A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[lexi374]

Omg im so mad i just wrote a huge post and deleted it by mistake! Right ill try and remember now.....

Kmp so sorry you are having a shit time of it, i hope june is here before you know it, and you have patiently and nikki for company that month!

Soop damn those bfns i just looked at your chart and thought you were in there this month! Im sorry hun.

Emme hope you are holding up ok?

Notoptimistic any news?

Thurl did the witch arrive?

Wookie time to start the bdathon soon?

Patiently it does look like temps are on the way up for you, did yu have ov signs?

Nsn i hope you enjoy the baby show

Lady any news?

Im sorry if i missed ya im sure you were included first time round lol!!

Afm feeling so exhausted this week! Keep waking up which doesnt help and also weird dreams! Thurs night dreamt we were at scan and baby only had 1 foot!!! Ive no idea where that came from! Im still freaking out on a daily basis, pals is so hard!!

Symptoms for any1 that wants to know... tired, hungry, boobs only a little tender on sides and queasy on and off but not so bad im actually going to be sick or anything. And all of these come and go just to scare the crap out of me even more!! Happy saturday ladies! xxx

 

[patiently]

Thurl yay for painless AF! and 28 day cycle. Come on BFP next cycle!

Lexi happy 8 weeks!!

KMP sorry about you having to wait again i hope time really flies by for you and that you will join me in June for our JUNE BFP'S. Hope your surgery goes well and you have a speedy recovery hun.

Soop sorry about your bfn, test again in a couple of days. If bfn again I hope we will all be lucky in JUNE! Im feeling that June will be a lucky month for a lot of us.

Nikki happy 4dpo lol...hope your having a fab weekend, and that your one BD will be your BFP BD.

Emme happy 4 weeks!

AFM im feeling pretty good today!!! YAY! but so confused with my chart i dont know whats going on. Three weeks and 3 days to go! Come on JUNE to all x

 

[Nicki123]

Oo Soop so sorry about the BFN and that you had a little cry it's so crap when you know you've done everything you can. But I really think June is going to be amazing for lots of us. I hope you're feeling better now and can enjoy the weekend x

Yay to a 28 day cycle Thurl! So does this mean Bvits haven't messed up your cycle after all? This would be double good news!

Lexi you now have a raspberry! Happy 8 weeks to you. I would say try not to worry... But we all know that's impossible! X

 

[Nicki123]

P where has the time gone, can't believe it's only 3 weeks 3 days for you now so glad you're having a good day x

 

[thurl30]

Lexi congrats on becoming a raspberry

Hi Nicki, I'm thinking that maybe my body just finally got used to the vits and is sorting itself out, I started taking the vits in Jan whilst I was having my last mc, I then had an AF 35 days later, the next cycle was 59 days and now this one appears to be 28 days, I don't think I have ever had a 28 day cycle so this is massive progress

Patiently not long now

 

[patiently]

Lexi think we posted at the same time, PAL is really hard but try to take one day at a time, all your symptoms are positive i have read that sore boobs on the side mean good progesterone levels, weird dreams and tiredness....even if they come and go i think thats normal remember NSN, also my sisters say that in the beginning, some days they felt normal and other days they had waves of symptoms. And they are both past their second trimester now. I hope that your symptoms reassure you more. I cant remeber if i had o signs tbh, now i just feel cramps every now and then throughout the day. Hope you have a fab weekend xxx

 

[lexi374]

Thanks hun i hope you have a fab weekend too xxx

 

[Sooperhans]

Kmp, patiently, Thurl, Nicki, come on June!! Feb DDs all round

Happy raspberry 8 weeks Lexi! I know, my chart for 2 months now gives good signs but falls at the pg test hurdle, dammit!! Thank you all you lovely lovely ladies for support, got lots of hb cuddles and yes I do feel a bit better now xxx

Lexi I hope you still feel positive and although the worrying won't stop, I hope you continue to progress really well, as you have been. Same for you Emme, happy 4 weeks!*

Thurl, that's great about your 28 day cycle! Hope my slight switch of brand will bring AF forward a bit xx

Patiently, you'll be ttc again before you know it, it's a matter of days now!! I'm pleased you have such a good feeling about June and I hope that's your psychic powers come into full force too!

I hope everyone has a lovely weekend. We're going to go on a late lunch "date" today, love spending time with my husband xxx

 

[meandrod]

Can i join ladies? I suffered a mc in december and was devastated. Af was due last week on my bday and showed. After cramping and discharge this week i went into doc to be tested and she confirmed i was pregnant and that the blood was old blood. Well today i woke up with heavy bleeding and cramps and I believe i am miscarrying again. I just dont undersgand. I feel so alone.

