I am writing in the hope of getting a bit of advice concerning my brother and his ex partner. 3 years ago they had a short relationship during which she conceived and duly gave birth to a baby boy. Although my brother (P) and his ex (S) had split up by the time of the birth they were still amicable and agreed visiting, maintenance et et, all of which worked out OK. Over the past 2 years the relationship between them had broken down to the point where it is not an exaggeration to say they hate each other. She takes every opportunity to threaten him and belittle his role in the boy's life. She has become utterly irrational and bullies him at every opportunity. She has a history of depression and anger issues (her last 2 boyfriends committed suicide). P doesn't know the name of the boy's GP, his dentist or what nursery he goes to. He is constantly in fear of her and has started to develop anxiety and depression himself, a very worrying thing for me to witness. The boy was recently christened without P's consent and none of P's relatives or friends were invited to the party. This is killing my brother who loves the little boy more than anyone can imagine. He does get good access but that isn't really the problem, it's the threats and bullying, the non involvement and constant reminders that he is of little consequence in the boys life. The sad thing is my brother and the little boy adore each other. In short, what should he do?
Thank you for any help.
Thank you for any help.