Ellie130891
Barry(OH)and Ruby(LO) :)
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My dad had a heart attack
And it only felt right to talk to him and my mum (they split when i was little) and go visit them
I hadnt seen them in 2 yrs (long story) so i was nervous as hell
The worst thing was my LO hated my mum. Shes used to people approaching her slowly etc and my mum was all over her her usual self being hyper and loud and the baby wouldnt stop screaming for the 2 hr long visit
Obviously im going back as my dads v ill and I want to re build our relationship
I really hope my LO gets used to them as I dont want it to be like that every time
My mum made comments like "its cause she never sees the light of day"
she DOES.....My OH takes LO out every day (I cant get out much more than twice a week atm as i suffer from vertigo which is awful when im outside)
it made me sad
She never commented on how good a mum i was how well i looked or even said the baby was cute
My dad said she was bonny but that was about it
Shes 1 next week so they are strangers to her
my question is.....!
How long will it take a 1 yr old to get used to new people and new surroundings if were visiting weekly/fortnightly?
xxx
And it only felt right to talk to him and my mum (they split when i was little) and go visit them
I hadnt seen them in 2 yrs (long story) so i was nervous as hell
The worst thing was my LO hated my mum. Shes used to people approaching her slowly etc and my mum was all over her her usual self being hyper and loud and the baby wouldnt stop screaming for the 2 hr long visit
Obviously im going back as my dads v ill and I want to re build our relationship
I really hope my LO gets used to them as I dont want it to be like that every time
My mum made comments like "its cause she never sees the light of day"
she DOES.....My OH takes LO out every day (I cant get out much more than twice a week atm as i suffer from vertigo which is awful when im outside)
it made me sad
She never commented on how good a mum i was how well i looked or even said the baby was cute
My dad said she was bonny but that was about it
Shes 1 next week so they are strangers to her
my question is.....!
How long will it take a 1 yr old to get used to new people and new surroundings if were visiting weekly/fortnightly?
xxx