 

[Sooperhans]

Hey meandrod, of course you can and I'm so sorry that you are going through this again by the sounds of it. Perhaps see how much more blood you get and have some more levels tested in the week. I'm assuming this blood today is a different colour from the "old" blood? Please share as much or as little as you like, I hate the idea of you feeling alone, we will try and help as much as we can. Take care xxx

 

[kmp]

Thank you all! I am glad I will be on track to ttc at the same time as a few of you! I am feeling a bit better as my dh is being a little more reasonable. Hopefully the decent mood will last through the baby shower tomorrow (her due date is two weeks before my ectopic "due date"). You guys are the best! and lexi and Emme, you guys have a lot of ppl cheering you and your LO's on: so hopefully that helps, but I know it is nearly impossible not to worry.

 

[Emmediva]

Soop, sorry for your BFN I know it's so depressing to see that lonely line after all we've worked for. TTC can be such an emotional roller coaster, I hope you get your BFP next cycle fingers tightly crossed for you.

Patiently, yay you are closer every day to TTC again I'm with Lexi, those temps are rising, you may have O'ed already then since you had some symptoms of O?

Thurl, hurray for 28 day cycle

Lexi, happy 8 weeks!!! you are getting close to the end of your first trimester yay! I'm with you on getting so absolutely frightened about any little thing, it's so hard to enjoy a pregnancy after a loss, so hard... I hope our lil beanies just snuggle in for the full 9 months

Meandrod, I am so sorry you found yourself here, so sorry for your loss and I hope you are wrong about this one, but you know your body best. Everyone here understands completely, the heartbreak, confusion and stress losing a beanie brings. we are here for you.

KMP, so glad you OH is being more supportive.

AFM, nothing much to report on my end, I'm still having the elm street cramps, I call them that cause they scare the hell outta me everytime!! My boobs are still sore but now more on top and my nipples feel on fire on and off, oh and TMI I have noticed some like peeling on my nipples?! I have heartburn everyday, and now I can't brush my tongue too much cause I gag and want to throw up. No other symptoms to report. I'm kind of worried because my temperature hasn't gone up... Does that mean my progesterone is still low even though I'm taking the supplements ughh worry worry worry

Sending lots of baby to everyone and

 

[Sooperhans]

Emme, thank you hun, I've been feeling all stressed out over it So much so that chatting with hb he said why don't we go back to what we were doing pre-temping days and estimate the fertile days and just flipping go for it...I don't know but I do know that FF is confusing the hell out of me! And doing the temping means it's the first thing on my mind every day. But it is good evidence for the doc. Hmmm...his point was well we did conceive twice before temping, which is true.

As long as you aren't spotting and cramping, I think that sounds fine? But Elm St is a good name! Yes pals is rely hard - I was talking to a friend today who has had a gorgeous baby and she was taken back at how much knowledge I'd picked up along the way...too much sometimes! But all the symptoms including near puking sounds really good to me! Do take it easy though and I hope you do have a bit of excitement too. And aren't you supposed to stop temping when you are pregnant, as they can be all over the place? Xx

 

[thurl30]

Hi everyone,

Emme sounds like you have good positive symptoms xx

Soop how are you doing today? I agree with you about just estimating our fertile days, I was going to start temping this cycle but I have decided not to and I'm just going to try and forget about the whole ovulation predicting thing. xx

I'm feeling horrible today, I have had a perfect 28 day cycle, and unexpectedly, today is CD1 for me, I still can't quite believe it and I am really happy about this, but I'm also feeling a bit crap that I have had a perfect cycle and didn't get pregnant, for some reason today I have been down all day about the fact that it hasn't happend yet, how come some people in life make it all look so easy?? Sorry to write a downer post, I'm sure it's just my witch hormones

Hope everyone has had a lovely weekend xx

 

[patiently]

Soop sorry for your bfn and temp drop this morning hope June is the lucky month for us all! I'd say if the temping is stressing you out too much then maybe take a break for one month, its always the months that you try the least and are most relaxed that turn into BFP!

Thurl sorry you are having a down day hun, it is so hard ttc after loss and for number 1! Maybe your 28 day cycle geared your body up for next month and the best thing about AF is that its a fresh new cycle and you have the opportunity to try again.

Lexi hope all is well with you hun x

Emme i dont think you should keep temping hun its only going to worry you. Im sure everythings fine just take each day as it comes. Your gagging sounds great though...well you know what i mean, pregnancy symptoms kicking in there...xx

Meandrod, welcome to the thread. I am so sorry for your losses, i hope that we can give you the understanding and support that we have given each other throughout all of our journeys. Many of the women here have suffered more than one loss and are well into their pregnancies now so there is hope.

