A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[filipenko32]

Raspberry, try and be strong you'll get through this. I am hoping and praying that it's just the common bleeding that many women get x x x

 

[filipenko32]

NSN I hope you're holding out ok too, thinking of you x x x

 

[filipenko32]

Ladyfog all the very best of luck tomorrow x x x

 

[RaspberryMini]

Thanks for all the support ladies and NSN I know exactly what you mean and no it's not harsh at all.

I can't even get upset this time, I've had a little cry, but it's just become too "normal" which probably sounds really daft.

Bleeding slowed right off, barely four spots in a pad and there's nothing there at all now. I'll call the mw first thing tomorrow and see what she says.

I'll keep you all updated.

Thanks ladies

Xx

 

[Tweak0605]

It seems like we're all in that down place at the moment. I hope we can all get through Christmas and the holiday season and have our forever babies in our arms next Christmas!


mpepe - Don't lose hope! You're still able to get pregnant; who knows, maybe the next BFP will surprise you.

filipenko - sorry to hear that the chromosomes were normal in your baby boy It deeply saddens me that you lost a normal pregnancy I hope all the drugs and injections will help you carry your rainbow baby next time.

JW - Hope you got through your 2nd EDD okay

Raspberry - I sure hope everything is okay Bleeding can be normal in pregnancy, just try to sit back and relax a bit. I know easier said then done. Put your feet up and don't do anything. I'm glad to hear that it's disappeared. I think calling your MW is a great thing. Big

Ladyfog - Good luck at your scan tomorrow! Glad you still got your symptoms!

NSN - Hope you're okay hun

patiently, lexi, beachchica, AJ - :wave:

AFM - I think I ovulated a few days ago. Had crazy painful O cramps, and 3 days of + OPKs. So, now it's the TWW I guess. I was going to stop temping, but I think I want a full chart to show my doctor when I call next month if I'm not pregnant. Hope it doesn't drive me too crazy seeing my temps fluctuate

 

[BeachChica]

Tweak - I think its good to keep temping. My doctor was actually interested in seeing my chart when I went to my appointment last week and kept my chart for my file.

Hope everyone else is doing OK :wave:

 

[justwaiting]

RM - I'm sorry you've had a bleed. I'm glad it's stopped and your going to get it checked out. It's such a horrible thing to go thru wether it turns out for the better or not, my thoughts are with you.

Lady - Good luck with the scan. I always go in expecting nothing and hope to be pleasently surprised. I really hope you finally get a good first scan.

beach - hope your going well.

TweaK - yay for oing hope you got some bding in and a speedy tww. Stay away from the hpt cupboard!!!!

Thank you to everyone for your kinds words on my edd I needed it but I'm better today. It's just a time you have to get past and it's over. This one was definetly worse tho, maybe because I was alone or that another 9 months had gone by and no baby.

I hope your all doing well in whatever stage your at. We'll be fine as long as we have each other!

 

[Ladyfog]

Hi everyone. Well, it's good news! Everything looked perfect on the scan - baby measured 7+4 and had a strong heartbeat. I can't believe it really - I'm just so relieved. Next scan is 3 weeks today.

Sorry for the selfish post. Thinking of you all

RM, how are you feeling now? Have they booked you in for a scan?

 

[Neversaynever]

Lady...that is fab news hun

JW...I am sorry this is so tough for you

Fili... my heart goes out to you for knowing you have a perfectly healthy son and no reason for his passing

Tweak..hoping you caught the eggy

Lexi...are you feeling any better hun?

Beach...all ok with you?

RM...did you get anywhere with contacting the MW? How are you doing? Anymore bleeding?

Mpepe...sending you some

AJ...you ok?

:hu: to everyone I have missed

I finally started the process yesterday and it is emotionally head screwing and heartbreaking as expected as well as being physically painful too.

AH well, brush myself down and get on with things

XxX

 

[Ladyfog]

NSN Hope it is all over soon.

 

[RaspberryMini]

Good news Ladyfog, so pleased for you

NSN - I know it's painful but it's sometimes a relief for things to start moving along, onwards and upwards

I spoke to midwife who just said lets wait it out. The bleeding is nothing more than. Ploy red discharge now but that's how it started last time. I guess they're the expert. It's like mental torture not knowing really although I feel in my heart it's over.

So no scan, no nothing really. Sometimes I really hate the NHS without you ladies I'd probably be a gibbering wreck by now.

