hey gals, i have an embaressing question. k to start with i keep spoting after sex, and i am worried that maybe it isn't safe. We have only had sex 3 times since i got preg, and everytime the bleeding gets worse. My poor dh! He blams himself, but he is BIG (or at least i think he is, 10 inches is a lil above adverage right? i have never had sex with anyone else so not sure) he is always soft, never rough. So my question is should we stop BDing? should i call my ob? or wait till my appointment? Thanks in advance to anyone who replys! I know its a wierd subject, but i honesty dont have anyone else to ask, and it really does worry me.