A message for all those worried about miscarriage.

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  1. dsbeH

    dsbeH Well-Known Member

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    Hi everyone,

    For weeks I was posting on here, petrified of miscarriage at every slight cramp and symptom. Well, unfortunately, it did happen, but looking back, none of the little things I was worried about was remotely indicative of the miscarriage.
    The miscarriage cramps were INTENSE, nothing like the normal pregnancy cramps, and the bleeding was HEAVY, the little spots I had before here and there were nothing. So-- just wanted to say, see I would have liked to hear it, if its a miscarriage, you will know. The little symptoms that make you worry are most likely just the normal pregnancy.

    A happy, healthy, and stress-less 9 months to you all.
     
  2. mom and ttc

    mom and ttc Well-Known Member

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    I am sorry for your loss.
    You are right, most people will know if they miscarry. Mine was really painful and insane amounts of vi blood
     
  3. sarah986

    sarah986 Well-Known Member

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    I am so sorry for your loss!! Its an awful thing to have to go through. Life can be so cruel sometimes.xx
     
  4. nbedford

    nbedford Active Member

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    I'm so sorry for your lost. Thank you for posting this thread!
     
  5. cbass929

    cbass929 Mommy of 3 <3

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    So sorry for you loss :hug:
    I remember my mc from a couple yrs back, i was almost 13 weeks and it was very intense, and the cramps were nothing like af cramps or pregnancy cramps.
    I wish you the best of luck in the future!! :hugs:
     
  6. MissPeanut

    MissPeanut Well-Known Member

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    So sorry for your loss, Thank you for your kind words and reassurance :hugs:
     
  7. Mummyjohnson

    Mummyjohnson Well-Known Member

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    Sorry for your loss *hugs*.
     
  8. MrsButterfly

    MrsButterfly Mummy

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    So sorry for your loss :hugs: But thank you for your post and reasurrance.
     
  9. monkeypooh

    monkeypooh having a little girl!

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    What a kind and thoughtful post. Thank you for sharing.
     
  10. Lors

    Lors Well-Known Member

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    Sorry for your loss hon, sending healing thoughts to you and yours xx
     
  11. mad_but_glad

    mad_but_glad Well-Known Member

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    I am so sorry for your loss.

    But thank you so much for your kind words and reassurance. I stress about this alot and its good to know my minor things are harmless.
     
  12. Sunshine12

    Sunshine12 New Mummy

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    Thanks so much for posting this. Ive been worrying for weeks now. Very sorry for your loss and greatly appreciate you taking the time to post this. Its of much reassurance. :hugs:
     
  13. babynewbie

    babynewbie Well-Known Member

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    Sorry for your loss hun, thank your for posting :hugs:
     
  14. jenmcn1

    jenmcn1 Expecting baby #4:)

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    I'm so sorry to hear of your loss!! Peace be with you in the midst of this...than you for sharing with all of us!
     
  15. Wishing89

    Wishing89 Mama to one beautiful DS

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    I'm so sorry for your loss! Thank you for your post though it's a nice reminder to stop panicking all the time for all the tiny things xx
     
  16. TabbyCakes

    TabbyCakes Pregnant 2nd trimester ;)

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    I am so sorry for you loss.
    Thank you for this post. I am always freaking out at the littlest stuff. I think its cause im young and its my first pregnancy, but i do appreciate you taking time to post this.
     
  17. MrsWooolf

    MrsWooolf Well-Known Member

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    So sorry for your loss but a massive thank you for your post xx
     
  18. superfrizbee

    superfrizbee Love my princess & prince

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    I'm so sorry for your loss - it's very brave of you to come on here and help reassure other people x
     
  19. nicksi27

    nicksi27 Well-Known Member

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    So sorry for your loss ((hugs)) thank you for your sharing your post. xx
     
  20. ms.hope

    ms.hope mom of 2

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    This and so sorry for you loss:hugs:
     

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