A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[lexi374]

Ask away lol, temp dropped on 11dpo, but then had shot up at 12 dpo but that was the night i was throwing up with a sick bug, so that def would have affected it. It dropped the next day and dropped again the following day and AF came that afternoon.

Af is usually around the coverline, below or just above, but your temp is still way above your coverline...... Dont wanna give you false hope... but you are not out yet, fx x

 

[patiently]

aww lexi i really appreciate you taking the time out to give me so much information...well im going to temp tomorrow morning and see... i took a hpt today and it was negative so not feeling too optimistic also my bbs were sore all week and today the tenderness is fading...so im sure AF will be here tomorrow...but thank you again..will you be bd this week then from monday or next week?

 

[lexi374]

Glad to help

I will BD from tonight or tom,will have to see when DH is up to it, if i ov same day as last month then i think it will be friday, i really cant be arsed at all tho

 

[patiently]

lolol...i know the feeling bd now seems so long winded at the best of times but the desire to have a baby always takes priority over what i want...and it becomes a case of what we need to do...but nonetheless good luck this month i really hope you get your bfp in a couple of weeks...are you working too? i find it hard to fit bd in around a working week as im so exhausted..but still manage to dig deep and find some energy...hope you cath your egg and its a sticky one x

 

[lexi374]

Thank you. Yeah i work in a nursery.... of all places!

BD seems less fun and more of a necessity now doesnt it, i bet if we were on holiday i would conceive, that happened the first time, but when at work i know more often than not we cant be bothered but if we only had sex when we felt like it we would get nowhere, tbh we usually end up having a few quickies during fertile week

 

[marieh2008]

marieh im so sorry for your losses have you ever had any testing after your mc to find a reason...you have come to the right place and the women on here are so supportive and understanding...its only natural to have anxiety about future pregnancies but many women on here have shown that after multiple mc they have gone on to have healthy pregnancies...i hope you do get your forever baby...are you ttc atm...and are you on any meds i hope you find this thread as supportive and uplifting as i have...

lexi i took my temp at the same time 4.30am...no alcohol...no cold i dont know whats going on...im still waiting for AF she may show tomorrow so i'll keep you posted...thank you...on your last chart where Af was two days late did your temp keep dropping each day and does it have to drop below the coverline before af arrives? sorry for the million and one questions...

I didnt have any tests and should have. I have had some before they have checled when they can. Pcos is quite bad but on weight watchers and loosing so that should help im also on metformin. I take evening primrose oil until day 13 as you cant always be sure and pregnancare conception. Any tips or anything would be very much appreciated I hope we all get our BFP and baby for ever soon. Its hard when family and friends can so easily but hopefully my little angel thomas will be sprinkling baby dust on his mummy.

 

[Tweak0605]

patiently - I see your temp dropped this a.m. I still have everything crossed for you

Lex - Yay for BDing week!!! Woohoo!! O time is soon!!!

Hope everyone else is well!

I'm 3 DPO today! FF gave me solid CH's and my temp shot back up after going down yesterday. I'm so hoping this Clomid cycle worked for us. Been falling asleep thinking nothing but positive thoughts, about BFPs and fertilized eggs Going for my 7DPO progesterone tests on Friday, and quite possibily testing on Sunday. That's less then a week away - eek!!!

 

[lexi374]

Well we hit an all time low last night! In the middle of dh has a coughing fit and then rushes off to the bathroom to puke!! So that put pay to that!

Will have to have another go tonight if hes up for it, i hope he is as ov wil be getting nearer and we havent bd at all recently!

Marie can you asked to be referred for tests? They should check if you have clotting issues, thyroid and karyotyping for you and your partner

Tweak good luck hun we may know by the end of the week!!

 

[ayclobes]

I tested today..granted its only about 10dpo, i used a FRER and walgreens brand hpt's..BFN on the FRER, but it was faint on the walgreens one. It's still early, so i have a couple days. Af isn't due til the 27th or 28th..at the latest the 30th. So we shall see...dh said "even if we're not pregnant this cycle, we still have the next cycle..ect and it'll give us more time to pay off debt bills."

