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[Madu]

being married for nearly 4 years, baby 6 months old and ive decided i can do it anymore. his parents did it, they finally got rid of me. I'm not able to fight them anymore. Filling for divorce today...

 

[Serene123]

 

[codegirl]

 

[xXDonnaXx]

x x x x

 

[Alexas Mommy]

 

[asacia]

Sorry to hear that things are difficult. Have you explained why you feel you have to do this to your husband? Have you considered relationship counselling?

 

[dreams]

thinking of you x

 

[Madu]

been seeing councellor, not much of a help to be honest. situation is very difficult, i have a postanetal depression which doesnt help. i've tried to deal with it but it is too much. somethimes lov is not enough

 

[asacia]

been seeing councellor, not much of a help to be honest. situation is very difficult, i have a postanetal depression which doesnt help. i've tried to deal with it but it is too much. somethimes lov is not enough

Depression does make things a lot more complicated. I've had a lot of 'downs' in my marriage because of my depression.

Is the counsellor specifically for the depression? Would relationship counselling with someone like Relate help? It can be very hard for a partner to deal with depression, and a lot of men don't like to talk about things. Counselling might help you communicate better and perhaps work out a way to make things work?

Is your husband aware of the problem between his parents and you? Have you tried sitting down and talking things through with them - find out exactly why they aren't happy, and work out a way to resolve the problem?

One thing I would advise, is to not rush any major descisons while you are depressed. You are entitled to take as much time and space as you need, but make sure you don't do anything hasty while you are unwell.

Have you spoken to your doctor about the possibility of medication or therapy?

 

[navarababe]

:hugs thinking of u x

 

[sue08]

aww sorry to hear that