curlylocks
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Hi all,
I've posted a few times here but not much.
I already have a lovely little boy who will be 4 in June. On Friday we found out we were having our second son.
Although I knew deep down he was going to be a he, it didn't prepare me for the amount of tears. As you all well know, we aren't upset for the gender we have, just for the gender that its not.
I spent a good hour crying to hubby (who has been pretty amazing about it). I have nearly got into my head that this is definitely a boy (sorting out DS1 old stuff today had helped a bit), but this is our last child, I don't understand how I will EVER get over not having a daughter? It scares me/upsets me/angers me all at the same time. I know, with time it will get easier, but I'm pretty sure when my babies have grown I will remain sad for the daughter I never had!
(Our plan was to only ever have 2, but since Friday, hubby has openly said he will happily try again, I just can't put myself through the emotional roller coaster again).
Thanks for reading. Xxx
I've posted a few times here but not much.
I already have a lovely little boy who will be 4 in June. On Friday we found out we were having our second son.
Although I knew deep down he was going to be a he, it didn't prepare me for the amount of tears. As you all well know, we aren't upset for the gender we have, just for the gender that its not.
I spent a good hour crying to hubby (who has been pretty amazing about it). I have nearly got into my head that this is definitely a boy (sorting out DS1 old stuff today had helped a bit), but this is our last child, I don't understand how I will EVER get over not having a daughter? It scares me/upsets me/angers me all at the same time. I know, with time it will get easier, but I'm pretty sure when my babies have grown I will remain sad for the daughter I never had!
(Our plan was to only ever have 2, but since Friday, hubby has openly said he will happily try again, I just can't put myself through the emotional roller coaster again).
Thanks for reading. Xxx