A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[Emmediva]

Thanks y'all I had on Wednesday and all was fine but then yesterday I got home and cleaned up the house, I guess maybe that caused it? I'm not spotting anymore and my cervix is high as it should, I've checked last night and this morning. Baby's heart beat is fine too, I checked last night before I went to bed and again this morning before coming into work it's just so frightening seeing red I guess the house cleaning was too strenuous for me

 

[monro84]

Beach--I hope that is the case but since a neg this morning I doubt it. I am now 14 dpo and suppose to start yesterday temp was up again this morning but I forgot to do the progestrone this monring was running late for work. I am cramping a little now no real spotting yet though usually have a little before af but sometimes she just suprises and comes in full force.

Emme--I would go to dr for piece of mind especially over weekend but I am sure you are ok maybe the bd irritated your cervix?

 

[BeachChica]

Emme - I definitely think the or the housecleaning could have done it. My doctor keeps telling me no !!!

Monro - can you get to some progesterone at lunch or something? If not put it in as soon as you get home. I always carry a couple extra in my purse just in case I forget in the morning. That reminds me, I need to go insert mine now.

 

[notoptimistic]

I've been spotting since yesterday and cramping like af was coming and sure enough, had my negative blood test today. IVF #1 = failed I'm stopping the progesterone of course.

 

[Emmediva]

I have my appointment on Tuesday and I will let my doctor know. I want to call but since this has happened before, I already know what the nurse will tell me... "If you are not cramping or bleeding severely it's normal, just take it easy drink lots of fluids and rest" so I'm just keeping an eye on things for the time being...

Monro, I agree with Beach, try to get some progesterone over lunch if possible and put it in. I hope you're not out

Beach, my doctor said it was fine, she said that if I felt pain or uncomfort to stop, but it's been fine so far. I really think it was the housework, specially after I'd had the prior night... I've been to the loo and havent seen anything so I'm feeling more at ease but still watching things, and of course as soon as I get home I am getting my Doppler out. I also think maybe I didn't drink enough water yesterday I'm grasping at straws trying to find a reason...

 

[monro84]

Emme-- I would take it easy then

I can probably go home and do it but it is 10 min away. Do I really need the progestrone since I am 1 day away from AF and had a neg w/ fmu this moning I use the wondfo pink handle w/ hcg on them early test. Last month I had a blood test to test out hcg from mc and the last one was 12.16 that was on a thrus. The next week the RE wanted me to test to see if I had a neg. I tested on wed almost a week after blood test and saw it after it dried and you could see a line very very light but there. They are very very sensitive. I believe it was b/w 5 and 10, probably closer to 5. I am just guessing on the level I did not have another blood test.

 

[Emmediva]

Monro, it depends if you tested this morning and got a bfn, and you're due for AF then there's really no need for progesterone. It won't really prevent AF from happening but it may delay it. You know your body best hun, when is AF due again? With the 2 cycles I used progesterone, I stopped it on the day AF was due if I got negatives.

 

[monro84]

Monro, it depends if you tested this morning and got a bfn, and you're due for AF then there's really no need for progesterone. It won't really prevent AF from happening but it may delay it. You know your body best hun, when is AF due again? With the 2 cycles I used progesterone, I stopped it on the day AF was due if I got negatives.

Its due tomorrow I should have 4 progestrone tubes left so I really don't think that I need it since I am already 14 dpo. I am having som pinching type cramps on my right side I doubt it is anything.

 

[Emmediva]

Yeah if you're 14DPO and your cycles are pretty regular, so you know when AF is due, then I doubt you need it. I hate to see you out though! I hated the waiting to O, then the TWW enough to make you Are you taking any supplements to assist you? I'm all about supplements

Oh I forgot to tell y'all, I did the ring test yesterday and got so we'll see if it's accurate come September's ultrasound... Chinese calendar predicts a boy too, but I took a quiz and it said girl, and then my 2 friends said girl. I want to know!!

 

[monro84]

Yeah if you're 14DPO and your cycles are pretty regular, so you know when AF is due, then I doubt you need it. I hate to see you out though! I hated the waiting to O, then the TWW enough to make you Are you taking any supplements to assist you? I'm all about supplements

Yeah me to but I really don't know if I want another late bfp they scare me b/c of the high miscarriage rate and usually something is wrong with the egg if it implants that late however there have been healthy babies with late bfp.

I think the TWW is worse than waiting to O cause I bleed counting spotting for a wk then I O a week later. I usually want to start bd after 10 dpo so it is really a 3 day wait for me lol. But gosh the TWW I hate I really need to start to wait to test at least 8dpo but I wish I was one of those ladies that would miss af and find out they were pregnant at 8 wks lol get the first tri almost over with. But that is not me.

I am on supplements self medicating kinda I take prenatels of course, 400 iu vitamin e, 1000 mg vitamin c, 1 baby asprin, and 800 mg folic acid, and pre o I take b complex told RE what I am taking and he said that was fine. I mainly take the 1000 mc of vitamin c to help keep away uti's. I tried to get DH to take fertilaid for men but he would not .

I have always heard that craving indicate boy (spicy , sour) or girl (sweet, salty), I have also heard that girls take your beauty away so IDK. KUP

 

[Emmediva]

Yeah me to but I really don't know if I want another late bfp they scare me b/c of the high miscarriage rate and usually something is wrong with the egg if it implants that late however there have been healthy babies with late bfp

I would try to take Soy Isoflavones from cd 5-8, just 75mg, see if that helps you, with me it gave me a stronger O.

