A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[filipenko32]

Yes don't worry, even if you do, you will still be fine!

Beach did your saline scan come back all clear then?

 

[NewToAllThis]

Wow, how quick does this thread move - can hardly keep up!!

Ladyfog - so pleased for you. Do you have any scan pics we can see? Hoping the next couple of weeks goes quickly for you as I know how had it is when you have a milestone to get over

Lexi - good luck for this cycle

Mpepe - Sorry the progesterone side effects are not good. And also sorry to hear about your grandmother. Sending you big

Filipenko - sorry the testing showed a normal baby - but on the positive, maybe next time...

JW - Hope you got through your EDD on Saturday ok. Its hard but I found it was ok once it was over. Not so good if you have more to deal with Fingers crossed for your blood results

RM - so sorry hun, really hope this is just a bit of bleeding and everything is ok in there. Thinking of you

NSN - Hope the process is not too bad and is easing up for you. You have been in my thoughts over the past week or so even though I haven't had time to post

Tweak - for O, hope the dreaded TWW goes quickly for you and fx'd for testing on Monday

Beach - poor cat, I'm so sorry, its truly awful to lose a pet

Grey Eyes & Jaxvipe - welcome sorry for your losses but you're in the right place for help and support

Applejack - hope TWW rushes by for you and fx'd

Phew, hope I didn't miss anyone - apologies if I did.

AFM - I'm ok - feeling a bit like AF may arrive, a bit crampy etc - really hope she does as its been 7 weeks since ERPC.
In other more random news, met up with a friend last night who lives in Cyprus and was over for a bit and she said she knew I was preggo a couple of months ago as she dreamed about it...
Weird, but she also said that she recently had another dream about me and I was pushing a pram with a baby dressed in blue I hope she's right!

 

[BeachChica]

Yes don't worry, even if you do, you will still be fine!

Beach did your saline scan come back all clear then?

Filipenko - yes everything was all clearing. I am hoping that all the "flushing" up there helped clear things out for a succesful pregnancy!!! LOL

NTAL - I hope the dream is right this time too and that you don't get AF!!

 

[mpepe32]

ladies

ntat - there's alot to be said about dreams! 2 times I conceived I dreamt I was pregnanct a few days before I tested. Hope af arrives for u so you can get onto your next cycle.

AFM -feeling quite miserable at the moment. This progest. is for the birds. Just took a 1/2 of a gravol to try to ease the nausea and very tired with a bad headache. DH was quite the jerk this morning. I came upstairs and told him to go to work so I could get some sleep (i suffer from insomnia) and he was so insensetive and not understanding in the slightest. Makes me wonder why I go through suffering when he acts that way. I cannot wait to go home and get into bed. sorry to complain

 

[filipenko32]

Yeah the day before i tested postitive a few months ago i dreamt I was pregnant I just knew and saw a little boy!! Turns out I was pregnant with a boy but it wasn't meant to be for some reason.

Happy Thanksgiving ladies!! I shall be stuffing myself today but first an early morning swim...... x x x

 

[Ladyfog]

MPepe, sorry you are having such a tough time. Hopefully it will all be worth it. I'm sure DH didn't mean to be insensitive, it's just sometimes they don't think and they just don't realise how much emotional turmoil this TTC business causes us. Rest up and look after yourself

NTAL - hope the dream is right. lots of coming your way!

Happy thanksgiving the American's amongst us . For me it's just a normal day in the cold UK!

I'm sooo tired at the moment - haven't made it past 8.30pm most nights for the past 2 weeks! I normally volunteer on a helpline for an eating disorder charity on Thursday nights but have had to say I need a few weeks off as I just can't stay up late enough. I think this time I need to make sure I look after myself and concede that I just can't do everything at the moment. Feel bad though, I don't like letting them down .

 

[BeachChica]

Happy Thanksgiving ladies :wave: and for those not in the US I think you should indulge today too!!

mpepe - sorry DH is being a jerk. They really don't understand do they!!???

