A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[Neversaynever]

Beach...hoping for double trouble

Jcliff... so sorry

Nicki..it's horrible hearing about everyone else has it so easy your time WILL come

Really sorry for no more individual replies..I've been induced this evening due to everything that's even going on as it's best for both baby and myself.

Love, and to everyone

XxX

 

[Nicki123]

Good luck Never! X

 

[thurl30]

Beach I don't know that much about hcg numbers, but I'm hoping that your high numbers mean a good thing, I am really rooting for you

Jcliff I'm so sorry to hear about what's happened, your situation is very similar to mine, I got pregnant for the second time straight after my first miscarriage, and my numbers went down to 12 just before I start to bleed. If you want to take a break then do it, especially if it's going to help you emotionally and physically recover. We are all here anytime you need to talk

Nicki it's horrible when you have to deal with friends announcing their pregnancy, I have had so much of that recently, good to hear you dh is going through the same feelings so you can really support each other. Hope you're manage to enjoy the hen do and you get a chance to let your hair down

Never wishing you lots of luck

Afm - I still had a bit of spotting yesterday, but so far today I haven't had anything, so perhaps I was just having a mad couple of days, I do feel a bit like the is coming though. I have woken up this morning and I feel terrible, I have a really sore throat, headache and blocked ear I'm feeling really tired too because I keep waking up at 4am every day, last night woke up at 3am with a bad tummy, and was still awake at 5.15am!! Hoping that I will get to a stage when I'm so tired I will just sleep staight through.

 

[Bumblebee2408]

Good luck never I hope all goes smoothly for you x x

 

[wookie130]

Hi all, wanted to give you an update. I found out my levels dropped from 33 to 12 on Wednesday. I started to bleed that night. Ive been out of work for a WEEK, waiting for this m/c to finish. Its been nothing but a nightmare. Its a week TODAY i found out I was pregnant, and already lost it. This is my second miscarriage in 4 months. My husband I have decided to take a long break. Not sure my body or my mind can deal with another loss. Thanks for all of your well wishes.

I've been in your boat, and I'm so sorry. Only you can decide what is right for you. Best of luck, and .

 

[wookie130]

Never, still cheering you on! The pom-poms are out!!!

Bumble, check out your other thread. I couldn't help but comment on that one girl's "at least you can get pregnant" statement...umm, that pissed me off, seriously. That's one of the least encouraging things that can be said to someone in your position.

Thurl, I'm aiming my anti-witch spray at you!

Beach- We camped up in Lansing, Iowa, which is along the Mississippi River, in the Tri-State area...it's beautiful!

 

[BeachChica]

Never- good luck to you, like Wookie, I've got my pom poms out for you too!!!

 

[Neversaynever]

Thanks guys...still slow going only 1 and a half cm and cervix is still not central so a long way to go

Beach..when do you have a scan?

XxX

 

[Sooperhans]

Never good luck....hope it starts speeding up for you hun!!!!! Xxx

Wookie not sure what thread you mean but I get that comment all the time....I'm like yeah nearly a year ago and I didn't exactly get to enjoy it!! Grrrr x

 

[Sooperhans]

Also meant to say I have a doc follow up appt today to discuss the scan in more. I'm going to ask if there are any further steps at this stage and also once we get to the year mark next month. And once again mention the weird afs x

 

[Neversaynever]

Soop...write your questions down ready for later good luck and let us know how you get on

The comment about at least you can get pregnant is irritating and makes me want to smash faces in do people think its good to see those two lines only to see their hopes and dreams shattered?? My DH gets really angry at that comment too.