 

[patiently]

Thank you. Yeah i work in a nursery.... of all places!

BD seems less fun and more of a necessity now doesnt it, i bet if we were on holiday i would conceive, that happened the first time, but when at work i know more often than not we cant be bothered but if we only had sex when we felt like it we would get nowhere, tbh we usually end up having a few quickies during fertile week

You work in a nursery too...wow! you are so strong...i really admire you! BD Definately seems less fun and lately OH has been finding it hard to "seal the deal" lets say...hope it gets better during our fertile period this cycle...and even if you only manage to get a few quickies in remember it only takes one strong swimmer for your bfp...Im so sorry OH is ill hun i hope he starts feeling better soon! and you resume BD if not try not to worry are you charting this month or using opks?

I didnt have any tests and should have. I have had some before they have checled when they can. Pcos is quite bad but on weight watchers and loosing so that should help im also on metformin. I take evening primrose oil until day 13 as you cant always be sure and pregnancare conception. Any tips or anything would be very much appreciated I hope we all get our BFP and baby for ever soon. Its hard when family and friends can so easily but hopefully my little angel thomas will be sprinkling baby dust on his mummy.

Its so annoying when they dont test! im sorry hun... When i got my bfp the first time tbh we took a break from ttc...and in actual fact when we got our second bfp i stopped trying also i didnt chart or temp or even analyse my cycle...i was just tired of it all i guess but i think the point im trying to make is that i feel when we are relaxed our bodies and minds work together...i would say to try and relax as much as possible though i can be the most stressed out and pessimistic person sometimes...you have got bfps before so the main thing is that you can get pregnant...and hopefully all will go well and you will get your sticky bfp shortly...FXed for you hun x

patiently - I see your temp dropped this a.m. I still have everything crossed for you

Lex - Yay for BDing week!!! Woohoo!! O time is soon!!!

Hope everyone else is well!

I'm 3 DPO today! FF gave me solid CH's and my temp shot back up after going down yesterday. I'm so hoping this Clomid cycle worked for us. Been falling asleep thinking nothing but positive thoughts, about BFPs and fertilized eggs Going for my 7DPO progesterone tests on Friday, and quite possibily testing on Sunday. That's less then a week away - eek!!!

Im so excited that you're excited tweak! not long to wait for that possible bfp! i hope clomid does work for you...what cd did you ovulate on? how much mg are you on again? and what cd did you take it? sorry i have a memory like a fish at times...all your positive thoughts must be good too!! FXed for you hope we can add to the list of bfp's in a weeks time! keep us updated on any symptoms!

I tested today..granted its only about 10dpo, i used a FRER and walgreens brand hpt's..BFN on the FRER, but it was faint on the walgreens one. It's still early, so i have a couple days. Af isn't due til the 27th or 28th..at the latest the 30th. So we shall see...dh said "even if we're not pregnant this cycle, we still have the next cycle..ect and it'll give us more time to pay off debt bills."

I hope this is your bfp ayclobes a faint line is still a line!!! i hope this is your sticky bfp! my Fingers are really crossed so hard for you i think they're sticking together!! lol... will you be testing tomorrow morning?

AFM AF came full force this afternoon and the pain is actually amazing!! i have been in agony most of the evening too...so roll on clomid cycle 3...hope the next cycle will be our bfp one...i will be moving up to 100mg this month not sure if it will make a difference but we'll see...this journey doesnt seem to get any easier especially as i was hoping or a bfp as it was a year ago i found out i was pg for the first time just would've been nice i guess...aww well come on february...hows everyone else doing?

 

[Ladyfog]

Hi everyone

Lexi sorry DH is ill as you approach your fertile period, but your story did make me laugh! He sounds like he's committed, even if it's hard to get enthusiastic sometime. I know we were quite functional' at times and theres nothing wrong with that - I think it actually takes the pressure off a bit as its hard work all that romancing every day. Sometimes it's nice to know you just have to DTD and then go back to the TV of your tired! Our first baby was affectionately called 'Baby Rapey' (sorry not very PC I know!) as DH have an awful cold when I o'd but I forced him to DTD anyway. It was our first BFP so it worked!

