A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[babydust818]

I didn't have insurance for the longest time so i couldn't really get looked at. I'm just now starting to look into everything with my dr. He wants to put me on Clomid once my body starts regulating after this m/c. I'm really looking forward to it. Since i've posted the last time.. i went to test again and my pee was bloody. I'm starting to cramp now. I think the end is near. I'm just ready to start moving on. It's been so hard living a normal life for the last 3 weeks when i've been in the limbo. Thanks for the support girls!

 

[babydust818]

Hi Racheal! Sorry to hear what you're going through right now. I hate to even bring this up, and do this only out of concern and not to worry you unnecessarily, but have you discussed the possibility of an ectopic -- slow rising hcg is one of the early warning signs? If I were you, I'd push for a scan right now!

Hopefully, though, the blip is just a disappearing twin and all will be right. This thread is inspirational because so many ladies have gotten their rainbow even when all seems lost.

I mentioned to dr about ectopic. He said it possibly could be but since my numbers are so low you can't see anything on a sonogram. He also said being low it wouldn't rupture my tube. He was going to give me a shot of methotrexate if i wanted it. That is IF my numbers keep going up or hovering around the same. I think i don't have to worry though. I think the m/c is near.

 

[Bibliophile]

Sorry it's looking like it's starting to end. But I completely agree about limbo.

 

[Nicki123]

Sorry you find yourself here Rachel but welcome to the thread, it's so nice to talk to people who kind of understand what you're going through.

New - thinking of you! Come on Haribo!

 

[mommylov]

Hi ladies! Just wanted to pop in and see how everyone was doing...

NTAT... tick tock!!!

 

[BeachChica]

Rach - welcome to this thread!!!! So happy to see you here! I know all about your journey and I think you will find this thread helpful! So many girls have been successful after long journeys as well. Did you hear anymore from the doc today after your bloodwork?

NTAT - hope you are holding your little rainbow right now!!!! Looking forward to your update!

 

[monro84]

Rachael--Sorry to see you here. But know this you will get your rainbow like me and so many other ladies here and the other ladies will get theirs also soon. I had a BO with my first ever BFP. I know that they can go either way slow rising or fast rising. Mine was fast rising and at 5 wks they were 1300 and they did a sono at hospital b/c I was spotting and it was Christmas eve. and saw a sac. a few wks later the sac grew but nothing in it I got a second opinion to make sure and at 10 wks even though it was measuring 12 I had a D&C the did the blood test one more time right before it and it was 126,000. I was worried about etpoic to b/c the numbers kept going up but nothing in sac and there are sudo sacs sometimes too. I was hoping I had a tilted uterus and those stories of babies showing up at 10 wks would happen to me but it did not happen however the dr was right and the d&c just showed a sac and nothing else that gave me a little releaf. I am hoping and praying for a miracle for you but if not your more fertile after a mc, birth, or d&c b/c you are cleaned out and have a fresh new lining for the little eggy to implant so praying that the next cycle will be your rainbow sticky baby.

NTAT-exciting remember to breath deep not fast that helped me with the contractions (but only made it to 3 cm before I needed pain medicine but was 3 1/2, 4 or 5 when I got epidural.


Honey--Great pic and I guess too. I am going by the head shape however I was wrong with mine. I don't see a nub in that pic so cannot go by that. You will tell us what your having though right

Hello to everyone else :wave:

 

[babydust818]

Thank you Monro for your sweet words. I'm glad to be in this thread because no one understands like you girls. So happy to see some of you have a rainbow Gives me hope.

My dr finally called this morning and said my hcg went from 144 to 24. He thinks what happened was tissue began to grow in the beginning and then it stopped which made me spot for so long (almost a month) and also made my numbers plateau. I told him how after i went there yesterday that i started bleeding. He was pleased to hear that. Said he doesn't think a D&C will be needed and that i should wait 1 cycle to start trying again. I asked if he thinks it was blighted ovum and he said yes. Right now i'm cramping and feel like it's a bad AF. I'll be happy once it stops so i can move forward.

 

[mommylov]

Babydust, Im so sorry to hear hun but I agree that there are sooo many women here that have gone on to have thier miracles. Dont lose hope!

 

[monro84]

I would definatley want natural. I had 1 d&c and while I did not have a bad experience I was worried about scarring so my second to last mmc (4th loss) which was triplet/twin pregnancy. Saw 5 sacs at 5 wks 2 day US at hospital and then at 6 wks 2 days passed something big and started bleeding alot and called ob and went in and had an US and had 1 hb that was kinda slow. Went week later and no hb but opted to do a pill that would dilate cervix to pass naturally. It was painfull but better than a d&c.

GL on the next cycle sending tons of sticky baby your way.

 

[babydust818]

Wow monro sounds like you've been through so much I'm so happy you have your rainbow

I'm glad my body decided to do it naturally. I'm scared of some not passing and screwing with my chances next go round. I guess i just need to trust my body.

Thanks girls!

 

[Bibliophile]

Don't let that weigh on you. Most spontaneous ones do pretty well at getting it all out. Just take care of yourself the best you can right now. Even if that means staring at the wall. I think we've all been there.

 

[Nicki123]

I'm glad you're feeling ok Rachel, best for things to happen naturally if possible (although I've had 5 erpcs and have to say it wasn't too bad...)

Waiting patiently for news from NewToAllThis

 

[NewToAllThis]

For those who don't visit my journal.

Sorry girls. Had a nightmare few days, a truly awful experience but the good news is he's here

Hugo James was born at 17:05 today weighing 8lb 1.5oz and is totally beautiful. We are besotted with him.

He's currently in neonatal as we've both contracted infections (high temps)

I'll give you the whole gruesome birth story in time but for now I'm waiting for cuddles.


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[Nicki123]

Love wee Hugo!

 

[Bibliophile]

Oh, he's precious! Sorry you had a rough time.

 

[babydust818]

OMG look at that handsome little boy!! Awwww wow. I'm sorry you both have infections right now, but i am very happy he's here. So happy for you and your OH! Congratulations!

 

[wookie130]

NTAT! What a beautiful boy!!!! Congrats!!!!!!

And, as awful as the experience sounded like it was, the only thing that truly matters from any of it is a mommy and baby that live through it, and come out healthy in the long-run. Sounds like this goal has been achieved. I always tell ladies I know to let go of the idea of having the "ideal" or "perfect" PROCESS (i.e. BIRTH), and just relish that their child is HERE, alive, and healthy (or will be healthy very soon). The outcome is what matters.

Enjoy your new little bundle. He'll be tip-top before you know it, and home with you, where you will fall in love with him all over again. He won't be this tiny for very long...my little girl turns 6 months tomorrow!

Again, congrats! Another gorgeous rainbow to give us hope!

 

[BeachChica]

NTAT - Congrats!!! Sorry you had a rough couple of days. I will pop over and check your journal. For some reason I can't see the pic, its just an X. I will try to log out and log back in and see if it works.

 

[whigfield]

Hoping I can join you ladies? Have had 3 m/cs so far, 1 early, 1 chemical, and the last which was absolutely awful. Also have PCOS and trying again next cycle with clomid & metformin.