A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[Sooperhans]

Ps has the mobile site changed for everyone? Thought it was broken at first, looks crap! Functionality is poor too....

 

[BeachChica]

Nicki - Congrats!!! so happy for you!!! When are you going to the doc?

Soop- have a fabulous time on your vacation!!! You are taking the progesterone with you right? I think you should take it just in case!!!

 

[Sooperhans]

Thank you Beach, I've just left work after a manic day. Yippeeeeeee! Let the holiday ttc begin!
I walked with an extra spring in my step thanks to Nicki's news

Went to the pharmacy last night and stocked up, progesterone is coming with me to Corfu xxx

 

[Emmediva]

Nicki, awesome news!!! see told ya you would get a BFP real soon :wink: all the positive thoughts an baby worked magic for ya chick!!! Aghh so excited! Are you taking progesterone supplements? If not I would try to get some

Soop, I hope you're one of the next BFP's, it would be awesome if y'all were bump buddies

AFM, the storm passed by without too much trouble in our are but we've been without pier since Wednesday I had a horrible night trying to sleep Wednesday it's so darn HOTT!! Yesterday we got a generator from a friend and it was cool in the daytime but at night we were scared while we slept someone may steal the generator so OH turned it off and secured it. He kept asking me if I was hot though and touching me to feel my body temp. I guess I started getting too hot since he woke around 1:30 a.m. went and got an AC unit from the garage, installed it in the window and started the generator my poor OH.

 

[Sooperhans]

That all sounds awful Emme...what a star your dh is. Hope it all gets better for you soon but pleased to hear that the weather has hopefully done its worst. Scary.

Nothing would please me more than to by bump buddies with you all.....just tell the rest of me to cooperate please!!

 

[lexi374]

Emme glad you were ok

Soop have a fantastic time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Cut loose enjoy yourself and get plenty bd in!!

 

[Sooperhans]

Thanks Lexi!!!! I hope you are well? Oh god, I'm so excited I need to calm down for a minute, hehe xxx

 

[Nicki123]

Soop! I am so excited for you that you are going on hols. It's getting chillier in the uk, Corfu will be so sunny and warm. I am crossing my fingers, toes, legs, arms, and eyes (!) that you get your holiday bfp.

I didn't temp but used opks, I got noticeable Ewcm the day before my +Opk, so 2 days before ov. We BD'd 2 days before ov, 1 day before ov (+opk day) and the morning of the day after ov. One of those 3 times did the trick. I put my legs in the air each time for at least five mins afterwards and then slept with my bum on a folded in half pillow. Not that comfy but it worked.

Emme yes you did tell me thanks. Hope you are keeping cool.

Emme, beach - Not sure about going to the doc, or asking for progesterone... I might just go with the vits, baby aspirin and acupuncture for now and see how that goes. Mmmm, decisions...I'm feeling quite relaxed at the mo and I'm worried I'm going to get stressed if I start thinking about progesterone etc.

Happy weekend everyone x

 

[wookie130]

Nicki, I'm slow on the uptake here, so forgive me!

HUGE CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[thurl30]

Oh crumbs I can't catch up on everything I have missed Although I can see straight away your fabulous news Nicki, Congratulations xx

How is everyone else doing?

 

[JFG]

Congratulations Nicki

Well i'm still spotting a little after my recent mc but have started taking holland and barrett vitamin b complex along side my prenatals and will be starting metformin next week so i am hoping and praying for a sticky bean very soon! I am going to use my opk's again too as think that really helps!

How is everyone else doing? x

 

[ayclobes]

Ayclobes---Thank you I hope that is the case maybe tonight or tomorrow morning I will get my sticky bfp. What made your chances super high? I just felt this month was going to be it especially since it was almost a yr later from being pregnant w/ the twins/ triplets that was a mmc at almost 7 wks, and last month I had a mc at 5 wks so it was a cycle right after and that is what happened last year also except i was ony 4 1/2 wks. Its great your pregnancy is going good.

Thurl--I am not on it but if that is the case maybe I need to get on it. I have the most awful cramps and when I had my partial septate surgery in Dec I had a lap to ck of endo and I had stage 1 and he got it all but did not make cramps any better and since septate removal its been heavier to I guess more room for lining to grow.
GL this cycle.