Nothing happening here..first pessary failed so have to have another at 2 am

XxX

 

[Sooperhans]

Thank you Never...I have a memory like a sieve so always write questions down. And I don't leave until I feel I have an answer. Luckily my doc is so on side with me she seems to expect it. I always feel like I slightly amuse her, lol. She's really easy to speak to....ok so she went into more detail about the scan: ovaries and uterus good shape, as I had only just had my weird af there's no function comment, as wrong time of month to spot follicles. No excess fluid in between uterus and bowel, sometimes it can cause probs but that's fine. So all good from the scan. I said last week was a big week but I'm so completely stressed atm and I don't know what to do. She said it's good I have a holiday soon. I've had my thyroid meds slightly reduced, as my neck feels constricted. I have a blood text in 8 weeks or when I'm on cd25 around there, as they want to check my progesterone again. So not to take crinone that month, which is a bit of a worry. Or start it late I guess. Oh and dh is to do a sample, he's less than overjoyed! But other than that....I said we're coming up to a year and can we get more help. Well our pct has just changed its rules and it's now 2 years min before they help. *******s

Never...you must be shattered, Oopsie is so cosy in there they are too chilled to make an appearance, bless. I hope it's soon!!!!!! Hang in there xxx

 

[Neversaynever]

Bloody PCT's changing rules but on the positive side, results all look good and that's go to be a bonus?

Has DH done a SA before?

I'm doing ok tbf...just resting to try and keep my BP stable whilst waiting for something to happen

XxX

 

[Sooperhans]

Yeah, it is good news and a relief....hopefully we won't need their help anyway. No, he's not done one before, there seem to be a fair few rules....?!

Pleased you are doing ok, you're in good hands xxx

 

[Bumblebee2408]

Well had my scan and the baby could not be seen all hospital staff confused having symptoms and hcg still rising they're unsure if we implanted late. Had more blood tests & seeing where we gi from here with these results x x

 

[Neversaynever]

Bumble I'm sorry you didn't see anything, keep on at the hcg testing and so long as they're doubling you will be ok. How were you tracking ovulation?



XxX

 

[Bumblebee2408]

Tbh this time we werent overly trying so unsure but I can't see us being that far from dates we've got but may be wrong :s confused will hopefully get some answers tomorrow x x

 

[thurl30]

Rubbish day alert here... I have bagged myself a throat infection, I feel so poorly

Never thinking of you, I hope things start moving soon

Soop I'm pleased to hear the scan results were ok, pct rules are rubbish though!! Where are you going on holiday? It's definately good you have that coming up, real you time to just chill

Bumblebee I'm really sorry to hear you couldn't see anything, must be a horrible experience. It is strange that your levels keep going up though, I just hope you get some answers soon

 

[kmp]

Soop, thats wonderful to hear all is well from your scan results. What did she say is your next step after dh's tests. I know you'll be a year out from more help, but does that mean they won't even do clomid or anything?

Bumble, how long is your cycle usually and what were your hcg numbers again? Those early weeks just a day or two can make a big difference on whether or not they can see something. I am sooo hoping your timing is just off or a late implanter. I know you must be so worried and I am so sorry you have to go through this scary time.

Beach, I just feel like you are in for the long run! Healthy baby growing. When are your next betas in?

Never, hope progress is being made. It shouldn't be long now!!

Nicki, we all have that same feeling and it does make me feel guilty too. I think it does help to have dh feeling the same. I really feel like all that I have been through will definitely make dh a better father. He was ready to ttc at the beginning, but since the losses and other medical stuff he is just about as ready now as any man could be and really wants it to happen asap!!

Hi everyone else!!

AFM I am now 10 dpo and had a bfn at 8 dpo and this morning. I know it is still early, but atm I am not optimistic I guess i keep going back and forth, but I think w/ the other 2 pgs I felt this "feeling like I need to burp" by now and have had it very sparingly and not since a couple days ago. I sooo hope I am though. I saw a psychic at a friends party last night and she did say next birthday will be a big month for me and good things and also for having a baby she saw 8, which could mean the 8th month (August) or 8 months from now, which is April and my bday month and my dd if I am pg! Not much of a believer in all that, but if it helps with PMA I will take it for now!

 

[BeachChica]

Beach..when do you have a scan?

XxX

HI NSN - my appointment is on Thursday.