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So I over plan everything and I have said from the beginning I don’t want anyone at the hospital but my OH when I’m giving birth. My mother in law seems to think she’s going to turn up there and had a pissed off face when I said when I have a baby(she doesn’t know I’m preg yet) that I don’t want anyone there. the very woman who told me and my OH not to bother to have kids it’s too much stress bla bla bla it’s not worth it...when she knew I was having such a hard time conceiving. In the end I had ivf and the journey was a hard one but no one knows what me and my OH have been through. At the time she was saying don’t have kids, I suffered a miscarriage. So as you can imagine I have some resentment towards her and don’t feel like she deserves to be there. Why do I need an audience to see me screaming and pushing a baby out when everyone will have the rest of their lives to be around my baby?? I feel like I only want me and my OH to share this moment we have been through SO much and for people to just swan in and be there is really pissing me off the thought of it. Plus it’s not fair on my father in law for her to turn up with her boyfriend and meet my baby before he does. Her boyfriend does not even like me so he doesn’t need to be there either. Am I being unreasonable? On the other hand I don’t know how my OH will cope on his own me pushing a baby out I feel he will be a fainter