A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

Thanks DSemcho :hugs:

I used to get ovary pain and pretty much got my positive opk the same day so I always called that O day. Wishing you the best of luck and sending lots of baby dust :dust:
 
Hello New...Hugo looks great!Lucky boy to have such a loving momma!May God bless him.

I am feeling low today.I did not respond well to medication in this cycle.Not having good follicles.Not sure with 2 follicles IUI would work or not :( More over out of those 2 one is still on smaller side
 
DH got our fertility specialist appointment rescheduled for 24OCT (was supposed to be 8OCT but his job changed his hours to 12 hour shifts on nights for the next month)
 
DH got our fertility specialist appointment rescheduled for 24OCT (was supposed to be 8OCT but his job changed his hours to 12 hour shifts on nights for the next month)

So frustrating!! Keep us updated. :hugs:
 
Just wanted to drop by and send :dust: and :hugs: to everyone!!

AFM~ on to the next cycle :( Just waiting for the darn :witch: to show.
 
Urgh... Some people...
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DS - is that from a friend?? How 'helpful'.
They don't pick up hints do they - just keep repeating over and over to 'be patient' -gee thanks!
 
Yup. It's a girl that 3 years ago was crying to me cause she couldn't give her hubs a child (when she was complaining they had only been married 2 months and known each other 3 months)... She ended up pregnant two months later and now has two kids.
 
How soon they forget...
Just because she got her happy ending (after quite a short time!) doesn't mean we all know 100% that we will and it will be hard for us until we have that child in our arms.
Kind of astounded by how useless her advice is and how lacking in empathy she is.... Luckily you have us here to understand how you're feeling!
 
DS - Looks like your friend has no other word in her vocab other than patience.LOL.In 2 months she started crying and now asking you to be patient after 2 losses and 2 years?strange!
Please keep us updated about your hubby's doctor appointment.FX'd.

Mommy - AF may not show at all.Which day it is for you?

AFM - I went to the clinic for scan and found I already ovulated with one follicle.And I had two more one at 18 and one at 14.5.So we did an IUI today and got trigger so I my other follicle ovulates.Tomorrow we are going for another IUI.
The procedure was good.I did spot a bit.But only once.We opted for B2B IUI as we could not do baby dance in last few days.Hubby is having loads of work pressure and he is tensed.Even today he spilled the semen at floor while giving the sample for IUI.Then again the collected it from floor and gave it to them.We did not tell anything to the doctor.All I came to know is the count and motility of the sample was fine.Not very sure about exact numbers though.Will come to know after tomorrows IUI.
My doctor was not happy with my linin.It is 8.5 but not perfect tri layer.It is kind of patchy.That does not nullify my chance but reduces a bit.All total it did not went very well with bad linin,spilled and recollected semen sample
Keeping fingers crossed for tomorrow.
 
DS, how frustrating. Honestly, I do think that when it comes to baby-stuff, the best intentions of people often get in the way of common sense, and their words end up hurting, rather than helping. In any case, I'm sorry to hear things have been such a struggle for you. The best encouragement I can give you, is just to let you know that many of us on this thread have been in a similar boat, and have gone on to have their rainbow babies. Like many things in life, there are no guarantees, and the longer you struggle, the less hope you begin to have...but we're here for you, and hopefully we can help hold you up while you continue on your journey to having a child. :hugs:
 
AFM - I went to the clinic for scan and found I already ovulated with one follicle.And I had two more one at 18 and one at 14.5.So we did an IUI today and got trigger so I my other follicle ovulates.Tomorrow we are going for another IUI.
The procedure was good.I did spot a bit.But only once.We opted for B2B IUI as we could not do baby dance in last few days.Hubby is having loads of work pressure and he is tensed.Even today he spilled the semen at floor while giving the sample for IUI.Then again the collected it from floor and gave it to them.We did not tell anything to the doctor.All I came to know is the count and motility of the sample was fine.Not very sure about exact numbers though.Will come to know after tomorrows IUI.
My doctor was not happy with my linin.It is 8.5 but not perfect tri layer.It is kind of patchy.That does not nullify my chance but reduces a bit.All total it did not went very well with bad linin,spilled and recollected semen sample
Keeping fingers crossed for tomorrow.