KMP how was the baby shower for you hun. Hope you are ok xx

AFM had with my OH today!! whoop whoop! I know its not a big deal for you ttc'ers lol but we havent had much action since we got pregnant in feb! So everytime is great for me! a few more weeks to go! YAY!!!

Think about it ladies we could be just WEEKS AWAY FROM BFP's!! COME ON JUNE!

 

[kmp]

Hello ladies! The baby shower was okay, but was a bit tough. The pregnancy was not planned and she really does not know much about babies, but I wish her the best.

I have never temped, but I would highly, highly recommend getting a clearblue fertily monitor! I love mine and have no problem detecting ovulation with it. I know ppl complain about the cost, but I bought mine on Amazon for a pretty good price and you can find the required sticks pretty cheap online as well. I know I sound like a commercial, but opk's didn't seem to work for me and made me crazy thinking I was going to miss my surge if I didn't pos every few hours.

 

[Nicki123]

Hi ladies. It's Monday where did the weekend go? Hope you all had good ones.

Meandrod, so sorry for your losses welcome to the group, there's no need to feel alone here, everyone is so lovely

Emme and Lexi, hope you two are doing well. Emme it sounds as though you have good symptoms, the elm st cramps though, what a good name for them

Kmp well done on getting through the baby shower, that must have been really tough.

Soop and Thurl, I had a terrible time with my one month temping, I slept so badly that month! Soop maybe DH is right about trying something a bit different this month, and see how you feel afterwards. Let us know what you decide.

Patiently glad you and oh has a nice weekend together. Keep getting the practice in before D Day!

Hello anyOne else I've missed. Afm I have added a countdown ticker, I know it's a long shot this month but I'm so excited to be back in the game

 

[notoptimistic]

Got af yesterday .. I just wish I knew why I was able to get pregnant twice naturally, both times on the first cycle trying, and now it's been over a year and I can't get pregnant again. So frustrating.

 

[patiently]

Nikki any symptoms hun? Only 7 days to go!! hope your are lucky first time round.

Notoptimistic im sorry AF came. Hopefully June will be your month! I have a good feeling about June for us! TTC is so frustrating isnt it. I hope you wont have to wait much longer for your bfp!

AFM due to lots of painful cramps for a few minutes yesterday wondering if i Ovulated yesterday instead...hmm who knows. Will wait and see! Its meant to be nice this week in London so hope everyones ready for a bit of sunshine! I certainly am. Its way past its due date! Hope you all had fabulo-tastic weekends xxx

P.S tomorrow will say 3 weeks to go!!! whoop whoop (im actually dancing like Carlton from the Fresh Prince of Bel Air) haha! Think everyone can tell im in a good mood!

 

[Sooperhans]

Hello everyone, thank you for your support when I had a few wobbly moments over the weekend! Thurl, I know exactly what you mean and your cycle was "perfect" apart from the bfp...but like Patiently said, it could be the perfect cycle before the perfect month of June! Xx

And Patiently, Woooo about your bd'ing!! I know how much of a big deal this is and feel so pleased you have got so far along and you have lived up to your name throughout all of this. Hope this is the start of lots more bd'ing!!

Kmp, all credit to you for going to the baby shower. It's hard to hear about other people's "accidents" isn't it? The amount of people who have said they conceived in their first month of trying as well as not having any problems at all - flipping alright for some, eh?! Hmmmm so how long have you used the cbfm? And has it told you peak days that you weren't expecting? In my 2 months of FF, it's put me about the cd20 mark for ov, which is later than I would have thought. The thing that stressed me out about it this month was it started adding the crosshairs at cd10 and put me into a panic!!

Nicki, well done on the ticker! Great idea and you are so nearly there. Had any more accu?

NotOp, I know and I wish I knew the answer to why you have had the gap. As it's been a year, can't you have extra investigation done? That's what docs have told a friend before and although you initially conceived, I don't see why the year timings can't apply to you too? I've decided if nothing by Sep then I will be doing just that.

Well girls, good old AF reared her ugly head again today. At least it wasn't as stupidly long as the last couple of months, with a cycle of 34 days. Still 5 days off normal but it's progress. I'm in two minds about temping but there's no point for a few days, so will decide this week. Bless him, dh has been lovely and even apologised for being ill and he'll try much harder in June! Think it hits home when he sees my disappointment. He really wants it too and he has got a point about getting me to relax. I think I'll see cd14-20 as my peak days if I don't temp and will aim for as bd'ing as poss!!

How is everyone else? Lexi, Emme, how are you doing? to all and sorry for the essay!! Xxx