A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[wookie130]

Oofta! I'm quite pukey! I spent most of the day hovering over the porcelain god, heaving my guts out today! It's either than or I'm STARVING!!! And I can't sleep, even though I'm exhausted!

All in all, I'm greatful I have the reassurance from the baby that things seem to be going okay this time!

 

[thurl30]

Hi everyone :wave:

Beach hoorah for the start of ms, just have to think that it's all a good sign Well done on the studying, I'm starting a new course in November so I will then be trying to motivate myself to study

Thanks Lady, good work on the breast feeding in the heat, hope you're getting on well

Soop it's good to hear from you, I have been wondering where you are, fingers crossed for the painful boobs, you never know, if you haven't been concentrating on ttc then it might be your month

Nicki hope you enjoyed the bbq, certainly had the weather for it! Fingers crossed for you this cycle, you have certainly done all you can, and I do think it's true you could be more fertile this cycle, I did post in Patientlys journal but please pass on that I have been thinking about her and I hope she is ok

Wookie I will say the same to you as I did beach, yay for the ms, it's all good signs

I don't know what on earth is going on with my temps, my temp shot up yesterday morning but I thought that was because of alcohol, but then this morning it was just as high, I know all of my temps have been genuine so far this cycle because I have managed to have undisturbed sleep. I have gone to bed really late the last 2 nights though so I don't know if that could affect it, does anyone have any ideas whats going on?

I hope everyone has had a good weekend, the weather has been crazy hot, apparently East Anglia has been the hottest part of the british isles this weekend, and has seen the highest temperatures in 6 years!

 

[BeachChica]

Thurl- I get high temps sometimes when I am not feeling well during AF. It's hard to tell what going on with your temps until you start to see a pattern or a trend. I know it seems frustrating in the beginning but I honestly believe that temping is the key to TTC. I started TTC in 2009. Went a whole year without getting pregnant. After that my doctor mentioned the temping. I got pregnant the 2nd month of charting. That whole first year I was just completely missing my window. I had no idea what was going on with my body and when I was Oing. After i started temping I felt more in tune with my body and have had no trouble getting pregnant. (if only I could just keep one now!) Anyway, I wish someone would have mentioned the temping earlier so I didn't waste that whole first year. Good luck with it and I really think that if you stick with it you'll find it to be a really helpful tool for success! I'll be stalking your chart this month!!

 

[thurl30]

Thanks Beach, I just worry that my temps are way out compared to everyone elses but I know everyone is different, thanks for the advice

 

[monro84]

Nicki--I have tested I thought I had something Fri evening at 6 but took one again at 10 and nothing, sat morning noon and evening neg, sunday morning, neg. This morning my temp went up but I had about 4 drinks ranging from 1 at 12 pm, 1 at 2 pm, 1 at 4 pm, and 1 at 8 pm, so was not even tipsy or had a buzz so not sure if that still affected it or not. Ate at 8 pm and went to sleep at 11 pm. Took 2 test w/ fmu at 5 am and could maybe see something but I went back to sleep and woke up at 7 am and took another at 7:30 and at the 10 min mark I could see something so I reallly don't know all I am seeing is like a shadow. I had crampng pinching pains on the right side Fri night right after I tested so then I thought it was implantation but it it was I usually have a positive after a temp dip and nothing. I know I am still early but I am starting to feel out.

When are you going to start testing early around 7 or 8 or eariler or later 12 or af due? GL FX

Wookie and Beach-- Yeah for MS!!!

Thurl--It migt had been the alcohol. but not sure saw it was back down today if temps are crazy this cycle I would try to go to the dr if I could. GL

 

[ayclobes]

Nicki--I have tested I thought I had something Fri evening at 6 but took one again at 10 and nothing, sat morning noon and evening neg, sunday morning, neg. This morning my temp went up but I had about 4 drinks ranging from 1 at 12 pm, 1 at 2 pm, 1 at 4 pm, and 1 at 8 pm, so was not even tipsy or had a buzz so not sure if that still affected it or not. Ate at 8 pm and went to sleep at 11 pm. Took 2 test w/ fmu at 5 am and could maybe see something but I went back to sleep and woke up at 7 am and took another at 7:30 and at the 10 min mark I could see something so I reallly don't know all I am seeing is like a shadow. I had crampng pinching pains on the right side Fri night right after I tested so then I thought it was implantation but it it was I usually have a positive after a temp dip and nothing. I know I am still early but I am starting to feel out.

When are you going to start testing early around 7 or 8 or eariler or later 12 or af due? GL FX

Wookie and Beach-- Yeah for MS!!!

Thurl--It migt had been the alcohol. but not sure saw it was back down today if temps are crazy this cycle I would try to go to the dr if I could. GL

I tested at 6,7,8,9,10 dpo before getting my first bfp! i couldnt resist and i knew i was pregnant already--well my chances were super high anyways.

 

[thurl30]

Monro you're not out until the shows, don't give up

I have a question for anyone taking Evening Primrose Oil...since taking it has it changed you af? My af has been totally different this cycle, pain free and much lighter, absolutely unheard of for me, I'm not sure if that's a good thing or whether it should be a concern

 

[BeachChica]

Monro - My chart looks a lot like yours this month FX!!! I had a Implantation dip at 11 DPO and my BFP did not show until 2 days later (13 DPO). Use FMU to test.

