A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[Misswish]

I'm sending you big hugs Emmediva it would be scary seeing that. Sounds a good idea resting. I really hope its not that case. Sometimes people do have spotting without it being a miscarriage. Have you had sex with your OH this morn? As this can cause some spotting to occur. A friend of mine had bleeding throughout her pregnancy and went on to having a healthy baby boy. I hope you dont have any more and that you can try and stay positive. Fingers crossed for you

 

[Emmediva]

Thanks Misswish, I haven't had sex with him since Monday night, so that's not it. I've gone to the restroom and haven't noticed anymore spotting I'm hoping it was just a fluke I don't know what to think I'll see how it goes tomorrow, I'm calling the doctor first thing and considering going to another clinic to get checked out. I'm trying to remain as calm as possible, it's just so hard.

 

[Misswish]

Yeah it wouldnt be that then. yeah I hope its just a once off. It definately would be so hard remaining calm. I know how i felt when i saw spotting other times. Keep strong. Have you got a friend or family member you could talk to for support. Yeah sounds a good idea getting checked out again. sending positive thoughts your way

 

[Emmediva]

I haven't told anyone, I didn't want to jinx it. Just here on BNB... I'm just relaxing in bed, to let the Prometrium I used as a suppository work. I'm going to take another orally at 11:00 p.m. I've read some women take up to 3 doses a day, so I'm going to do one oral one vaginal per day. Hopefully that does it for me. I'm running it by my doc tomorrow but not to hopeful about her assistance.

 

[Misswish]

I dont know much about them. I'm supposed to go onto suppositries once I get a BFP. That sounds a good idea though. Yeah and make sure you rest and drink plenty of water. What about taking some vitamin c i read some where that could be helpful in these sorts of situations with the bioflavonoids.

 

[Nicki123]

Hi Emme, sorry you're having to go through all this it must be playing havoc with your head. I also think feet up sounds like a good idea and keep taking the progesterone. And if your doc is not being helpful and you can see another then do it!

 

[Ladyfog]

Emme, try not to worry if it was only a little bit of blood and especially as there's been no cramping - I have all my fingers and toes crossed for you. Your cervix is really delicate when you get pregnant so it could just be spotting fo no reason at all - does the progesterone make your cervix more sensitive??

Please tell you OH, as he will want to know, and you need the support I know that by telling someone it makes it feel more real, but it's not going to change what happens, but it will help you to cope whatever happens

 

[lexi374]

Emme the progesterone can irritate your cervix, i havent had it myself but lots of women on bnb have mentioned it! And tell oh, dont worry on your own!

Afm im off work, was up in the night throwing up and in terrible agony with stomach pains, and now the trotts too! Feeling sorry for myself!

 

[wookie130]

Emme, I understand why you're scared, believe me...

You did the right thing by calling your doctor, but I do feel you should tell you DH about the spotting, in the event that this does end up being another loss...

This is a rather personal question, and forgive me if you don't want to answer it...but when you had the pink spotting, was it shortly after having a BM/poop? The reason why I ask, is because pregnancy makes the cervix soft and easily irritated, and sometimes if you have to strain to go #2, it can irritate the cervix and cause as little bleed. That's just another possibility, honey.

 

[Sooperhans]

Emme - how are you doing? It's so scary when you see blood, but it could easily be the progesterone, especially as you've only just started the suppositories....have everything crossed for you and think yes it's horrible but do tell dh as he can pamper you and support you. Let us know how you get on.

Oh Lexi, sorry you haven't been well. Hope you've had a chilled day and relax over the weekend. Have you got any appts coming up?

Happy Friday everyone xxx

 

[Nicki123]

How are you holding up Emme? I hope you've taken Wookie's advice and have spoken to OH. Sending you

Hope you 're feeling a bit better this evening Lexi.

Hello everyone else , happy weekend and if you're in the UK hope you're enjoying this glorious weather. I love the sunshine it makes me so happy.

Afm, am 10dpo and did a test this morning after having the most vivid dream last night that I got really really strong +line on 2 tests. It was so realistic I was gutted when I woke up but thought what the heck and did a cheapo dip test. BFN though. As expected i dont think the one bonk did the trick I will test again at 13dpo if no AF but am not confident as no symptoms. In my past pgs spots and bad skin have always been the first signs for me but I'm all clear. I had strong twinges on right hand side 5dpo but I think that was too early for anything and yesterday I had bad feet/ calf cramp but I used to get that all the time and I'm putting that down to switching to my summer pumps! I had acu today and the lady was trying to sort my cramp out for me. I couldn't help wondering why she was avoiding my stomach this week though...

 

[Emmediva]

Lexi, I am so sorry you are feeling ill I hope you feel better so you can enjoy the weekend.

Nicki, it's still early chick I am crossing my fingers for you!!