Beach-- I hope my chart leads to where yours did. Usually when I have a temp dip I get a noticable positive that day or next at least that is they way it was with the other 2 charts that I have had know implantation dips on. Did you test on 12 dpo or wait till 13 dpo. I just saw on your chart where there was a neg at 11 and pos at 13.
Can't wait for your next scan

Sorry it took me forever to reply to you!! I was on follistim injectibles the month i got pregnant..i was supposed to use a trigger shot too but i didnt need it...since the day i went in to check my follicles..i was already in the process of ovulating(i actually ovulated that day according to my edd)

 

[Ambivalent]

Well the way they described liquefaction to him was the time it takes to go from gloopy to watery...and on his sample it was just over 2 hours....so the swimmers don't come out and swim so freely earlier on. We've been reading up and it could be linked to the prostate. He said maybe it was because he'd been waiting a few days before doing the sample (no funny business occurred for about 4 days before), so we're not sure if this is subject to much change or if his is always like this. Hmm. But doc said to not worry and try as usual. We've seen that Chinese herbalists can apparently help? But ultimately we have conceived before and they can live for up to 5 days, so will 2 hours be the be all and end all?

Hi everybody. Can I join you? I thought three would be the magic number, but turned out it wasnt for us. I have had several tests done and they have all come back normal. One doctor was very positive about how fertile I was because we have only been trying since December and I have already been pregnant three times, but I am not quite reassured by that since I haven't been able to keep any of them.

Anyway, my husband also had a longer liquefaction time. 3 hours. However, according to the lab it could just be dehydration. They also said if you are getting pregnant it isn't an issue to worry about.

 

[Nicki123]

Hi all

Jfg I hope the new plan works for you. I found b vits excellent at stopping my mid cycle spotting, although they did lengthen my cycle a little bit.

Welcome ambivalent but so sorry you find yourself here. I also had 'normal' test results after investigations, it's very frustrating isn't in but I was constantly assured it was a good thing they found nothing wrong. I really hope the next time is your sticky bean

Afm, I put a ticker up which feels like a major step. It was so tough to do, I'm not quite sure why, but it's there now. Have also made a dr apt on Wednesday, just to chat about what I'm taking at the moment and if there is anything else he thinks I should be taking.

 

[NewToAllThis]

Hi girls,

Haven't posted here in a while but need some advice please.

I got my bfp a week ago and did ic's daily to watch them darken (which they did).

Didn't do any over the weekend and then Monday's was lighter and todays is virtually negative.
I went for betas to be done yesterday (not had results yet) but I'm thinking that this is over already.

My question is because I've never had a natural miscarriage before, only missed miscarriages.

When will the cramping and bleeding start? How long will it last if I'm only 4.5 weeks?
Will it just feel like a heavy period?

Thanks for your help

 

[Nicki123]

Oh ntat, I have been following your journal and I'm so so sorry that you're going through a crappy time. It's sooooo hard.

Firstly, I'd say you're not def out yet, wait for those betas to come back and get your second lot for a comparison.

However... Sometimes you just know its not right don't you. I was in the same position last month, my tests weren't getting any darker and then started getting lighter. Some people would say 'don't go by the tests' but I knew this wasn't right for me. In my case, I started bleeding exactly a week after I was due so at 5 weeks. It was just like a normal period, the cramps were no worse. I am glad Id seen the tests get lighter because I was expecting it. It would have been a nasty shock if I hadn't of been. It was my first natural loss too as I'd just had mmc before

I really hope this isn't going to happen for you and that your results give you a lovely surprise! But if it isn't to be, I hope you can take a little comfort from this: A few of the girls on here told me I'd be extra fertile after a chemical pg. And then I went and got my bfp the very next month. It usually took me 3 or 4 months each time to get pg. so maybe there is something in that.

I'm really hoping you pop back here in a few days with some wonderful news but if not we are here for you xx

 

[NewToAllThis]

Thanks Nicki I should be 4+6 today so hopefully it'll start soon and be done with quite quickly.

I too am glad that I know its going to happen. I feel like I have some sort of control back over my body.

Will be going for NK cell testing after holidays, the only test I've not had.

 

[NewToAllThis]

Todays ic.

https://i1073.photobucket.com/albums/w388/sarahhibbert/IMAG1277.jpg

 

[Nicki123]

Snap! If (heaven forbid) this pg goes wrong I'm going for nk cells testing too. Fx for you

 

[wookie130]

NTAT, I'm so sorry you're having a chemical. Once the bleeding begins, it will be just like a heavier period. I had one back in February, and to me, it was almost as devastating as my first loss.