I think the TWW is worse than waiting to O cause I bleed counting spotting for a wk then I O a week later. I usually want to start bd after 10 dpo so it is really a 3 day wait for me lol. But gosh the TWW I hate I really need to start to wait to test at least 8dpo but I wish I was one of those ladies that would miss af and find out they were pregnant at 8 wks lol get the first tri almost over with. But that is not me.

I can't help you with that, this cycle I got pg, I started testing at 9dpo you just can't help it when all you want is a It's all I thought about, month after month... And having the mc's made me more determined, since I knew I could get pg, I just had to try to keep one. Which thank God seems to be happening now

I am on supplements self medicating kinda I take prenatels of course, 400 iu vitamin e, 1000 mg vitamin c, 1 baby asprin, and 800 mg folic acid, and pre o I take b complex told RE what I am taking and he said that was fine. I mainly take the 1000 mc of vitamin c to help keep away uti's. I tried to get DH to take fertilaid for men but he would not .

Can you trick him into taking it? Maybe buy some vitamins and replpace the contents? Or try to get him to take L-Argenine, it helps with energy and also helps the

I have always heard that craving indicate boy (spicy , sour) or girl (sweet, salty), I have also heard that girls take your beauty away so IDK. KUP

Hmm, I crave both LOL I think it's more the spicy that I crave though, I have to have hot sauce on everything! Even on salads!

 

[BeachChica]

Emme- maybe you can talk your doc into doing a scan on Tuesday since you had the spotting. I would insist on it! Maybe you can even take an early peak at gender

Monro- I don't know I would stay on the progesterone for another day or so. There have been times i got my BFP after AF was due. Good luck!!

 

[Emmediva]

Beach, I may ask but my OH is not coming with me since it's a regular checkup. If I get the ultrasound and he's not there he'll kill me

 

[lexi374]

Hey how is everyone doing? Any plans for the long weekend?

First week back after 2 weeks off for me im shattered!

The last 2 August bank holidays i have spent recovering from erpc's 1 year and 1 day apart. This year finally our luck changes, we have a wedding on Sunday where we will see lots of Dh's friends, so i did the facebook announcement on wednesday night, so everybody knows now. I was nervous doing it but we got loads of likes and congratulations so it was really nice.

Bump is definitely getting bigger and still sleeping like a bag of shit!

Emme sorry you had that scare maybe you did too much? At least you can feel and hear baby so you are not worrying too much. As for the cravings well i would say ive def been more sweet and salty, and def not wanted anything spicy, although im not that keen on it anyway. Also ive really liked carbs and gone off meat!

Beach how are you doing hun? Congrats on the scan fab news!

Noto im sorry your ivf failed, are you able to try again?

Monro good luck i hope you get that bfp!

Nicki hope you have a fab time at the festival, who are you seeing?

Thurl hows the temping going?

Soop hows it going? Not long til hols now?

Wookie oooh almost 11 weeks!

Preggo ladies where's the bump shots???!!!

LF, NSN i hope you and bubs are doing brilliantly!

to those who need it! x

 

[BeachChica]

Notoopt- sorry your first round of IVF failed! Did they give you an reason for this? Did you do the PGD also?

Lexi - welcome back! Where is your recent bump pic?

 

[Emmediva]

Lexi, sounds opposite of me so it'll be interesting to see in a month what my baby is. I've been craving Sushi, ceviche, and shrimp cocktail like crazy I've been good though and have only had cooked Sushi and shrimp cocktail, ceviche is off limits de to it not being cooked. I think I'm going to request that for my first food after I give birth Bump pic coming soon, I just can't upload on the iPhone

Notopt, sorry about the IVF like Lexi asked, will you be trying again? I have a friend on BNB that just transferred a hatched embie last week, she has lots of IVF friends and they suggested eating pineapple core supposedly that helps with implantation.

 

[thurl30]

Hi everyone :wave:

How are you all?

Sorry I went quiet, I had a bit of a downer time, basically I did a female fertility test, and a really strong line came up and I was destroyed, I was like what's the point now then and stopped all my vitamins and just thought I'd had enough of it. Then this morning I took the second test, and the line came up again, but I had another look at the instructions and realised I was holding the test the wrong way round Turns out the test was negative

I have missed so much,

Beach I saw your scan picture, that's amazing I am so pleased for you

Lexi welcome back, congrats on putting the announcement on facebook, I know it's a big step to take but everything is going good so why not

Monro, Soop, Nicki how are you all doing?

Emme I saw you had a couple of scares, pretty frightening but I'm sure everything is fine

 

[BeachChica]

Thurl- I am glad you're back. I need reminders to stalk your chart! Looks like you might be getting ready to O soon. Have you started every other day?

 

[thurl30]

Beach we have started I took soya this cycle but only 80mg a day CD3 - CD7, my chart looks totally different this cycle to the last cycle so fingers crossed you are right how are you doing?

 

[BeachChica]

Beach we have started I took soya this cycle but only 80mg a day CD3 - CD7, my chart looks totally different this cycle to the last cycle so fingers crossed you are right how are you doing?

That's great! I have everything crossed for you!! I am doing well just exhausted I have been laying around on the couch all day. not very productive Saturday for sure!