Patiently - sorry AF has turned up again. It's hard when you get to milestones and you don't feel like you've got to where you want to be yet. It will happen though hun, and you're doing a great job of staying positive. As you said to Marieh, you know you can get pregnant so it will happen again for you. lots of for the period pain, hope it clears up soon.

Marieh, I hope you can get some testing of you ask for it - shame on your drs for not sorting it out sooner . You have been through so much and deserve some answers.

Tweak - you sound so positive, it is great to see! I hope this is your month too, and I hope your tww goes quickly!

ACY - A line is still a line and it's early so hopefully it will get stronger! Give it a couple of days and test again. Fingers crossed for you hun!

I hope everyone else is doing well. Beach, how are you holding out? Hows everyone else doing?

AFM, We had a lovely weekend away. I have the scary scan today though so back to reality. I'm scared shitless, but kind of numb too - I think my brain has gone into protection mode. I know there's a really high possibility of them finding something serious and made the mistake of reading some medical articles that basically put me in 'your baby is probably f*cked' category so I'm preparing myself for bad news in the hope that I will be pleasantly surprised. I feel well though and think I may have felt some quickening but I don't want to believe it in case baby is gone and I feel a fool for thinking I felt something. I just want to come home tonight happy instead of sad like I've done after so many other scans, and I'm scared of what bad news will mean. Sorry to sound so down about it, I really hope I'll be back on here tonight with a scan pic and news that all is well. Please have your fingers and toes crossed (but not your legs!) for me everyone.

 

[marieh2008]

Well we hit an all time low last night! In the middle of dh has a coughing fit and then rushes off to the bathroom to puke!! So that put pay to that!

Will have to have another go tonight if hes up for it, i hope he is as ov wil be getting nearer and we havent bd at all recently!

Marie can you asked to be referred for tests? They should check if you have clotting issues, thyroid and karyotyping for you and your partner

Tweak good luck hun we may know by the end of the week!!

I have had my thyroid done but they won't test me as it has been a few years since and they intially i thought i had early menopause and when all that happened they had drugged me upto the eyeballs. So im just hoping that this time we will get our bfp forever.

 

[patiently]

Lady good luck with your scan today...im sure all will be fine...everything is crossed for you including my legs as AF is here lol...really hope you get some amazing news and you come home with an ear to ear smile...sending lots of luck and positive thoughts your way x

 

[marieh2008]

Good Luck lady luck.

 

[Applejack1]

Good luck lady!

 

[Ladyfog]

Just got back from the hospital and everything's perfect!!!!

I am so so so relieved and Patiently, I do have that ear to ear smile . We also found out that we're having a little girl which is just amazing. We had kind of geared ourselves up for a boy but I don't care at all. I think DH is still getting his head round it!!!

We didn't get a photo this time but have the anomaly scan in 3 weeks time so I'll get one then. They checked her all over and we got to see her feet with little toes and hands with tiny fingers. They checked the flow of blood through her heart and everything looked great! The nuchal translucency has all gone and the consultant said that there's no reason to think that the 20 week scan will show up any problems. We're almost back to a normal pregnancy!

I am still in shock, I feel like my share of good luck has finally arrived.

 

[Neversaynever]

Lady.... awesome news

Tweak...fingers are crossed

Patiently...I'm sorry that hag arrived your chart looked good

Lexi...bugger about DH being but I hope all is well for later and some more rudies

AJ..how are things going? Where are you at?

Marie...hope you are doing ok too

to everyone else too

AFM...ticking along and hoping that all is ok inside...I was due for a scan tomorrow but had a freak out last Monday convinced that it was all over and had a scan where all was ok so now have to wait until the 3rd

XxX

 

[pink80]

Great news Lady xx

 

[August79]

Great news Lady!! So happy for ya'll

 

[lexi374]

Just a quick 1 to say im so pleased for you lady!!!!!

Will post more later x