6 months + since mc and no luck getting pregnant... Come join me in the wait!!

[MrsKitty]

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[Nataliek]

Kelly are you trying naturally or going the IVF route? Good for you taking care of yourself, gets your blood flow going. Very good to help you conceive!

Mrskitty I totally understand you feeling nervous. I was that way with my iui and it was not invasive at all. I know its so very hard but just keep yourself focused on the end goal, your take home rainbow baby in your arms. You can do this!


Brighteyez, great news about your clinic having such a high success rate, that is very positive! Have you conceived in the past? Sorry, I haven't read through the posts if you have already mentioned.

It is amazing what science can do, helping to create families. I find it all so fascinating lol

 

[brighteyez73]

Nat - I have 4 kids, 3 boys and 1 girl ages range from 21 to 13. I conceived last September and lost the baby in December.

 

[Nataliek]

Im so sorry Brighteyez, loss is one of the worst experiences any woman can ever experience. If you don't mind me asking, if you have conceived and have children, why the IVF route? The reason I ask is because I have a similar situation. I have two children from a previous marriage and never any problems, text book perfect pregnancies. With my current husband I have had two miscarriages and an ectopic in February this year. We cannot figure out with the problem is, apparently we are totally healthy. Hoping I don't need to go the IVF route but one day it could be a reality.

 

[kelly1973]

Kelly are you trying naturally or going the IVF route? Good for you taking care of yourself, gets your blood flow going. Very good to help you conceive!

Mrskitty I totally understand you feeling nervous. I was that way with my iui and it was not invasive at all. I know its so very hard but just keep yourself focused on the end goal, your take home rainbow baby in your arms. You can do this!


Brighteyez, great news about your clinic having such a high success rate, that is very positive! Have you conceived in the past? Sorry, I haven't read through the posts if you have already mentioned.

It is amazing what science can do, helping to create families. I find it all so fascinating lol

no just the natural way for me oh is not very understanding when it comes to this and wouldn't go down that route he has children already from another marriage so sometimes think that hes fine with it as hes had the children he wanted I will keep trying hopefully it will happen

 

[brighteyez73]

No problem I don't mind sharing. We have 4 3boys and 1 girl ranging from 13 to 21. I now have a right blocked tube and my husband now has low sperm count, motility and morphology.

Im so sorry Brighteyez, loss is one of the worst experiences any woman can ever experience. If you don't mind me asking, if you have conceived and have children, why the IVF route? The reason I ask is because I have a similar situation. I have two children from a previous marriage and never any problems, text book perfect pregnancies. With my current husband I have had two miscarriages and an ectopic in February this year. We cannot figure out with the problem is, apparently we are totally healthy. Hoping I don't need to go the IVF route but one day it could be a reality.

 

[MrsKitty]

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[Nataliek]

My fingers are crossed for you Mrskitty, I hope you can get this show on the road soon. We certainly have to stock up on patience during this whole process!

I'm 9dpo and 99% positive I'm getting my period this weekend. I am getting my usual pms symptoms and my cervix is super low and hard, classic AF sign for me! I'm ok though surprisingly. I will probably have a little meltdown the day before and day of AF but there's another try right around the corner

 

[MrsKitty]

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[kelly1973]

hey mrs kitty hope you are ok how did you get on today? fingers crossed all went well x
Nat really hope the witch doesn't turn up.
looks like im not going to ovulate this month as got a plus opk but not a temp rise so not looking good

 

[amanda111308]

Hey ladies, I hope everyone is well. I am currently on a temporary sick leave from work until I can be reevaluated next Monday to see if my poor broke ass body can handle working anymore. I had some bleeding due to my placenta previa and my blood pressure is already on the rise.

Baby is a happy little clam in there though. I am constantly punched and jabbed so I will take that as a good sign.

Wishing you all a beautiful bfp very soon. You all deserve it so much! Love you all!!

 

[MrsKitty]

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[Smiler79]

Hey ladies . He ttc works out for all you ladies soon. Sorry to hear you are off sock Amanda but can't believe you have reached 25 weeks already.
Sorry I haven't been around much. Started my new job on 4th September 3 days a week so exhausted woth getting used to be back at work and the routine. I have to drop hubbyatstayionat 6.30,get Imogen to nursery for 8am and then straight to work for 8.30!!! Imogen is also struggling with three days a week at nursery. She did two days before but they were either end of the week. Nowshe does mon tues andthirsdays and is sooooooo tired and grumpy on a Wednesday!!!!

As for me I am now almost 15 weeks and for some reason nausea seems to be getting worse not better. Wondering if it is linked to going back to work and being so tired but it is quite inconvenient esp as work don't know I'm pregnant yet. I am hoping to tell them after my16 week scan if I ever get an appt.

I had a scan at 12 weeks but baby was lying wrong way so they booked me in for another scan 10 days later but baby still lying the wrong way so haven't got a due date and haven't had nuchal fold measurement done. They said they need to scan me at16 weeks as by then my uterus should be out of my pelvis and ababy should have had room to turn. It had to be done at 16 weeks as last opportunity to get nuchal measurement. I am not bothered as it won't. Hange outcome of pregnancy but my husband needs figures so he can prepare himself of there is a risk of disability.

Sorry for long message xx

 

[kelly1973]

mrs kitty I am so sorry I would be so disappointed to yes its only a month but such a long time to wait when you want something so bad I really hope the month passes quickly for both of us so we can get this show on the road, I hope oh is ok mind xxx
Amanda sorry you are on sick leave lots of rest my dear xxx
hey smiler glad you are ok time is flying fast xx

 

[Nataliek]

Girls so sorry to read and not comment but I just took my last opk test as I am 12dpo and it's a positive smiley. I have only ever gotten a positive smiley when I'm pregnant, never had one when I'm not before af. I am so nervous that it's faulty or something. I am going to get a pg test on my way to work.

 

[amanda111308]

Girls so sorry to read and not comment but I just took my last opk test as I am 12dpo and it's a positive smiley. I have only ever gotten a positive smiley when I'm pregnant, never had one when I'm not before af. I am so nervous that it's faulty or something. I am going to get a pg test on my way to work.

Omg!! Yes!! Test test test!! I feel like this could be it Natalie!! Keep us posted!! When do you think you will test?? Today?? Lol

Is it obvious how excited I am for you? Lol

 

[Nataliek]

Lol I just got a bfn. I mean stark white. Not sure why I would have gotten a positive opk this morning I have never had that before AF. I'm a litle mad at myself for even letting myself go there and getting slightly excited. Af should be right on time on sat/sun.

 

[amanda111308]

Aww damn �� well maybe it's just not concentrated enough? I am still holding out hope for you love!

 

[Nataliek]

i always get so anxious the final few days, I had fully expected to see the opk negative this morning. Not sure if I am having another surge or what. I hate that I let myself get my hopes up!

 

[MrsKitty]

i always get so anxious the final few days, I had fully expected to see the opk negative this morning. Not sure if I am having another surge or what. I hate that I let myself get my hopes up!

I would wait and check again, I know you can get positive opks when pregnant but imagine the reaction is different to a pregnancy test. Will still keep my fingers crossed for you. I am waiting for my af too but pretty sure it will arrive as not sure ovulated and not much bd.