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Hi,
So this is my 4th pregnancy, I should be 5wks. With my sons pregnancy I had horrendous MS, up to nearly 30wks. Then in 2015 I had a missed miscarriage. Some people don't believe me but I absolutely knew. From the moment I got my BFP I knew the pregnancy would not be successful. I was scared, emotionally detached from the pregnancy, not even a tiny bit excited and I had an overwhelming sense of impending doom. As time went on I researched miscarriages, found out about miscarriages and decided what treatment option I wanted. I knew. Well, we found out at what should have been the 12wk scan that we'd lost the baby at around 7wks. The only symptoms I had had in that time was cramping and some snagging/twingey/pulling pains on my left side around 7wks when I'd lost the baby.
I went on to conceive our daughter directly after that and had a perfectly healthy pregnancy. Again, MS from very early on, continuing up until around 24wks. And now this pregnancy. I should be 5wks, and I don't have a single symptom again. I haven't told anybody yet, not even my partner because I have that "what's the point" feeling like I had last time.
Has anybody else experienced this? And what was the outcome for you? I've tried looking for statistics around the likelihood of having repeated missed miscarriages. I wondered if maybe some womens bodies just don't miscarry naturally and only ever have missed miscarriages but I can't find anything about it. I don't know what to do.
So this is my 4th pregnancy, I should be 5wks. With my sons pregnancy I had horrendous MS, up to nearly 30wks. Then in 2015 I had a missed miscarriage. Some people don't believe me but I absolutely knew. From the moment I got my BFP I knew the pregnancy would not be successful. I was scared, emotionally detached from the pregnancy, not even a tiny bit excited and I had an overwhelming sense of impending doom. As time went on I researched miscarriages, found out about miscarriages and decided what treatment option I wanted. I knew. Well, we found out at what should have been the 12wk scan that we'd lost the baby at around 7wks. The only symptoms I had had in that time was cramping and some snagging/twingey/pulling pains on my left side around 7wks when I'd lost the baby.
I went on to conceive our daughter directly after that and had a perfectly healthy pregnancy. Again, MS from very early on, continuing up until around 24wks. And now this pregnancy. I should be 5wks, and I don't have a single symptom again. I haven't told anybody yet, not even my partner because I have that "what's the point" feeling like I had last time.
Has anybody else experienced this? And what was the outcome for you? I've tried looking for statistics around the likelihood of having repeated missed miscarriages. I wondered if maybe some womens bodies just don't miscarry naturally and only ever have missed miscarriages but I can't find anything about it. I don't know what to do.