Advice really needed!

[Tictac87]

Hi all,

I recently joined and could do with some advice. I don't know if this is important but I'm in a same sex marriage and myself and my wife have been ttc for a while now.
This month I had a slight bleed at 6dpo which I assumed was implantation and was pretty excited. At 10DPO I did a test and got a BFN!
11dpo I woke up to some light bleeding and assumed AF had arrived, then nothing at all for the rest of the day! Again yesterday morning at 12DPO slight pink when I wiped and nothing for the rest of the day! Before my shower last night I tried again and there was a little brown smudge but nothing else! I have been tracking my temp and last month it dropped to 35.4 the day before my AF this month it is staying around 35.9-36.4!
I'm so confused and could really do with any advice! Could it still be IB or am I out this month and my AF is just spotting! I have light cramps but a stinking cold that arrived 11dpo, my boobs are killing and I have had a major spot outbreak!

Thanks in advance x

 

[JLTyler]

Hi all,

I recently joined and could do with some advice. I don't know if this is important but I'm in a same sex marriage and myself and my wife have been ttc for a while now.
This month I had a slight bleed at 6dpo which I assumed was implantation and was pretty excited. At 10DPO I did a test and got a BFN!
11dpo I woke up to some light bleeding and assumed AF had arrived, then nothing at all for the rest of the day! Again yesterday morning at 12DPO slight pink when I wiped and nothing for the rest of the day! Before my shower last night I tried again and there was a little brown smudge but nothing else! I have been tracking my temp and last month it dropped to 35.4 the day before my AF this month it is staying around 35.9-36.4!
I'm so confused and could really do with any advice! Could it still be IB or am I out this month and my AF is just spotting! I have light cramps but a stinking cold that arrived 11dpo, my boobs are killing and I have had a major spot outbreak!

Thanks in advance x

Actually sounds pretty good. Not everyone gets bfps early. Some don't get them until their missed period, and some don't get it until a week after miss period etc. You may still be in. How are you doing now?