6 months + since mc and no luck getting pregnant... Come join me in the wait!!

[amanda111308]

So sorry to hear your news Kelly.

Me well had scan this morning. Baby in right place but too small to see a heartbeat yet. Measuring 5 weeks 3days when I thought I should be 6weeks 1day.

Sonography and doctor said not to worry too much as until 12 weeks it is more of an estimate due yo cycle lengths etc. they are scanningme again next Thursday to check baby has grown.

No bleeding, pain has subsided a bit and cervix is closed so all hopeful signs but still no real pregnancy symptoms so can't help feeling the worst x c

Glad to hear positive findings from your scan hun looks like our due dates may be closer together I am 5 weeks today

I woke up feeling like total crap this morning which is definitely easing my mind. I am not googling anymore miscarriage stats and stuff like that. I have nearly done my head if with the insane and silly amount of worry and stress I have caused myself.

I am going in this morning for more blood work so the doc can make sure my hcg hormone is increasing. I hope it's all good news that will come back... Very excitedly waiting for my first scan on May 29th!!! Time needs to hurry!!!

 

[amanda111308]

hi ladies im back again reassurance scan today showed baby stopped growing at 8+6 im devastated im trying to be strong and not think abouy it I need to deciede what to do have you ladies had a d and c

I am incredibly heartbroken for you Kelly :'( I am so very sorry.

 

[Smiler79]

I am really worried I am going to fall apart and never recover if I get bad news next week as scan is day after my angels due date x x x

 

[amanda111308]

I am really worried I am going to fall apart and never recover if I get bad news next week as scan is day after my angels due date x x x

Just do you best to enjoy every day you have with little bean all news is good news so far. Stressing and worrying won't help anything. Chin up love! We are all with you every step of the way!!

 

[MrsKitty]

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[LeahLou]

So sorry Kelly!
I had a d&c. It's not bad. They'll put you to sleep and scrape your uterus. I still haven't been able to conceive since other than a couple chemicals. But I don't blame it on the d&c. It'll just clean you out.

 

[amanda111308]

Did AF show up Leah?

 

[Nataliek]

Kelly, so sorry for your loss. I wish for no one to ever feel that pain. I have had a D&C also, it's not that bad at all. I am so sorry, no words are going to make you feel better right now. I hope you find some comfort in knowing we are here for you.

Try not to worry, Smiler. I know that probably seems impossible but try relax and take care of yourself.

 

[Smiler79]

Now my daughter has got bad case of chicken pox

 

[LeahLou]

Yep, stupid AF Cd 5 for me.

Oh no smiler! That's awful!

 

[amanda111308]

Oh no chicken pox are no fun! Here in Alberta Canada there have been 8 confirmed cases of measles... So freaked out to take my son anywhere... Tomorrow my little guy turns 2 and it is bittersweet for me.. He is growing so fast!

 

[Smiler79]

Looks like it is end of road for me. Started spotting a couple of he a ago and now bit mild af type tummy ache:'-( exactly how my last miscarriage started. I cannot believe this is happening again.

Think this will be it for us now as I cannot keep putting us all through it x x

 

[MrsKitty]

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[amanda111308]

Looks like it is end of road for me. Started spotting a couple of he a ago and now bit mild af type tummy ache:'-( exactly how my last miscarriage started. I cannot believe this is happening again.

Think this will be it for us now as I cannot keep putting us all through it x x

Omg... I am so freaked out now :'( I sure hope it isn't a miscarriage Smiler. Go in to the hospital and get checked. Praying so hard for you right now!!

 

[Anniebobs]

Looks like it is end of road for me. Started spotting a couple of he a ago and now bit mild af type tummy ache:'-( exactly how my last miscarriage started. I cannot believe this is happening again.

Think this will be it for us now as I cannot keep putting us all through it x x

I'm so sorry smiler, I really hope it's just a scare. Will you get a scan or have to wait for bloods?

After my third mc I know I was ready to give up but after taking a few months break felt ready to try again. Have you had any testing done to see if there was a cause for your previous mc?

 

[Smiler79]

Not been to hospital. They have said to wait And see if bleeding gets heavier won't move scan forward as only had one Thursday. Still only spotting hut blood is getting brighter and Pain is getting gradually worse. Not hopeful at all.

Sorry to freak you out amanda

 

[Nataliek]

Oh Smiler I am so sorry you are going through this, I know its easier said than done but try to think positively. It could be just a scare, I had that with my son when I was around 7 weeks and I didn't lose. I even passed a piece of what looked like tissue and I thought for sure that was it. Hang in there, rest and take it easy. We are thinking of you xoxo

 

[Fairydust22]

I'm so sorry your going through this smiler I have everything crossed for you xx

 

[amanda111308]

Not been to hospital. They have said to wait And see if bleeding gets heavier won't move scan forward as only had one Thursday. Still only spotting hut blood is getting brighter and Pain is getting gradually worse. Not hopeful at all.

Sorry to freak you out amanda

I wrote the wrong thing don't worry hun I am not freaking out for myself. I just want everything to turn out ok with you and your little bean. Chin up hun. My younger sister had pain and severe bleeding when she was pregnant with her daughter. She stood up out of bed one morning to go to the bathroom and she had bright red blood pouring out. It scared the hell out of her but everything turned out ok. Just get a lot of rest and don't overthink anything until you have your doctor weigh in. Please take car love!!

 

[Smiler79]

It is definitely over :,-( going in for a scan tomorrow but that us just to make sure that everything has gone. I am beyond devastated