Just wanted to give you a bit of hope ttcmoon.
When my DH and I underwent fertility testing, it was discovered that DH had a very low sorry count (7 million) and my lining was very thin (4mm)
We were basically told it was virtually impossible for us to have a natural pregnancy and for me to carry it. 18 months later, I have a naturally conceived precious little boy.

Please don't give up even when you think the odds are stacked against you.

:hugs:
 
DS - Looks like your friend has no other word in her vocab other than patience.LOL.In 2 months she started crying and now asking you to be patient after 2 losses and 2 years?strange!
Please keep us updated about your hubby's doctor appointment.FX'd.

Mommy - AF may not show at all.Which day it is for you?

AFM - I went to the clinic for scan and found I already ovulated with one follicle.And I had two more one at 18 and one at 14.5.So we did an IUI today and got trigger so I my other follicle ovulates.Tomorrow we are going for another IUI.
The procedure was good.I did spot a bit.But only once.We opted for B2B IUI as we could not do baby dance in last few days.Hubby is having loads of work pressure and he is tensed.Even today he spilled the semen at floor while giving the sample for IUI.Then again the collected it from floor and gave it to them.We did not tell anything to the doctor.All I came to know is the count and motility of the sample was fine.Not very sure about exact numbers though.Will come to know after tomorrows IUI.
My doctor was not happy with my linin.It is 8.5 but not perfect tri layer.It is kind of patchy.That does not nullify my chance but reduces a bit.All total it did not went very well with bad linin,spilled and recollected semen sample
Keeping fingers crossed for tomorrow.

Thanks moon! And I have to say actually when aww when you said your DH is stressed and dropped the cup. When my DH got his semen analysis it was so awkward and uncomfortable for him (the nurse stood RIGHT outside the bathroom door) he could only get out a water bottle cap full of semen. I'm hoping your IUI goes well!! :D

Btw, what's it like getting one? When my DH asked me what I wanted for my BDay (in November) I told him if we weren't pregnant by then I wanted a round of IUI lol

DS, how frustrating. Honestly, I do think that when it comes to baby-stuff, the best intentions of people often get in the way of common sense, and their words end up hurting, rather than helping. In any case, I'm sorry to hear things have been such a struggle for you. The best encouragement I can give you, is just to let you know that many of us on this thread have been in a similar boat, and have gone on to have their rainbow babies. Like many things in life, there are no guarantees, and the longer you struggle, the less hope you begin to have...but we're here for you, and hopefully we can help hold you up while you continue on your journey to having a child. :hugs:

Thanks ^_^ it is nice to have people to talk to about allllll this stuff that goes with TTC and they understand. When I try to explain to hubs about temp spikes and pink cm he's like nope, to much information and I'm confused... I don't need to know HOW it works, just that it did.

Just wanted to give you a bit of hope ttcmoon.
When my DH and I underwent fertility testing, it was discovered that DH had a very low sorry count (7 million) and my lining was very thin (4mm)
We were basically told it was virtually impossible for us to have a natural pregnancy and for me to carry it. 18 months later, I have a naturally conceived precious little boy.

Please don't give up even when you think the odds are stacked against you.

:hugs:

Is 7 million not much? They didn't give USA exact number when they did my DH's they just said the seminal fluid was to thick for them to move properly... Which is why I put him on FertilAid this past cycle.
 
DS - Looks like your friend has no other word in her vocab other than patience.LOL.In 2 months she started crying and now asking you to be patient after 2 losses and 2 years?strange!
Please keep us updated about your hubby's doctor appointment.FX'd.

Mommy - AF may not show at all.Which day it is for you?

AFM - I went to the clinic for scan and found I already ovulated with one follicle.And I had two more one at 18 and one at 14.5.So we did an IUI today and got trigger so I my other follicle ovulates.Tomorrow we are going for another IUI.
The procedure was good.I did spot a bit.But only once.We opted for B2B IUI as we could not do baby dance in last few days.Hubby is having loads of work pressure and he is tensed.Even today he spilled the semen at floor while giving the sample for IUI.Then again the collected it from floor and gave it to them.We did not tell anything to the doctor.All I came to know is the count and motility of the sample was fine.Not very sure about exact numbers though.Will come to know after tomorrows IUI.
My doctor was not happy with my linin.It is 8.5 but not perfect tri layer.It is kind of patchy.That does not nullify my chance but reduces a bit.All total it did not went very well with bad linin,spilled and recollected semen sample
Keeping fingers crossed for tomorrow.

