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I would adopt but DH wouldn't "see the point when we can have our own"
I have however told him that once we are done having kids I will be looking into surrogacy. I just love the idea of being able to give birth to a child that will bring so much joy to another couple and make another woman a mummy. He really doesn't want me to do it before we have all the kids we want incase something went wrong and I couldn't have any more
Id like to foser now but OH is a pleb and its still going through the whole selfish process, even when it comes to having his own kids.
Iv told him he needs to get used to the idea of fostering at some point cos its something i plan on doing.
I would adopt but DH wouldn't "see the point when we can have our own"
I have however told him that once we are done having kids I will be looking into surrogacy. I just love the idea of being able to give birth to a child that will bring so much joy to another couple and make another woman a mummy. He really doesn't want me to do it before we have all the kids we want incase something went wrong and I couldn't have any more
Wow, you're brave!!!! I don't know if I could cope with it... It's a really nice thing of you to do!!! xxxxx
Id like to foser now but OH is a pleb and its still going through the whole selfish process, even when it comes to having his own kids.
Iv told him he needs to get used to the idea of fostering at some point cos its something i plan on doing.
LOL, you are such a bossy cow lozzy!
I love the idea of fostering, but, I think it would break my heart to let him/her go again, don't know if I am made of the right material, I have always been one for getting too involved, it would happen to me the same when teaching primary, some kids I just wanted to take them home because of whatever horrible home circumstances they were having.
Excuse my ignorance: do they have to "operate" you for that? Eggs I mean? xxxx
At a rich private school I taught some years ago, a couple that were millionaires had a girl. Her hair was always tangled, then never sent her to school washed, they had soo much money, but no time to show their daughter the basics or give her their attention. Then apparently it became fashionable to adopt, and they had a lovely blond Russian girl. She used to come to school in pretty much the same state as her sister. I remember seeing them on the floor outside the school, one's dark hair agaisnt the other's blond. They both looked like abandoned orphans. I wanted to pick them up, take them home, wash their hair, show them how to look after themselves, give them the pride and confidence in thinking it was worth doing, give them attention and spend all my free time making them feel the centre of someone's world. I feel really sad now thinking about it.