A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[patiently]

Tweak GL im sure you've done enough if you have o'd and if not then hope you get lots of bd in...hope this is our month!!!

AFM got one tender bb today...i usually get sore nips before AF so really think im out...my temps going down slowly too but i have a 14day luteal phase so we'll see maybe the clomid made it shorter...trying not to ss but its so hard!! lol

 

[NewToAllThis]

Florida. Please don't apologise. I was just being honest that's all.
You didn't upset me, I just had a moment where I thought back to when it all happened (I block it out as the reality is too painful)
I understand your fears, I sort of had the same initially (even though I knew they were gone)
The "oh my god, what the hell would we have done with two?" but once the shock wore off, I started thinking that I want two again.
You will come to terms with it I promise you.
Two babies to love. Two babies

 

[Applejack1]

Congrats Florida! How nice! Fx I have similar luck on the clomid!

Hi to everyone else! I often post from my iPhone and can never scroll back over what I have read so please don't think I don't care about everyone. I love hearing everyone's news just can't always remember all I've read and the names that correspond!

Beach thinking of you often!

AFM in my 2 week wait. Only did the deed 2 times this month (I hate erectile dysfunction) but pretty sure I was ovulating at that time anyway. Those on clomid do you find your cycle is pretty much the same as before the clomid? I realize most doctors proscribed it for those who never ovulate but obviously we all do at some point if we had losses. Did you know u can still have a period monthly and not ovulate? I didn't know that.

Anyway, since I posted last my sister in law is now preggers for number 2. She has been pregnant 2 times now in the time we have been trying for one. Had a argument with
Husband the other night. He doesn't understand why it gets me down. MEN!!!!!! Anyway hoping this is my month!!!!!

 

[lexi374]

Tweak, AJ, and Patiently good luck this month fingers crossed for ya!

NTAT am i right in thinking you have been waiting ages for af? Have you been to the GP? Is there anything you could take to start things off?

to all, afm full of cold boo, cd 7 for me..... boring! x

 

[ayclobes]

grrrr i just wrote out a post..and somehow it all got deleted? weird. I found out that i have tonsilitis/strep throat yesterday--lovely! i've lost 5lbs since monday..due to not eating...and only drinking apple juice. we did ttc this cycle, we bd'd on 1/11,1/14, & 1/15. ff put me to o on 1/13 which was cd12..we shall see.

 

[lexi374]

Good luck ayc i used to suffer with tonsilitis alot when i was younger, hope you feel better soon

 

[NewToAllThis]

Tweak, AJ, and Patiently good luck this month fingers crossed for ya!

NTAT am i right in thinking you have been waiting ages for af? Have you been to the GP? Is there anything you could take to start things off?

to all, afm full of cold boo, cd 7 for me..... boring! x

Yes Lexi, 15 weeks so far and I'm still waiting. I've finally made an appointment to see the Doctor next Tuesday as enough is enough.
I can't wait much longer. Have been having cramps and pressure pains the last few days but no hint of the
I am hoping that the Doc can give me something to bring it on, and better still - send me for a scan to see what's going on in there.
But I am not hopeful of anything to be honest. I waited 12 weeks last time and they just said it will come when its ready... frustrating!

Thanks for asking

 

[lexi374]

NTAT 15 weeks!?! Thats crazy. I really hope the doc can sort you out you must be so frustrated. I know they say it can take 8 weeks but thats far too long for you to have to wait. Ive heard of ladies taking provera? to induce af.

I hope you get some answers or some help when you go next week, dont let them fob you off! x

 

[NewToAllThis]

Just looked up Provera and yes, that sounds like the sort of thing I need.
Just hope she doesn't say to go on the pill as I don't want that, but having said that maybe it would kickstart my body into action, idk?!

 

[justwaiting]

NTAL get them to do a hsg scan on you to see whats going on not just a regular ultrasound. Hopefully it can all get started for u soon and you can move on.
Can I ask whether you have had pains like af at any other time during the last 15wks?

How is everyone going?

 

[NewToAllThis]

NTAL get them to do a hsg scan on you to see whats going on not just a regular ultrasound. Hopefully it can all get started for u soon and you can move on.
Can I ask whether you have had pains like af at any other time during the last 15wks?

How is everyone going?

Yes I get pain roughly when AF is due, about every 4 weeks or so.
Had the same after last erpc but AF came back after 12 weeks. I was concerned about Ashermans last time. Hope all is ok this time.
Doc did blood tests last time which confirmed I was still ovulating but just without the period he seemed to think it was fine.
Seeing a different doctor this time.

 

[lexi374]

I knew you could have periods without ovulating, but i didnt know you could ovulate without having a period, i just kinda assumed a period would always follow.

Hope you get sorted out real soon

 

[ayclobes]

i knew you could ovulate w/o having a flow. Sometimes, as long as you're still ovulating doctors think its ok w/o a flow though.. you'll have to find out for sure though.

 

[NewToAllThis]

I knew you could have periods without ovulating, but i didnt know you could ovulate without having a period, i just kinda assumed a period would always follow.

Hope you get sorted out real soon

Well, that's what he's telling me anyway... whether I believe him or not is another matter.
As he's just a regular gp, would he know an in-depth amount of info on woman's bits? Idk?

The woman I am seeing on Tuesday spent a bit of time working in gynae at the hospital so she may be more clued up... and she's a woman so that may help too!

 

[lexi374]

Yeah fingers crossed for you, my gp didnt know alot about it either and miscarriages etc, i think we probably know more ourselves due to the amount of googling we do!

I wouldnt know anything at all if it wasnt for the internet x

 

[NewToAllThis]

Yep, thank god for the internet eh!
He smiled and laughed last time I went when I was telling him this and that, he said "you've obviously been doing your research"

Hell yeh, I'd be lost without BnB and Google.

 

[ayclobes]

i think it depends the doctor..when i first started seeing my doc when we were ttc in 2009/2010..he had alot of insight..then he had to go and move 6 states away..so i got transfered to his replacement--don't get me wrong..she's a good doctor, but i felt like b/c she couldnt figure out why i was getting pregnant, but not having them stick..so she referred me to an RE..and well..here i am.

i love my midwife i have now, plus my clinic has an RE that visits the office.

 

[patiently]

Morning ladies...i will catch up properly later but just wanted to ask your opinion before work...i have been temping since o but yesterday my temp rose even higher and i had another spike and ff says its a triphasic chart? so i tested this morning at 11dpo and bfn so im probably out right...if the egg implanted on day 26 and im on day 29 it should be present in my fmu right? and im using IC i think they are 10miu shouldnt that be detected by now...?? sorry for the million questions just a little confused....also how do i share a link on my signature to show my chart? have a good day ladies x x x x

 

[lexi374]

Sorry dont know how to share the link but ive only had a triphasic chart once and i was pregnant!! Can you test with a frer? Good luck!

 

[NewToAllThis]

Sorry Patiently, I dont understand temping and never heard of a triphasic chart.
Maybe wait a day or two more and test again.

Sorry I am unable to offer any useful advice but I can send you tons of