Ladyfog - I have been the exact same way, I can't make it past about 8:30pm. I am so exhausted and really try to stay up to watch my shows, but after about 30 min I'm passed out on the couch! Don't feel like you're letting them down, think of what you would be putting yourself through if you tried to stay up. You need to take care of yourself too!!

 

[filipenko32]

Beach I replied to your post on the other thread!

Ladyfog, yeah you take it easy nice of you to volunteer to do that though. Are you a counsellor by trade?

MPepe - sorry about your DH Do you want to hear something funny? When I asked my DH how long the egg survives for after ovulation, I got these spluttered guesses: 9 months (!) 1 week, 1 month, 1 hour, until the sperm gets there.

NTAT: Hopee your friend's right!

I'm loving this excuse to eat today!! x x x

 

[RaspberryMini]

Sorry I've been a bit missing the past few days it's all been a little confusing really.

As you know I had some blood on Sunday morning which turned to blood stained discharge (apologies if TMI), then by Monday evening discharge back to clear. I've had no more blood since, instead I've started having extreme nausea to the point where I'm either hungry or feeling sick and when I do eat a meal most of the time I can't keep it down. I've never experienced sickness in any other pregnancy and I'm not a generally sicky person so is this ms or am I actually ill?

I'm not counting my chickens yet and still think this could go either way, but you ladies have given me such amazing support and helped me to have a PMA whatever the outcome

Hope everyone is doing ok and we see some more positive results soon

Xxx

 

[Neversaynever]

RM...good to hear from you and I think you're experiencing MS I know things could go either way still but I have everything crossed the bleed was nothing to worry about please keep us posted.

Mpepe...hugs hun...sometimes even our OH have no idea why we are going through maybe you need to give him a little education so he understands the timing is crucial sorry about your grandma too

Beach and lady...good that all seems to be going well and the tiredness is there all good stuff

Lexi...how're you doing?

NTAL...pink...AJ...tweak...fili and everyone else and

Sorry not been around as much...have been spending time in my journal and trying to keep the happy face on.

Love to all

XxX

 

[Grey Eyes]

Im so glad you started this thread because after two losses and ttc your first i feel is something only other women who are ttc the 1st would understand. I myself have had two losses in the past nine months and i am now 24...its heartbreaking but i feel so positive right now that i will have a baby...the fear is still here even though i havent got my BFP yet...but you do see other women who have one loss and go on to have healthy pregnancies...i thought that this would be me, i thought bad luck couldn't strike twice so when it did i was and still am devastated...now i have two due dates to think of my first being the 19/20 september...and i still calculate how many weeks i would be with both babies...its heartbreaking i can only say that i understand how you feel try to stay strong...i do have my breakdowns but all in all im trying to remain positive for the future...good luck sending lots of baby dust your way...are you ttc right now?

I may not totally fit your description as I now have 2 daughters but I did suffer mc before I had successful pregnancy. I understand how you are afraid- with my situation at the time I felt like a huge failure, like I was the only woman in the world who couldn't make babies! I felt like such a let-down to my husband- etc. But have hope! I have got to say just because you have one or two or more mc's does NOT mean you can't have a healthy normal pregnancy! Mc does happen and it happens a lot moreoften than I thought in this world- nearly every woman I know has suffered one or more--including myself with 2 mc's so far. I recently miscarried (about a week ago) and am totally devastated by it. I will tell you that your best hope is to KEEP TRYING!! You will be so amazed,, and please think positive if you can! I feel so much better by totally focusing on my next pregnancy. I am getting educated- hcg's, progesterone, all the possibilties, everything I can do and force my doctor to do to make this successful. Good luck hun and keep TTC!!

 

[Ladyfog]

RM - you sound like your MS is so much worse than mine and I had a healthy scan so fingers crossed the bleed was normal and nothing to worry about. Still no word on a scan at all? - do you have to wait for 12 weeks? FX'd for you.

