A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[Neversaynever]

Just nipping in before bed

Thurl..what made you test? All I do know that blue dye tests are quite notorious for evaps so plead be cautious. Alternatively...last week could have been IB keep us posted

Soop..seriously are you going to make us wait 5 whole days joke

Beach..get girlie

Lexi...little tinker...next time..put it down and get a cold drink and keep calm once you become more confident it'll be easier..it's still early

NTAT... as always

Emme..man you like to ride that roller coaster all hanging on that ride with you though

Tired brain so and to everyone

XxX

 

[thurl30]

Hi Nicki, how are you? Thanks for looking, I think the same I can definately see something, although my dh thinks I'm mad! I did have had a 6 day bleed though and stopped bleeing on Monday so I'm not sure how it would be possible, so confusing, going to have to wait until tomorrow night until I can buy another test though xx

 

[thurl30]

Hi Never, I tested because I just don't feel right today, I have had an all day headache, heartburn and a tummy pain high up, all of which I had before I had my last bfp, I also had a bleed the week before my last bfp but that was only for 3 days and this time it was 6 days, either way I wouldn't get my hopes up because when I did have all these symptoms last time I had a mc the following week. Thanks for looking for me, hope you're doing ok xx

 

[Emmediva]

Thurl, I see the cross sign, test again in the morning with a pink dye test. Was your bleeding normal? Some people bleed similar to a period and are pregnant, my mom and sister both bled light, they thought they had their period and nope lol. Fingers crossed for you.

NSN, I know huh? Had spotting last week and this week it's the darn cold, ughh. Hopefully it's the so called baby flu, I'll take it if it means all is ok

 

[Stacdaz]

Hi ladies new to this thread! I'm so sorry for everyone who has been or going through a loss! Here's my story
Today:-
Done an ultrasound womb looked empty so they done an internal scan womb still looked empty and done pregnancy test and it came back negative so confirmed our worst fears I had another miscarriage when doing the internal scan they checked to make sure everything looked healthy and it does so they don't know why ive had 3 miscarriages but they told me that when I fall pregnant again I will get a scan at 7 weeks to make sure everything is fine and if I miscarry again they will do extensive tests to figure out why this keeps happening! It's hard but we will keep trying until we finally get our little bundle of joy!
So here we are now and just waiting to stop bleeding (sorry tmi) and start trying again :Babydust: to you all xxx

 

[Emmediva]

Stacdaz, so sorry to have found yourself here, I'm sorry for your losses. This is an awesome group, everyone here is very supportive. How far along where you? Was this a normal checkup or where you having bleeding? Also has your progesterone level been checked out? If not it's very important you get it checked. And they should be able to check you prior to 7 weeks, considering you've had multiple miscarriages.

 

[Stacdaz]

Stacdaz, so sorry to have found yourself here, I'm sorry for your losses. This is an awesome group, everyone here is very supportive. How far along where you? Was this a normal checkup or where you having bleeding? Also has your progesterone level been checked out? If not it's very important you get it checked. And they should be able to check you prior to 7 weeks, considering you've had multiple miscarriages.

First one I was 6 weeks, second one almost 6 weeks this time I was almost 8 weeks! The scans where because I was bleeding! They said I can get scanned at 7 weeks because this is the first time Ive been to them as my doctor is an asshole he said only if it's the 3rd time will he refer me for a scan! Everytime I went to him he said to call when I'm 8weeks to book a midwife appointment he didn't check me over or anything so because of him it's really only recorded as one m/c trying to get a new doctor at the moment! No I haven't had anything checked except for today and as far as they can see my womb,ovaries ect are fine!

 

[Nicki123]

Hi stacdaz, so sorry you find yourself here but hopefully it will help being able to chat to ladies who kind of know what you're going through. Big I would def try and sign up to a new dr, now that you've had 3 mc you are entitled to have tests and it's unfair to make you wait any longer. I hope you find a more sympathetic gp.

Thurl and Soop I am so excited about your impending tests!

Afm, cd15 today and had my +opk today (well yesterday now as its 1am!), as I'm not temping I'm going to count cd16 as ov day but I have a feeling I might have missed a surge on cd14 and that Ov was on cd15.... Just a hunch. Anyway, I had a mega snooze when I got home from work as i was so tired, woke up for with DH, he is now snoring away next to me and I can't get back to sleep. Shouldn't have had the evening nap.

Hello everyone else. Fx for a lucky June for all those ttc, and a relaxing June for all those with beans and bumps x

 

[Ladyfog]

Hi ladies

Emme - it's rotten having a cold when you're preggers and you just have to grit your teeth and wait for it to go away really Honey and lemon helped me and try to get lots of rest. Touch wood I've only been ill once and that was enough!

Thurl - I can see a line too, but I think you should take another test and see what that says before thinking one way or another - good luck!

