8 weeks ago i left 3rd trimester so imagine my shock when i find out im preg again

[traceyt30 x]

Omg help my son is 8 weeks today I found out yesterday im pregnant not plannd at all at my 6 weeks check I askd ti b sterilizd , im in shock n so confused , but a little excited too xx just hope I dont get hyperemesis again cant go through that , I feel like an adiot n so stupid dunno how to tell my family , they wont b happy as im not with the dad we split up b4 our son was born, oh god what a mess , but a happy one as a new lil baby is on the way xxxx

 

[gemalems]

Congrats hunni hope you'll have a happy and healthy 9 months. The family will just have to deal

 

[AllStar]

Congratulations!! It might be hard work but think how close they'll be when they're older. Happy and healthy 9 months x

 

[swood9]

Omg help my son is 8 weeks today I found out yesterday im pregnant not plannd at all at my 6 weeks check I askd ti b sterilizd , im in shock n so confused , but a little excited too xx just hope I dont get hyperemesis again cant go through that , I feel like an adiot n so stupid dunno how to tell my family , they wont b happy as im not with the dad we split up b4 our son was born, oh god what a mess , but a happy one as a new lil baby is on the way xxxx

Ah, this same thing happened to my best friend. The split and all. She is happy and well and so are her children. Although her family wasn't stoked about the situation, they were excited about the baby!

 

[traceyt30 x]

thanks I know this will b hard even more so as a single mum but I have a 12 year old daughter too , work wont b happy go back for 8 weeks then bac in mat leave , I think children bring more love and happiness then a man ever could x

 

[lili_angel]

You know what honey, it is a case of tough for work & your family will just have to suck it up & be happy for you! It is about you & your children. Big hugs!! Xxx

 

[luckybreak]

Oh my congratulations on a new miracle on its way but let me get this clear, your hubby left you while pregnant but came back for a night of fun and got you pregnant again? So he is probably won't be helping you either? Wow you have a wonderful outlook good for you

 

[mrsirish]

heya i got preg when my first baby was just 8 weeks also, you will b fine us women are built to handle this! also i had hypermesis with my first and i have to say my 2nd baby i wasnt too bad at all x

 

[DollPosse]

Congrats! I know this is not what you were expecting but it is nice to be pleasantly surprised.

 

[xAmiixLouisex]

Wow! Congrats!

I hope you don't mind me asking. But you said you split with the father before your son was born. Is it the same father this time? Sorry if I seem out of line, I'm not judging or anything like that. It was just nagging at me . Tell me to pee off if you like. I know it's none of my business lol.

 

[PoodleMommy]

CONGRATS!!!! This is a dumb question, but I know hCG can linger in the body for months after a miscarriage; not sure if that's true of pregnancy too. How can you tell whether it's not left-over hCG from the pregnancy? or did they do an ultrasound and see a new sac or baby in there?

 

[bklove]

definitly crazy! But that last question was a good one?? either way, good luck to you.

 

[traceyt30 x]

hey , lol no its fine yeah its the same dad its complicated why we are together n would both like to b , he is a gd dad c his son 5/6 tiimes aweek pays for him n helps me as much as I let him , but hope in the future when his issues are sortd we can try again xx if not we wil have two beautiful children and I will carry on helpin him to be in there lives x yes I am a 30 year old women still scared to tell any1 I know they will be dissapointd and upset that I let this happen ,but it has n in 8 months I will b meetin my new lil baby xxx

 

[traceyt30 x]

Hey I thought of that but I knew b4 I did test that I was as being preg is so fresh in my mind u cant mistake that sicky feelin , funny smellin wee , n thrush all my classic pregnancy signs .

 

[shady]

My middle kids are 10 months and 3 wks apt. They are both the same age for 2 months lol

 

[keepontrying]

WOW!!!! Congratulations..... its meant be so ride with it. Good luck, take is easy xxxx

 

[Teeny]

wow congrats, it seems like your looking forward to your new bundle of joy!

 

[katstar]

wow - congrats hun. my lo was 8 months when i found out i was pregnant with this one and i was mega shocked. I was also affriad to tell family. My family was over the moon but oh's parents were like little volcanos. his sister is well excited and was happy. It may not be as bad as you think.

As with work. I was due back in november this year but asked for 3 years off instead. I would have been going back for 4 months before leaving for mat leave again but i would not get maternity pay due to not doing 26 weeks after my return so whats the point. They are still deciding on my career break.

Good luck hun. xxx