Am I still welcome here?

[victoria1987]

I miscarried my first pregnancy on Christmas eve 2013, fell pregnant with my DS first cycle after MC and had my thb. I'm now very very newly pg with #2 and having insane levels of anxiety that I will mc again. I would have thought having a healthy baby would make it easier but it doesn't. It took 5 cycles to conceive this little guy, it felt so long and I would be devastated if I were to lose this one too. I cannot stop worrying for one second that something will go wrong.

Can I still post here even though I had a thb after my mc?

 

[jlw617]

Absolutely, I hope you have a happy healthy 9 months!

 

[Fit_Mama2Be]

Of course. The fact that you had a healthy baby afterwards doesn't make your loss any less real or significant. I've been told that losing a baby stays with you forever and although only 4 months has passed since my loss I don't doubt it.

Congratulations on your pregnancy!

 

[victoria1987]

Thank you so much for the warm welcomes!

 

[eme]

Thank you so much for the warm welcomes!

Absolutely you are welcome here...my 1st loss was aroumd 12yrs ago and I still think of my little one all the time. We have a new group for March due dates if you want to tag along with us (not sure when your due date is) but yeah, sometimes it helps to celebrate small milestones in the beginning rather than looking too far ahead...ar least thats what helps my anxiety