Fili - No, I'm not a counsellor, but they do give you training before you go on the phones. I volunteered because of my own experiences when I was younger, which are now thankfully long behind me We are just there to listen, give information and let people work through their problems. I feel honoured every time someone talks to me - sometimes about things they've never told anyone else.

NSN - You DO NOT have to put a happy face on definitely not here anyway. We all know how shitty it is and please don't be afraid to be sad/angry/whatever if you need to. Are you getting enough support at home? It's good that you have your journal as it seem to be very therapeutic for you

Beach - I cannot believe how tired I am - all the time! I really hope this is a good sign as well as feeling icky to some degree most of the day. I'm really glad everything seems to be going so well for you. Do you have your scan coming up soon?

Hi everyone else, and good luck those of us in the 2WW!!!

 

[BeachChica]

RM - glad the bleeding has stopping and I really feel like you are having MS now. I know its unpleasant but hopefully a good sign! I hope your doctor is able to get you in for a scan soon just for some peace of mind.

NSN - like Lady said, you don't have to put your happy face on here, its nice to have a place you can really say what's on your mind with a group of people that totally understand!

Grey - sorry about your loss

Lady - Last night I was in bed by 8pm. This tiredness is unbelievable!!! I don't remember being this tired before but that really seems like my only symptom. My 1st scan is on December 1st. Have you joined the PAL July 2012 thread?

:wave: Hope everyone else is doing well!!! Anyone going out for some Black Friday shopping today?

 

[filipenko32]

Ladyfog that must be really rewarding

RM - ms and bleeding stopping - looking good - keeping everything crossed for you x x x

 

[filipenko32]

:wave: Grey, how you doing today?

 

[mpepe32]

HI LADIES just coming on quickly to let you know im leaving these forum and giving up on ttc, I wish all for you so much luck and love in getting your forever babies. I stopped the progesterone 2 days ago bc having adverse allergic reaction to it. I just need to go back to a life without the stress and worry that has encompassed my life for 2 years and focus on what really matters an appreciate and enjoy the life I have, I'll miss you all

 

[filipenko32]

Good luck mpepe, I really hope it happens for you while you're not thinking about it x x x It was nice to 'virtually meet' you All the very best to you Come back if you change your mind

 

[Neversaynever]

HI LADIES just coming on quickly to let you know im leaving these forum and giving up on ttc, I wish all for you so much luck and love in getting your forever babies. I stopped the progesterone 2 days ago bc having adverse allergic reaction to it. I just need to go back to a life without the stress and worry that has encompassed my life for 2 years and focus on what really matters an appreciate and enjoy the life I have, I'll miss you all

You take of yourself hun

Will be thinking of you and you know where we all are if ever you decide to come back

XxX

 

[Ladyfog]

HI LADIES just coming on quickly to let you know im leaving these forum and giving up on ttc, I wish all for you so much luck and love in getting your forever babies. I stopped the progesterone 2 days ago bc having adverse allergic reaction to it. I just need to go back to a life without the stress and worry that has encompassed my life for 2 years and focus on what really matters an appreciate and enjoy the life I have, I'll miss you all

You take of yourself hun

Will be thinking of you and you know where we all are if ever you decide to come back

XxX

Yes, good luck MPepe. It's a brave decision and hopefully one for the best. You know where you are if you ever need us

 

[BeachChica]

HI LADIES just coming on quickly to let you know im leaving these forum and giving up on ttc, I wish all for you so much luck and love in getting your forever babies. I stopped the progesterone 2 days ago bc having adverse allergic reaction to it. I just need to go back to a life without the stress and worry that has encompassed my life for 2 years and focus on what really matters an appreciate and enjoy the life I have, I'll miss you all

Best of luck to you mpepe! Sometimes miracles happen when you are expecting them. Hope have less stress will help make all of your dreams come true!!