I have arthritis too, although it's not RA. My SIL has extremely severe RA and has had every treatment under the sun to try and get it under control. One of the most common treatments is methotrexate, which a lot of women here will know as the drug they're given to medically manage a miscarriage, so I'm guessing that's the one that's a big no no.
Have you been refered to a rheumatologist? If so when you speak to them, just tell them that you're TTC and don't want to take anything that will affect any pregnancy and they'll try and recommend some different drugs, although they may not be as effective at controlling your symptoms. My SIL has had accupunture and a TENS machine which helped her in the short term.
There are some good arthritis support sites, it might be worth having a look for one of them that has a forum and you can speak to someone else in your situation. Arthritis Care is a good site but I don't think it has a forum. Apparently once you do get pregnant your arthritis can go into remission although it comes back once you've given birth, I wasn't pregnant long enough to really see but I'm sure I was a bit better.
thankyou so much for getting back in touch with me.
yeah she wanted to put me on methotrexate but as you know there is no way i can go on it. she as said somthing about a low steroid to try but if it gets anyworse i will have to go on the methotrexate
i was wondering if it is known if ra can cause mc ???????????
i will go and have a look at some sites
RA is an auto-immune disease and therefore there can be other underlying auto-immune conditions that 'may' be causing the MC. Perhaps they can check for "sticky blood" symptoms to start with?
Steroid (Prednisolone) is often used to treat but the side-effects can be unpleasant in the long run. I've been on prednisolone (for lupus) since 2004, a real life-saver but side-effects are starting to show!!
Remember to speak to your doctor on other options available in view of TTC.
It is hard but don't give up!