Thanks moon! And I have to say actually when aww when you said your DH is stressed and dropped the cup. When my DH got his semen analysis it was so awkward and uncomfortable for him (the nurse stood RIGHT outside the bathroom door) he could only get out a water bottle cap full of semen. I'm hoping your IUI goes well!! :D

Btw, what's it like getting one? When my DH asked me what I wanted for my BDay (in November) I told him if we weren't pregnant by then I wanted a round of IUI lol

DS, how frustrating. Honestly, I do think that when it comes to baby-stuff, the best intentions of people often get in the way of common sense, and their words end up hurting, rather than helping. In any case, I'm sorry to hear things have been such a struggle for you. The best encouragement I can give you, is just to let you know that many of us on this thread have been in a similar boat, and have gone on to have their rainbow babies. Like many things in life, there are no guarantees, and the longer you struggle, the less hope you begin to have...but we're here for you, and hopefully we can help hold you up while you continue on your journey to having a child. :hugs:

Thanks ^_^ it is nice to have people to talk to about allllll this stuff that goes with TTC and they understand. When I try to explain to hubs about temp spikes and pink cm he's like nope, to much information and I'm confused... I don't need to know HOW it works, just that it did.

Just wanted to give you a bit of hope ttcmoon.
When my DH and I underwent fertility testing, it was discovered that DH had a very low sorry count (7 million) and my lining was very thin (4mm)
We were basically told it was virtually impossible for us to have a natural pregnancy and for me to carry it. 18 months later, I have a naturally conceived precious little boy.

Please don't give up even when you think the odds are stacked against you.

:hugs:

Is 7 million not much? They didn't give USA exact number when they did my DH's they just said the seminal fluid was to thick for them to move properly... Which is why I put him on FertilAid this past cycle.

Apparently 7 million isn't many. Anything over 20 million is considered 'normal' but I know people on here who have had tests and DH's count has been 40 million plus - so put like that, 7 million sounds like nothing!

I put DH on Wellman Conception and when he was tested again, his count had raised to 9.5 million. I've heard good things about Fertilaid but not really available in the UK.
 
Well yay! We also used PreSeed this cycle, I didn't even have ANY CM this cycle...... I think I'm definitely not going to use EPO this next cycle... And gonna try to keep BD from being awkward...

Oh and I had a hard sharp twinge about 10 minutes ago :D
 
DS- IUI is not bad :) Specially ppl like us who get tensed over timing and can't perform its good for them.I never had a BFP on IUI though.But as it bypasses cervix and sperms are washed with good motility and count.There is a hope.It would be an apt gift.But I wish you get pregnant before that :)

Newto - Thanks for infusing some home.My hubby has got morphological issue.His post wash count is generally around 40mil or so.I too had my both pregnancies naturally.But nothing after that.I just hope this cycle works for me.Thanks for sharing your story :)
 
Sometimes sperm count and motility remains normal, but out of the motile sperms most are morphologically not correct.Some may be having a missing head.Some with double tail.Precisely morphologically incorrect sperms do not look normal appearance wise.Also they generally do not have power to impregnate.
Morphology should be around 15%.At least 15% of the sperms should be good in shape and size.But we are lacking in this dept.But as his count is well 10% still means quite a few.That is the only hope I have :)
 
Ooooohhh ok. They didn't use those terms with me when explaining about DH's issue. He stalled getting the analysis done for 6 months because he thought his boys were fine cause I got pregnant twice. I think he wanted the issue to be me but they couldn't find anything with me anymore... He was sad when he found out it was him... Got SUPER drunk that night.
 
Sorry your friend is being so not friendish, DS. :( I have one friend IRL that I talk to about this, and she has to have IUIs to get pregnant, so her fertility problems (at least for now) are worse than mine. Otherwise, we keep it to ourselves. Our family is nominally aware that we're trying, but we've made it sound like we're still waiting for the depo to finish leaving my system. Lol.

FX, Moon!
 

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