6 months + since mc and no luck getting pregnant... Come join me in the wait!!

[Nataliek]

Mrskitty I am so so sorry you have to wait a month, I know what that's like. It totally stinks, I am sorry you are sad. I wish we could all just get pregnant already and move on from all this pain and disappointment!

 

[MrsKitty]

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[Nataliek]

ugh, really? That was like me when I had the ectopic. I had to wait 3 months. I remember going in the one month all geared up to start my iui and they told me I had to wait until next cycle. It is a huge blow, one that is very difficult to cope with at times. I can't help but feel there is a greater reason for all of this, but maybe I am just being silly. I have said that a few times to my DH and he says the same, he isn't ready to give up and we can get through this. I need to hear it sometimes too.

I can feel I am getting my period anytime from tomorrow to Sunday and my mood is plummeting!

 

[MrsKitty]

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[kelly1973]

nat I had that last month the day before af I got a dam positive on opk ive no idea why it happened.
mrs kitty so sorry its now 2 months that sucks I know what you mean I wish this cycle would just jog on as oh was ill wen I got my plus opk and still is and I still haven't got my crosshairs on my chart so don't think I ov anyway just want to move onto the next cycle now

 

[Bug222]

hi ladies. do you mind a new name around here? I had an early MC in January then another at 9+5 in May. Still trying hard to get pregnant again but not having any luck.

 

[kelly1973]

bug sorry you have to join our thread the ladies on here are fab lets hope we all get our bfp soon

 

[Anniebobs]

Bug sorry to hear about your losses, I really hope that rainbow is just around the corner for you. I'm one of the success stories - 3 m/cs and it looks like I'm getting my rainbow - but as you can see there's still people trying in here.

Nat Im so sorry it was a neg. maybe you just need to try with fmu? Really hope this is your month!

Mrs kitty I'm so sorry your husbands health issues mean you need to wait. I had to wait 3 months (not enforced, just so I could clear my head while waiting for test results) last winter and it felt like the longest time ever at first so I put all my energy and focus into my work and my running. It really helped me get through it, plus because of all the exercise I was eating better and I've carried those habits right through this pregnancy.

I'm just back from a holiday in Cyprus, it was amazing. We went for a friends wedding but it was also DDs first abroad holiday. Loved it! Need to get another booked but don't know when we'll be up to it with 2!

I'm still running and GD is under control. Baby is measuring a week ahead and breech but have another growth scan in a few weeks so will know more then about when/if I'll be induced.

 

[kelly1973]

wow anniebobs your still running well done you, ive just started it been running for two weeks now I def feel better I run every other day do you think this is enough?

 

[Anniebobs]

Kelly I try for every other day as well. Just do what you can and you'll feel better each week. It's the best therapy ever, it definitely got be through ttc.

 

[Smiler79]

Sorry you have had to join us bug222 but we are a lovely bunch of ladies. Don't think I could have got through this horrible process without these lovely ladies.

I have my 16 week scan booked for next Sunday 28th , the day before hubby heads to japan for three weeks if all ok at this scan I think I am going to be brave and tell work. I wil have been there three weeks by them and everyone seems pleased with how I am doing. Could wait a bit longer but hate keepi g secrets and don't want them to think badly if me for not telling them.

Anniebobs I am trying in awe of you still running at 30weeks. Also can't believe we will have the first rainbow of the group with us soon!!

Amanda how are you doing now?

Still got my fingers crossed for you Natalie. And miss kitty and Kelly hope your rainbows are just round the corner x x x

 

[Mrs W 11]

Hey bug

 

[MrsKitty]

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[Nataliek]

Bug I am so sorry you find yourself here but you've come to the right thread, this is a wonderful group of supportive ladies who will help you through it! I am sorry for your losses.

Anniebobs you're an inspiration! I know what you mean about exercise being therapeutic, I have been back in the gym 4 days a week and it's really helped me cope. I can't wait for you to have your bean!!

Kelly, stupid opk!! I am so mad I did that but it was garbage day and I only had one left so I thought, why not? So frustrating.

Smiler so happy your job is going well. I'm sure they will be understanding, even though it is nerve wracking it will all be ok.

Mrskitty I am so hoping you don't get AF, we need some good news on this thread.

Took another frer this morning, stark white neg. I can tell with 99% certainty my period is going to roll in tomorrow or Sunday. I will be fine once I get it and I can move on to the next one!

 

[Bug222]

Thanks ladies! Xxx
Hi mrs W!!!!

 

[Anniebobs]

Thanks everyone, I am amazed I'm still able to do it if I'm honest. Was sure by the time the big bump came along I'd have stopped! Mrs kitty you should definitely get started again, it's the easiest sport to fit in because you can do it almost anywhere! Nat I'm sure it's the focusing on something else that helps put problems into perspective. Then once you've finished you get the endorphin high making those problems not seem so bad. I really don't think id have come out the other side from those mcs without focusing on running.

 

[kelly1973]

im sick so unable to run cant wait to get back on it

 

[Anniebobs]

im sick so unable to run cant wait to get back on it

I go by the 'under the neck' rule, so you can still run with a cold but don't run with a chest infection. Hope you get better soon

 

[MrsKitty]

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[kelly1973]

thanks ladies I really feel too poo to run I will start again on Monday Daniel has it too hes all bunged up poor wee man