This is a really strange question but I really need advice. I've been really good friends with this woman since I was 18. We met a few years back and she's always had my back. I came from a very crappy home and whenever I was down she helped me back up. I came from a pretty rough family and if it hadn't of been for her saving me frok such an environment I would have ended up in jail or worse. And I was there for her throughout her divorce and throughout her tough times. There's never really been anything more than that given our age difference, though I've tried before.lol
Anyway, we caught up earlier this week and I told her about how I finally finished school and was going into work with my brother. After, She told me that her fertility doctor told her that she didn't have very many eggs left. She actually got teary eyed when she told me that her ex had put off having kids so long and that now she might not be able to. I told her that she could always adopt or find a sperm donar. At which point she asked me if I would be her donor. Saying that she doesn't want some random stranger to do it and if the procedure fails the first few times (If we took the invitro route) I could still be around. I said yes on instict given the moment and now I'm wondering if I made the right choice. I'm not regreting it but I'm just thinking about how big a choice this is. She's gorgeous and could really have any guy she wanted and wants me to be her donar. I honestly have never thought of having kids but I think she'd be a great mom. I really don't care about financially supporting the baby if need be or anything else since it would be my baby too. On top of everything I feel like I owe her for what she's done for me. I just need some advice, any advice? We've agreed to meet up after new years to discuss this in detail, so anything is helpful. Thank you in advance.
Anyway, we caught up earlier this week and I told her about how I finally finished school and was going into work with my brother. After, She told me that her fertility doctor told her that she didn't have very many eggs left. She actually got teary eyed when she told me that her ex had put off having kids so long and that now she might not be able to. I told her that she could always adopt or find a sperm donar. At which point she asked me if I would be her donor. Saying that she doesn't want some random stranger to do it and if the procedure fails the first few times (If we took the invitro route) I could still be around. I said yes on instict given the moment and now I'm wondering if I made the right choice. I'm not regreting it but I'm just thinking about how big a choice this is. She's gorgeous and could really have any guy she wanted and wants me to be her donar. I honestly have never thought of having kids but I think she'd be a great mom. I really don't care about financially supporting the baby if need be or anything else since it would be my baby too. On top of everything I feel like I owe her for what she's done for me. I just need some advice, any advice? We've agreed to meet up after new years to discuss this in detail, so anything is helpful. Thank you in advance.