 

[monro84]

Ayclobes---Thank you I hope that is the case maybe tonight or tomorrow morning I will get my sticky bfp. What made your chances super high? I just felt this month was going to be it especially since it was almost a yr later from being pregnant w/ the twins/ triplets that was a mmc at almost 7 wks, and last month I had a mc at 5 wks so it was a cycle right after and that is what happened last year also except i was ony 4 1/2 wks. Its great your pregnancy is going good.

Thurl--I am not on it but if that is the case maybe I need to get on it. I have the most awful cramps and when I had my partial septate surgery in Dec I had a lap to ck of endo and I had stage 1 and he got it all but did not make cramps any better and since septate removal its been heavier to I guess more room for lining to grow.
GL this cycle.

Beach-- I hope my chart leads to where yours did. Usually when I have a temp dip I get a noticable positive that day or next at least that is they way it was with the other 2 charts that I have had know implantation dips on. Did you test on 12 dpo or wait till 13 dpo. I just saw on your chart where there was a neg at 11 and pos at 13.
Can't wait for your next scan

 

[BeachChica]

Monro- I did not test on CD 12 because my test was so white on CD 11. I was trying to be patient and it worked out! Good luck!! I've got everything crossed!!!

 

[Nicki123]

Thurl, I have been taking epo (just first half of my cycle) but haven't noticed any difference in my cycle or AF

Monro have you tested again? I'm only 4dpo and am going to try and hold out until AF is due so about 13 or 14dpo. Doubt I'll get there though, I have a tendency to get tempted about 11dpo

Hope the ms isn't too bad Wookie and beach (but bad enough to give you some comfort that things are going well)

 

[monro84]

Nicki--I tested yesterday evening 2x and nothing then this morning w/fmu at 5am nothing. My temp was down from yesterday but still in normal post O range so maybe it was the drinks I had had. . I still feel like I am out though but I know not out till af comes.

 

[Emmediva]

Thurl, I took EPO but only until OV was confirmed, since it can cause uterine contractions afterwards, but I didn't really notice much change to AF.

Nicki, not too long to go for testing chick, good luck!

Monro, sorry you got a negative again there's still a chance though, stay away AF.

Wooks, I hope MS subsides for you, I am so lucky to not have had it but on like 3 occasions! I don't wish it on anybody

AFM, I had a scare yesterday evening! I got home and as usual went to get the Doppler to hear the heartbeat, I put the probe in the usual place where baby has been hanging out since I purchased the Doppler at 11+4, nothing, I coudn't even hear the placenta! WTH?! So I kept gliding the probe over the right side of my abdomen, lower and higher, and nothing. I was really trying not to freak out but as minutes passed, I got more uneasy!. Then my OH walked in the room and as he always does, asked if baby was ok and did I hear the heartbeat, so I told him no, that I couldn't find it. I could hear movement, and occassionally felt the light flutters, so I thought maybe the baby was turned away and that's why I couldn't hear it. So OH decided to sit down and wait, but he kept asking if the baby was ok, so he made me more nervous I asked him to let me be and would let him know when I found the heartbeat... Man I was praying, I passed the probe all over my abdomen and nothing! So I went higher, although at that point I was really freaking out When I got closer to my waist, I heard and felt more movement. Thankfully I found the heartbeat, the baby has moved up and is now situated right at my waist towards my stomach. Phew, I'm so relieved

 

[monro84]

Emme-- Thanks I hope she does. Glad everything was ok I know I would probably freak out also.

 

[monro84]

I am starting to feel like I am coming down with something. I know progestrone causes symptoms but if they have not affected me till now and the dose has not changed would that be the reason or maybe I really am coming down with something. I am nausaesish, very very tired, and have a nagging headach which all started after lunch today (however I have been tired but not this bad, and have had bouts of nausa and headachs all week but this seems different). Hopefully it is good for all this but I don't know could it be the progestrone?

 

[Emmediva]

Monro, I hope it's something else... Are you going to test again?

 

[BeachChica]

Monro- I really hope you are coming down with a BFP!!! FX. When are you testing again?

 

[monro84]

I tested again last night about 5 nothing then again at 9:30 and 10. At 9:30 there was something faint but could not really tell figured it was the test so squeezed out a little more pee and tested at 10 and that one had something also. Started to get excited and tested this morning at 5 am w/ fmu and nothing then at 7:30 nothing. so Idw what last nights 2 test was all about.

 

[Emmediva]

That's so weird Monro, I see your temp has gone up some today so that's good. I got my definate BFP 12DPO, I thought I saw something on 9DPO but it was too faint. Then tested with another test and got nothing. So there's still a possibility for you

AFM, I can't believe I'll be 4.5 months tomorrow!!! I still can't believe it! Time is going by SO fast now! I have a regular check up on the 28th not excited about that one, but then the last week of September we should be able to find out the sex! SO I am WILLING September to get here LOL.

 

[monro84]

Emme--thats great so exceited for you. Hope I can make it there soon.

I know that proably that hardly any girls on this forum had this issue but maybe. But I was kinda wondering if since before the partial septate surgery my bfp were pretty early 12dpo (which was a chem) to 8dpo, now that it is gone I am getting later bfp (don't really have any leg to stand on since only had 1 chem since then) but could it be there is more room for the egg to float around and it takes longer to implant (I know just grapsing at straws)