A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[mommylov]

Hi ladies! Back from vaca and so much going on here! TWO bfp's?!?!?! Congrats Cruise and Honey!!!! Sending you ladies sticky and wishing you a H&H 9 months!

beach, I hope that you get your crosshairs on FF soon hun and that you catch that eggy!

Nicki, wookie, biblio, nina...How are you all doing?

:wave: to anyone I have missed and hope you all are doing well!

 

[Bibliophile]

Nothing new here. Just waiting for O. Getting a few things together to send & surprise hubby while he's gone.

 

[mommylov]

Awww, what a great wifey you are! Im sure your hubby will be thrilled to receive his gift

 

[Bibliophile]

This is assuming he lives for the next week & a half... Which is somewhat iffy today. Lol.

 

[TIA_30]

HELLO LADIES!!!!
I lost TWO baby around 6 weeks one in AUG/2012 AND 7 weeks JAN/2013 feels like im in the middle of a circle and everyone around me is pregnant one being my sister, and the other my sister in law also women almost everywhere i go. On the army base, parks, malls, and small stores. My husband and i have been trying since then we have both done numerous test at the doctors office and they both are saying we are perfectly health im 30 and he's 32. We have tried preseed, baby asprin, fertilabella, vitamins in the past months still nothing. My last cycle was 6/16/2013 a 25 day cycle which are normally 27 days. I took opk test which was pos. on cd 11 6/26,cd 12 6/27, cd13 6/28,and cd 14 6/29. We bd on cd 5,6,8,9,10,11,12,13,14,15,20,21 and i took a hpt today on cd 23 bfn want to cry but being strong. just achy left breast on and off but thats it. Can someone please tell us what we may be doing wrong, thank you!

 

[TIA_30]

during my june 16,2013 cycle we used fertilitea and waiting to test again tomorrow morning.

 

[mommylov]

This is assuming he lives for the next week & a half... Which is somewhat iffy today. Lol.

Tia, welcome and so sorry for your losses. Im on the tail end of my 3rd loss and its terrible how many people are pregnant around you when you go through loss(es). I def have my moments of feeling defeated and no hope but with this last loss, I actually felt like Im that much closer to figuring out what I need to do to have a HEALTHY baby. Have you been working with a RE or just a regular OB? I just recently got reffered to a RE and although my OB was very thorough, they can only do so much. This RE I started to see is on a whole new level. Hope that your rainbow is coming to you soon!

 

[honeyprayer]

Hi ladies! Back from vaca and so much going on here! TWO bfp's?!?!?! Congrats Cruise and Honey!!!! Sending you ladies sticky and wishing you a H&H 9 months!

beach, I hope that you get your crosshairs on FF soon hun and that you catch that eggy!

Nicki, wookie, biblio, nina...How are you all doing?

:Wave: to anyone I have missed and hope you all are doing well!

Thx hunnie! So glad to hear you had a good week off with DH we missed you though so are very glad to have you back!

 

[Bibliophile]

Hi, Tia. Sorry to hear about your losses. I don't have any advice but finding an RE rather than a regular OB (if that's what you have) is probably a good idea.

 

[TIA_30]

Thank you mommylov and Bibliophile i will definitely start looking for a RE instead of my OB.

 

[Nina83]

I actually felt like Im that much closer to figuring out what I need to do to have a HEALTHY baby.

I feel that way as well. For some reason I feel like #3 is the magic number (it is my lucky number)
I feel like I needed to go through these 2 losses to figure something out, or to do something differently, or right. Not sure what it is- but I feel it.

 

[Nicki123]

Tia sorry you find yourself here, I hope you get your rainbow soon.

Welcome back Mommy

Honey, still so excited about your BFP.

Beach - I hope you got that egg, sometimes it's hard to BD when you need to isn't it.

Hi everyone else, hope you're all well!

 

[honeyprayer]

Tia sorry you find yourself here, I hope you get your rainbow soon.

Welcome back Mommy

Honey, still so excited about your BFP.

Beach - I hope you got that egg, sometimes it's hard to BD when you need to isn't it.

Hi everyone else, hope you're all well!

Thanks Nicki I believe you and Beach are next!

As excited as I am, I am trying not to get too attached. How horrible is that? :/ None of my BFPs have ever worked out so I'm finding it hard to get excited because I am so scared of being let down again. *sigh* I'm going for betas tomorrow with my RE and again on Friday. Hopefully I have some good numbers If my numbers are good, he's going to do my first ultrasound on August 1 at 7 weeks :/ Scary.

I keep wanting to test and I took my last FRER last night and it looked pretty decent so I've convinced myself to save my last CB digi for 5 weeks or so, hoping to see 3+. I have never seen 3+!

Hope everyone is doing well and enjoying their summers!

 

[Bibliophile]

I know what you mean, Honey. :/ When I get a positive, I always go out and buy a little thing for it- a onesie or a small toy or something. Originally it was to celebrate but then it turned into something to remember by. FX that this is the one!

Baby dust to you, Nina! Are you waiting a bit before trying again?

 

[Nina83]

Baby dust to you, Nina! Are you waiting a bit before trying again?

We're not waiting. But it doesn't look like I've O'd yet. I'm just having a really bad week

 

[mommylov]

Thx hunnie! So glad to hear you had a good week off with DH we missed you though so are very glad to have you back!

Awwww thanks doll

I feel that way as well. For some reason I feel like #3 is the magic number (it is my lucky number)
I feel like I needed to go through these 2 losses to figure something out, or to do something differently, or right. Not sure what it is- but I feel it.

For sure. #3 has def been lucky for lots of women here so def can happen for you!

 

[Bibliophile]

Baby dust to you, Nina! Are you waiting a bit before trying again?

We're not waiting. But it doesn't look like I've O'd yet. I'm just having a really bad week

I'm sorry. Hope it picks up!

 

[Nina83]

I'm sorry. Hope it picks up!

Thank you Love
I just want something to happen!

 

[Bibliophile]

Lol. Waiting is the worst. thing. ever. Well... Close, anyway.

 

[Nina83]

We DTD to help pass time
I have never been so open about my sex life ever!