Thanks for your support gals, when I had the spotting I wasn't straining, I just pee'd and when I wiped it was there... happy to report I haven't had anymore spotting after yesterday's afternoon incident. Crossing my fingers it was just some fluke... I am taking Prometrium orally and vaginally every 12 hours I am alternating. My doctor isn't worried from what the nurse said since I'm on the prescription, I asked if I could take the pills every 12hrs and she said "no just continue with your regular dose" so that is an order I am not following... I couldnt get another appointment because it's Friday and no one really sees you until you are 8 weeks, that's what I was told by another doctor I think I'm going to see if I can get a private lab to run a beta tomorrow or Monday just for peace of mind.
SN: I am 5 weeks today, hoping so hard to make it to 40 weeks..,

 

[Neversaynever]

Lexi...happy 9 weeks and you are a lime hope you are feeling better too chick

Lady...how the heck are you coping in this heat

Emme...totally normal to get spotting with the pesseries..in fact a lot of the American girls on the RPL PAL thread had it between 4 and 10 weeks and all is still ok for them (they are in their final tri now) glad you disregarded the doc...and I hope you told hubby

Nicki....BooooFN...not out yet though

Wookie...roll on eggy catching time...I had a really bad AF a couple of cycles after first loss...passed massive liver like clots..I put it down to having a good clear out

Soop...how are you?

Misswish...you ok?

Hope everyone is doing ok...still chucking buckets of sticky sexy and all sorts your way

XxX

Patiently...I haqve no idea about charting so can't help...almost time to be back in the race

 

[Misswish]

Hi girls how is everyone? I'm glad to hear that Emme Hasn't had any more spotting. That's gr8. That does make sense about getting that from pessaries. I hope you have feeling better about it & still resting & getting support. They should be able to do a 6wk scan on you to ease your mind.
I hope your feeling better Lexi & it was just a stomach wog & you feel better soon. Gr8 to see you have reached the 9wk mark yay
Nicki that sux about the BFN but yeah your not out yet you could still get the BFP yet unfortunately your in the waiting limbo at the moment. I have my fingers crossed for you. I had a couple positive opks last week so I'm hoping we did enough to catch the egg!! Will have to wait & see.
Wookie I had a fair few clots when I had miscarriages. Even after the period after miscarriages. It sure is scary to see. Bring on fertile time for you.
How is everyone esle. I hope you are all going ok

 

[Nicki123]

Hi everyone, it's been a quiet weekend on here, I bet everyone has been out enjoying the sunshine

Emme i hope everything has been good with you and no more spotting.
Misswish, Fx you caught the egg x

Afm, 13dpo and another bfn today. AF due today or tomorrow and then I'll know for sure but am pretty certain I'm out this month. Ah well, back to the original plan of starting ttc in June, at least I'll have done the full 3 months of vits and healthiness. Here's to a really lucky June everyone!

 

[lexi374]

Sorry bout the bfn nikki.

How are you ladies?

Can you believe we have been let down by another bloody tiler today!! What is wrong with people, my kitchen will never be finished!!

Also had my scan this morning, all ok measuring 9+3, im still in shock! Next one is 3 weeks today.

 

[Ladyfog]

That's brilliant news Lexi - you're fast approaching your the end of you 1st trimester! Is your next scan your dating one?

Nicki, sorry it looks like you may be out this month, but you never know until AF turns up.

Emme - how are you doing? I hope you haven't had anymore spotting. Remember you haven't had any pain so it's pretty unlikely that the spotting was bad news, it's probably just the pessaries

Hope everyone else had a lovely weekend in the sunshine I'm so bloody hot, but trying to stay out of the sun and keep my feet up. Managed to stop my feel looking like balloons over the weekend by getting some rest and keeping them cool and now have a new footrest at work that keeps my feet a bit higher too. I only have 8 more days at work now over the next 3 weeks! It's going to be so weird leaving work, knowing that I'm leaving to have a baby!!

Mum has washed all the baby clothes that I sorted out the other weekend and brought them over yesterday, most of them have come up like new! I thought you may like to see one of my favourite bits - we reckon it was my sisters, from the Olympics in 1982! It's so cute!

 

[patiently]

Lexi yay!!! Thats fantastic im so thrilled for you! so exciting! Happy 9 weeks and 2 days!

Nicki sorry about BFN FXed that its to early still some people dont get a BFP until 19dpo so if AF doesnt show tomorrow i'd say test again Hope June is our month is this month isnt...GL and to you

Emme how are you doing? glad spotting stopped hope all is ok

Soop, wookie, NSN, Ladyfog, and anyone ive missed hi, how are you all doing? Hope you've all been enjoying the lovely weather we've had! xxx

 

[Sooperhans]

Hello lovely girlies, Emme how are you doing hun? I have been wondering what the latest news is with you and I hope it's good Did you get a private blood test booked?

Nicki I'm sorry about your bfn but still a bit hopeful for you to get a surprise xx

Lexi that is TOTALLY AMAZING about your scan! Over the moon for you... 3 weeks away from your 12 week scan!!

Misswish how are you doing? I hope you caught the egg too!

Lady, well done on staying cool in the sun and that outfit is adorable!!! And '82 was a good year - that was the year I was born! Lol, that's great you only have a few days of work left, excited for you

Patiently, yes the weather has been so lovely, I was in and outside all weekend!*

Afm, well....I had a bit of a crazy weekend, we hosted a garden/Eurovision party and I got well...very very tipsy. More than I meant to but it was good to blow the cobwebs away!! That and me and the dh came out of the sun and got jiggy in the kitchen, see what I mean about crazy! Ahem...hehe xx

 

[Sooperhans]

I just read it back, the kitchen "incident" and the party were at different times in the weekend! Lol, not THAT crazy!