Soop - good luck this month, hope that you get your BFP this month

Lexi - not long until that scan now! You've already foud the HB and I'm sure your little one will be just fine

welcome stacdaz - sorry for your losses and sorry that your GP is being so unsympathetic. If you have been to see your GP each time you have had an MC surely there is no reason why you can't be referred?

Hi to everyone else, hope your weeks are going well.

AFM, last day at work today! Going out for lunch with my team then hoping to leave pretty early as I've only got a couple of little bits to do this morning - my busy week last week paid off I'm going to miss everyone, but it's so exciting to finally be at this stage and moving on to a new era in my life. I never thought I'd be doing this.

 

[BeachChica]

Thurl – Gosh I see the line too. I definitely think you should re-test in a couple days and see. It’s very strange about the bleeding but I know that this does happen to some people when they are pregnant.

Emme – hope you get better soon! It sucks to not be able to take stuff and the things you can take are useless!!!

Notoptimistic – welcome back and FX for you this month!!!
Welcome stac and so sorry for your losses!!

 

[wookie130]

Thurl, I too see something on your test...but I would retest with a pink dye test such as an Answer or FRER, as those blue dye tests are notorious for evaps. If you retest in the morning, I'm praying you get a lovely surprise!

 

[notoptimistic]

why not just test with a digital? Then you won't have to guess - it will tell you "pregnant" or "not pregnant"

 

[wookie130]

If she's early enough the digi may not work, though. The digis aren't as sensitive...

 

[Madeline]

thats really exciting Thurl! I hope the next test is even more conclusive

Madeline xxx

 

[thurl30]

everyone

Stacdaz I'm so sorry to hear about your losses, but this thread is really supportive, fingers crossed you can start ttc again really soon xx

Hope everyone else is doing ok xx

I just did a digi because I hate trying to read lines, and it came back not pregnant, so I'm going to assume I'm not because I really do think I had a very early af last week, I might just wait another week and re-test just in case to completely rule it out though. I don't like blue dye tests but pink dye tests are really difficult to get your hands on around here, I might order a stock off the internet so I always have one around. Thanks for looking everyone, I wanted to confirm that there was something there even if it was just an evap because my dh was absolutely sure he couldn't see anything, men hey?!

Hope everyone is having a good day xx

 

[Neversaynever]

Thurl...I'm sorry you got a negative as for pink tests..pound land do two strips in a box for a pound..asda and morrisons own brand are around £4 for a twin pack and they ate quite sensitive for future reference

LF...now officially on mat leave enjoy!

Stardaz...where do you live? Sorry you have found yourself here after three losses it's awful that your doc has refused to accept you've had three because now you're entitled to be tested for RPL. Lots of support and advice on here so jump right in

XxX

 

[Sooperhans]

Hey girls....firstly Lady woo for your last day, you are free! Lol...I hope you had a nice send off, any pressies?

Never - I know, I don't want to wait either!! Sorry for the suspense! I said to hubalub about testing tomorrow morning, before I take him to the airport (before work at 4.30am, what a good wife I am, huh?) and he was like "nooooo, it would be totally the wrong time, we'd have all of 5 mins to discuss the results", I tried! Plus I want to be sure it's late enough in my cycle to give an accurate reading. Think I'm going to go straight in with the digi....no messing! I'm not sure my patience can hold out much more though!

Thurl - boo to your bfn, I'm sorry. Try again and see in a few days like you say xx Did you get lots of nice things on your birthday?

Stardaz, I'm so sorry for your losses and you should definitely be put forward for testing - I hope it isn't a long, drawn out process to find a new doc. The other one sounds about as much use as a chocolate teapot - I hate it when they are in posititions of trust like that and do sod all to help

Emme & Wookie, how are you doing?

Lexi - how are you hun?

 

[Sooperhans]

Also - Notoptimistic, Beach and Madeline - hi to you girls, how are you?

 

[thurl30]

Thanks Never, I think I might go and stock up

Soop your patience is awesome...mine isn't so good I soooooo want you to test! I'm not sure I wanted my test to say pregnant because my af type bleed last week was fairly set in and if I had conceived I wouldn't expect the pregnancy to stick after that. Anyway, after my birthday celebrations I don't feel too healthy so I'm going to focus on getting back on the healthy food and losing the few pounds I put on. I'm also going to ditch the pregnacare for a while because I have a feeling that it has messed my cycle up. I got some lovely things for my birthday thanks, I got a gorgeous lovelinks bracelet, and one of my fave perfumes (Beyonce Heat Rush). xx

Congrats Lady, must be an awesome feeling to have finished work xx

 

[Nicki123]

Soop your DH sounds v sensible! Much better to wait then get an early BFN (when it might be too early). And bless him that he doesn't want to just rush off after the result. Sounds like a top chap