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Belle25
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I don't think it's rude to be honest(unless it's one of those call you up only when i want something friends!)
My husbands friend is a vet and does treatment free for our car, my husband did work for them buy building them a website.
Our friend made our wedding cake, and we helped her move house etc.(having said that, I'd never dream of asking her to do such a big thing!)
To me, it's part of being a friend. You help each other out. x
I hope he's treating the CAT not the CAR!!!
That sounds like a totally different situation though. It's a mutual reciprical arangement.
If you are self employed and reliant on the number of products you can make in a certain amount of time for your income then it is very hard to take several days out to do something for nothing. I have on many occassions made things for people for free and especially with the keepsakes and friends who have lost someone. I love to be able to offer. I've also done a lot of wedding items for friends as gifts. There is a distinct difference when it is presumed that you will work for free to provide what someone is after.
I have made and constantly update a friends website and in return she promotes my work and takes it out and about when she is at events. That's a mutually beneficial arrangement.
Ha ha!! Damn iPad. Yep, it's the cat, not car!!
It does totally depend on how close you are as friends, what they are asking if you etc.
I personally wouldn't dream of asking things off my friends. But if they offer, it's nice.
If someone's trying to take advantage of good nature, by putting someone in an arkward position of having to say no, then they are not an actual friend.
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