closed so all hopeful signs but still no real pregnancy symptoms so can't help feeling the worst x c