If it is over I just like it to start and be done with at least I could feel less in limbo land and prepare myself for the future

 

[Neversaynever]

RM...big hun, the no knowing HAS to be the worst

Is there a chance you could go and ave an early scan privately or see your GP so they can refer you to EPAU? For me, I just have to know but I understand not everyone is the same way

Either way, I am hoping you are totally wrong and all is ok with beani

XxX

 

[Tweak0605]

BC - Yeah that's why I figured I'd continue temping. That they'd want to see a full chart. Happy 5 weeks! How is everything going?

JW - I'm glad you were better I know if I'm not pregnant by the 2nd EDD it will be horrible for me too.

Lady - SO HAPPY FOR YOU! I'm so glad that everything went well with the scan!

NSN - you

RM - I'm so sorry they won't do anything for you. So horrible. I agree, can you go somewhere to get a private scan or someone else you can see. You shouldn't have to wait it out, they should be doing blood tests on your or something to see if everything is okay or not. Sending you lots of big hugs

Hope everyone else is well

 

[filipenko32]

That's fab news ladyfog! So so pleased for you! Did you do / take anything differently this time?

Hi everyone. Well, it's good news! Everything looked perfect on the scan - baby measured 7+4 and had a strong heartbeat. I can't believe it really - I'm just so relieved. Next scan is 3 weeks today.

Sorry for the selfish post. Thinking of you all

RM, how are you feeling now? Have they booked you in for a scan?

 

[Ladyfog]

RM, I can't believe they're not giving you a scan I guess I'm very lucky with where I live but no one's ever hesitated to arrange an early scan for me after when I bled with both previous pregnancies. It makes me angry that the midwife doesn't seem to think it's important that you get some peace of mind!!! - she should realise that! Sorry, rant over, but it must be so horrible for you.

Are you still feeling icky or have your symptoms faded? It might be a subchorionic bleed (if that the right term?) and not another MC. I really hope it's all OK.

 

[Ladyfog]

That's fab news ladyfog! So so pleased for you! Did you do / take anything differently this time? ]

I haven't done anything differently, other than worry more All tests so far for me had come back clear so I've assumed it's just bad luck and not much you can do about that unfortunately Realised My next scan is actually in 4 weeks so think I'm going to book a private one in between - baby 1 died at about 8.5 weeks so I don't feel I'm out of the danger zone yet.

 

[RaspberryMini]

I still feel icky, sore boobs, tired, although I didn't sleep well last night for obvious reasons. No more blood just a little coloured discharge.

I could go private but don't really want to. I had a private scan in my last pregnancy and vowed never again, as much as I hate the NHS sometimes I felt that the scan was a waste of cash.

I think I'm going to wait it out and if there's any more full on bleeding or I start to feel different insist on an appointment at the EPAU or if I still feel like I'm doomed go straight to my GP.

Pah 2011 has truly been a rubbish year. At least there's only 6 weeks left in it

 

[Ladyfog]

It must be awful I really felt it was over for me last week (luckily just for a few hours) but I just felt the world fall away from me during that time. You're being very brave.

Feeling rough is a good sign though - my mum was told she'd had a miscarriage when she had me, but was sure she hadn't as she still felt so ill - and here I am alive and kicking!

2011 has been a tough ride for all of us here 2012 will be better.

 

[filipenko32]

raspberry, so sorry I missed you post above for some reason. I really would want a scan to put my mind at rest so you are very brave and strong for waiting it out which is probably what you should do really as there's nothing you can do at this stage. But you know, I think you should remember that women do bleed during pregnancy and they are ok. I know that when you've had mc's this is not easy to swallow but it happens so you should still have hope. Feeling ill is a brilliant sign. Don't give up all hope just yet, but we all know your pain and frustration at the moment x x x

 

[Grey Eyes]

Title says it all really

I have so many areas of this forum that I could be in but the loss section is more fitting for me personally.

I've had two losses in the last nine months, I'm 35 and don't have any children and would like some people that are in the same position as me.

I know it's fairly common to have one loss then go on to have a normal pregnancy which is why I would like to have the support and to support others who were not lucky to get the normal pregnancy second/third etc time around.



XxX

Hi hon, sorry for your losses. Please stay positive! I had a mc 8 years ago and 2-3 weeks later pregnant with a baby girl (she is 7 now) then another sucessful pregnancy a few years later. I just had anoth mc (I am 36) and an emergency d'n c but doc tells me I am good to try again asap! Just reasure yourself--ask doc to test your blood for proper progesterone levels as this is what baby lives on in the first few weeks. i know I will as soon as I am prego again. Also- relax! You will do awesome! The womans body is a baby making machine! You will be great! Good luck to you!