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Hello everyone -just needed to vent my frustration on cyberspace!! You may want to read and run!! (but I need to write it down)
It is 6 weeks on since MMC, I have been doing so well, started back at work last week , went well on the whole, have just finished first AF, booked a holiday, couple of shows, things booked and was really poistive
But the last few days, I don't know what the bloody hell has happened! I am soo tearful, angry, snappy and feel really shitty, everything is bugging me. I have flash backs to the physical procedure following the MMC, I am really grieving my little baby, the thought his/her little heart stopped beating really cuts me up. I really wanted AF to come, but when it did, it just hammered home the fact I AM NOT PREGNANT ANYMORE!! - does this make sense? I thought I would be ready to TTC again following this, but I feel absolutely petrified at the prospect of enduring those first twelve weeks, a scan would scare the hell out of me and I am scared of another loss. I am forty so don't have age on my side, and soo want another child, but all positive thoughts seemed to have gone AWOL, I just can't see it happening.
On top of this, DH has a very bitter - deranged Ex wife, who quite honestly has been a pain in the rear for the last six years, kicking off yet again because we have asked my DH /their son to join us on holiday - a holiday that I don't really want but we think we need - we weren't going on holiday because we were having a baby!! I can't stand the woman!!
If you are still reading - is it normal to feel this way or have I totally lost it?!!
How do I get back to being positive, and have the strength to TTC again?
It is 6 weeks on since MMC, I have been doing so well, started back at work last week , went well on the whole, have just finished first AF, booked a holiday, couple of shows, things booked and was really poistive
But the last few days, I don't know what the bloody hell has happened! I am soo tearful, angry, snappy and feel really shitty, everything is bugging me. I have flash backs to the physical procedure following the MMC, I am really grieving my little baby, the thought his/her little heart stopped beating really cuts me up. I really wanted AF to come, but when it did, it just hammered home the fact I AM NOT PREGNANT ANYMORE!! - does this make sense? I thought I would be ready to TTC again following this, but I feel absolutely petrified at the prospect of enduring those first twelve weeks, a scan would scare the hell out of me and I am scared of another loss. I am forty so don't have age on my side, and soo want another child, but all positive thoughts seemed to have gone AWOL, I just can't see it happening.
On top of this, DH has a very bitter - deranged Ex wife, who quite honestly has been a pain in the rear for the last six years, kicking off yet again because we have asked my DH /their son to join us on holiday - a holiday that I don't really want but we think we need - we weren't going on holiday because we were having a baby!! I can't stand the woman!!
If you are still reading - is it normal to feel this way or have I totally lost it?!!
How do I get back to being positive, and have the strength to TTC again?