6 months + since mc and no luck getting pregnant... Come join me in the wait!!

[MrsKitty]

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[Nataliek]

Oh mrskitty I'm sorry, I hate when it does that. Try not to be too concerned, i think it's pretty normal for our cycles to get out of whack every now and then. Doesn't make it any easier when your mind is playing tricks on you I know. When I was pg last time I didn't get a bfp until two days after I was due for af.

 

[MrsKitty]

.ut that just stressed me. I certainly need to get past 28 days before I get alarmed I guess.

 

[Smiler79]

Thank you for the offer Kelly. How much would it be ? If you don't want to discuss money stuff in here then please feel free to pm me.

Miss kitty so sorry your af is mucking you about.

How are you holding up nat?

 

[Anniebobs]

Mrs kitty if you ovulated late you would only be due AF today based on a 12 day lp. After my mcs I ranged from a 24 day cycle to 27 days, but lp was always the same. Before I always had a 25 day cycle so I think the mcs just messed up my cycles. Maybe it's the same for you. Although I hope it's just a shy bfp. Hope you get an answer soon either way.

 

[MrsKitty]

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[kelly1973]

mrs kitty also when I got pregnant with Daniel at 13dpo I got a bfn then at 14dpo there it was so its still not over yet im keeping everything crossed for you.
smiler I don't know yet she will let me know when she is out there.
ok ladies I have tons of cm and for the last two days my temp has risen could I have ovulated? nat??

 

[Nataliek]

Hmmm possibly?? I don't temp, only go by cm and OPKs along with midcycle spotting. It is entirely possible that you may have. Have you been back to have your blood taken to see what your levels are at?

Mrskitty I agree with Anniebobs, I had the exact same thing with my son. I even had bleeding and thought it was my period so I never tested again. Then a week later I realized I only had a two day period and my coffee tasted like crap lol. I am still holding out hope for you.

Smiler, I am ok thanks for asking. Trying hard to be patient no matter how tough it is!! How are you feeling?

 

[kelly1973]

they wont do blood testing here you are left to get on with it arrrh I hate the system here at times.
nat how many dpo are you

 

[MrsKitty]

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[Nataliek]

if it's not here tomorrow maybe you should test again? If you ovulated late you never know, our bodies are so complicated sometimes.

I can't believe they don't do bloodwork, Kelly. They should be making sure you are back to zero and following up with you. Can you request it? Just for your own piece of mind.

This is the longest tww ever!!! I am still maintaining that it won't be successful, I think it's safer for me to feel that way.

 

[MrsKitty]

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[Nataliek]

Yes, it is the worst lol. Today I feel more relaxed but Mon/Tues/Wed were very long days. I think because the weekend is coming up I know it will go fast (they always do) I will be closer to knowing one way or another. I was going to wait until bloodwork next Friday but I am not going to do that. I am going to use a FR Thursday morning then again on Friday. I think that is a reasonable deal I have made myself

I think for sure if you don't get your period by Saturday, test again. I am honestly hoping and praying this is your BFP on its way, I think its entirely possible esp if you ovulated later than expected. Hang in there, even though I know its impossible!!!

 

[Anniebobs]

I agree with Natalie, you're definitely late now so it's very possible you're pregnant! Really hoping AF stays away now!

 

[MrsKitty]

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[Anniebobs]

So sorry she's on her way mrs kitty. I think an appointment is definitely a good idea at this point, just to have the discussion about your options. Maybe it could just give you that boost you need to get a sticky baby.

 

[Nataliek]

Mrskitty, I think IUI could be an excellent option for you!! The first cycle is a little bit of an experiment with the medication, if you decide to take medication to help ovulation. I ovulate on my own, however, the goal was to produce two eggs to boost our chances of conceiving with more than one. I was on a very conservative dose, as they have to monitor you to see how you respond to them. I only made one egg this cycle and now that we know how I responded to the low dose, they can increase if I need to do it again next cycle. I opted for injectables as the side effects are low, I had none. I am one of those people that hates taking any kind of medication but our natural approach wasn't working so I am willing to give this a shot.

Most clinics will recommend you try IUI 3 times before moving onto IVF, I think you should definitely give it a try. It will bring you so much peace knowing you have a plan in place, that was the biggest thing for me. It gave me a sense of control when things were so out of control. I am so sorry this wasn't your month, I was so hoping we would get some good news on here. IUI was a welcomed break for us, there was no pressure around ovulation time!

 

[MrsKitty]

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[kelly1973]

so sorry mrs kitty I know how you feel im 41 and I feel like time is running out I think nat talks great sense this ttc is such a rollercoaster massive hugs xxx

 

[MrsKitty]

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