6 months + since mc and no luck getting pregnant... Come join me in the wait!!

[MrsKitty]

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[amanda111308]

Hi ladies just popping in to say hi and to catch up on everyone's news.

Keeping my fingers crossed for you miss kitty and Natalie.

Kel I have been keeping up to date woth your story on another thread.

How is Amanda doin. Good to see things are good woth you Annie.

As for me I got first af after miscarriage on sat which is exactly three weeks since miscarriage bleeding stopped. I have mixed feelings about af as cramps and bleeding bring back memories of miscarriage and next week Is 4 years since I lost my first angel but good side is I my body is ready to try again if I want to.

Went to see gp and they won't refer me for tests until I have had had a third consequtive miscarriage. They ran some routine bloods which I should get back wed but otherwise no help what so ever.

I am still very torn about ttc again. I have always seem myself with two children and am desperate to be pregnant again but on other hard I am not sure if I could cope woth the heartbreak of another loss xxxxxx

Smiler!! I am so happy to see you back here! I have been praying for and thinking of you so much these past few weeks. Very happy to hear of your first AF coming nice and timely to help resume the moving forward.

We are all rooting for you hun! But with that said ttc when you are ready. It does take more time to be ready emotionally and we can all totally level with the fears of getting pregnant again and facing another potential loss. I am still having a hard time tbh...

AFM today I am 9 + 4 and feel pretty gross still but I will not complain. I am stressed about our big move this week on Friday into our first family home. It's supposed to rain and storm all weekend... Of course... Oh well I am on toddler duty so I won't be doing too much. My husband and some more family are coming to help us. My hubs cut his foot open pretty bad this morning though so so am not sure how smooth it will all be...

Mrskitty so excited for you and hoping your bfp is on the horizon!! You really do have great willpower to not test like crazy! However when I was staying away from testing at the end of April I tested on 14dpo and voila! Blazing bfp on an frer! Fingers crossed tightly for you!!

Natalie when do you plan on testing??

 

[Nataliek]

I think we are all the same, if it makes you feel better and gives you a sense of control, why can't we test? I know its likely better for your emotional state of mind to hold out but still, I would be doing the same thing. You have done amazing getting through these past two weeks and have been so strong!! It's always the last couple of days that get me.

Smiler so happy to hear from you. Mrskitty is right, it is crap that the doctors wont do anything right now. I just hate that and I don't understand. It is just so unfair. I am so glad you are here, we will support you all the way.

I am a nervous wreck this morning, just so scared of something going wrong again. I feel like it would almost be a relief if I wasn't pregnant, which is awful I know.

 

[Anniebobs]

Smiler great to see you back. Deciding when to ttc is a difficult one. I was the same as Natalie, I'd be that worried about actually being pregnant during the tww that it sort of felt like a relief when AF came. Though obviously I was disappointed at the same time. Maybe I wasn't ready to ttc, but I survived 3 mcs in a row and came out the other side (hopefully).

 

[kelly1973]

Smiler so nice to see you on here lets do this together lets get that bfp we will be fine im sure, it helps to be on here everyone knows what you are going through, massive hugs lovely lady.
Nat I really do feel for you I haven't been through half of what you have gone through and it scares the crap out of me getting pregnant but at the same point I want it more then anything, you will be fine you have us and we are all behind youxxx

Amanda I hope you feel better soon I think my sickness started to go at 10 weeks when the placenta starts to take over.
well ive hopefully got some progesterone coming if and when I get my bfp I think I will take it as sounds like it does no harm anyway,im bit nervous it will make me sick as I have a phobia that's what was so hard with the last mc I was so ill and they say the sicker you are the better well it didn't work for me

 

[kelly1973]

wow Kelly that was a big post lol sorry ladies

 

[Nataliek]

Amanda so excited for you to move into your new house!!! All new beginnings for you!! Sorry you are feeling so crappy, I was the same way until I hit almost 4 months with my son. You are almost in the home stretch of the first trimester, won't be long now!!!

Kelly post away as long as you want!! I hear you on the side effects, that's the main reason I am not using the progesterone. I do not want those side effects but if this doesn't work out and they tell me to use it, I will.

 

[MrsKitty]

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[Smiler79]

Kel where did you get your progesterone from and is it expensive? I am unsure whether to try anything except for aspirin again if and when we ttc again and if and when we fall pregnant again xx

 

[Nataliek]

Mrskitty I would get a first response, I had a beta level of 11 and I had the faintest positive. Oh I hate it when it does this, it's like either give me a bfp or let af come. I am the queen of tests lol, the cheap ones I don't like because they only seem to work if your beta is fairly high.

 

[MrsKitty]

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[kelly1973]

mrs kitty I always find smu to be better for me when im early pregnant I have some really sensitive ones if you don't get any the ones they use nhs I could send you some
smiler I have a friend going abroad shes going to get some I can get her to get you some if she can xxxx

 

[MrsKitty]

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[Nataliek]

Beta is your hcg level, it's used more in fertility treatment. Most pregnancy tests require you to have a beta level of 25 miu or more to get a positive, even first response says you have to have at least 25 but I have always gotten a faint positive if its lower!! The digitals typically don't work unless you are at 40 miu and above. I am practically a reproductive scientist now haha. I would definitely get a FR!!! I know how crazy this can make you lol. I always get like that at the very end.

 

[MrsKitty]

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[Nataliek]

I sometimes feel like I know too much!!! lol. I remember with my son I was like oh I'm pregnant, well that makes sense because I could barely stomach my morning coffee all week prior to finding out! I don't even think I saw my doctor for a week after that, why does it all have to be so hard now?

Mrskitty I will be waiting for your updates!!! I am praying this is it for you, I hope hope hope the FR gives us good news!!

 

[kelly1973]

me too cant wait to hear your news mrs kitty I have learnt a lot from another reacurrent thread I go on and they say not to use progesterone until you get your bfp and all through first tri as I think it can mess your cycles up x
I learn a lot from you nat its nice to know
afm at the mo im getting tmi alert loads of cm I mean tons and its smeared slightly I wish I knew what was going on

 

[Nataliek]

Oh another thing I know is that CM is an indication that your estrogen is rising. Which it it does around ovulation time and I believe right before AF. I am a fountain of knowledge! Lol mrskitty any updates? Hope you are hanging in xo

 

[MrsKitty]

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[Anniebobs]

Mrs kitty sorry for the bfn. When was your positive opk? And how long is your lp usually? Hoping you're just still too early for a bfp