Am Not A Fukin Baby !!

[Jayden'sMummy]

SORRY BUT HAVING ANOTHER RANT !! SEEMS LIKE ALL I DO IS RANT LATELY BUT AHHHH I CANT STAND PEOPLE WHO THINK THERE BETTER THAN ME BECAUSE AM 16 AM PREGNANT!!

PEOPLE KEEP MENTIONING ABOUT ME BEING A BABY HAVING A BABY! I AM NOT A FUKING BABY NO MORE, ANY OTHER TEENS GET THIS OF FAMILY AND PEOPLE THEY DON'T EVEN KNOW??? I MEAN COME ON ITS MY LIFE IF I WANT TO KEEP BUMP THEN I FUKING WILL, AM FUMIN SO MUCH AM CRYING AN AM SHAKING SO MUCH I DON'T KNOW HOW AM WRITING THIS. OK SO I KNOW I HAVE GOTTA GET USED TO THESE PEOPLE SAYING SHIT ABOUT ME, BUT WITH HORMONES LIKE MINE I DON'T THINK AM GOING TO LAST LONG WITH OUT STANDING ON SOMEBODIES HEAD!!!

OK RANT OVER FOR NOW .... SORRY IF YOU LOT ARE SICK OF ME COMING ON HERE JUST TO HAVE A GOOD OLD RANT, I JUST DON'T THINK ME AND THESE STUPIT HORMONES ARE GOING TO WORK TOGETHER VERY WELL LOL

 

[justme00]

I'm sorry. If it helps, my SIL went through the same thing and was even told she had to go to a special highschool once she started to really "show". She now is a mom of two at age 29 and couldn't be doing better for herself. Goodluck and just remember you are going to prove them all wrong.

 

[Madwolf3]

Oh honey, keep your chin up!!! I was 17 when I was pregnant with my first kiddo (and still 17 when I had her) and YES I heard this a LOT. In fact, the people I heard it from the most were the people I loved the most. My grandfather would say that exact phrase. Or once when I was telling him how Alauna would chew on my shoulder he made a crack about her committing child abuse, because she was "abusing me". Get it? Yeah, it broke my heart. Hopefully those people will see you being a good mom and taking good care of your baby and realize they have no right to say such things! Like I said, Chin up girl! You're not alone!

 

[Tilly]

Just tell them to fuck off.

 

[Jayden'sMummy]

Oh honey, keep your chin up!!! I was 17 when I was pregnant with my first kiddo (and still 17 when I had her) and YES I heard this a LOT. In fact, the people I heard it from the most were the people I loved the most. My grandfather would say that exact phrase. Or once when I was telling him how Alauna would chew on my shoulder he made a crack about her committing child abuse, because she was "abusing me". Get it? Yeah, it broke my heart. Hopefully those people will see you being a good mom and taking good care of your baby and realize they have no right to say such things! Like I said, Chin up girl! You're not alone!

ITS HARD TO TRY AN KEEP MY CHIN UP AT THE MIN BUT AM TRYIN TO, JUST THINKIN BOUT EVERYTHING N THESE HORMONES R HARD TO GET USED TO ONE MIN AM FINE THE NEXT AM CRYIN MY EYES OUT OR FUMIN OVER NOTTIN. THANKS FOR READING ALL THAT, I JUST NEED TO GET A FEW THINGS OUT AND THERES SOME THINGS YOU CANT TALK TO PEOPLE YOU KNOW ABOUT THEM BECAUSE OF WHAT THEY WILL SAY XX

 

[Tilly]

Just read my reply and it sounds bloody immature lmao, just did it quickly as I had to go do something BUT it's none of their business, tell them you're mature enough to want whats best for your baby.. it's your life, no one is ever going to agree with everything you do. As for people that hardly know you, they're the ones you want to tell where to go...

 

[Carlyanne15]

If your happy and want this then you Go For It.....
Don't ever let people put you down or tell you what to-do. Yes take advice, and listen to what they say within reason, i'm sure they only have you in mind. However you decide what you want and your the one living it.
Good luck Chick
x

 

[Always&4ever]

I haven't had this as this is my first and I'm 24 but age makes no difference to being a mum, I know a girl who had twin girls when she was 13, shes now 20 and has been a fantastic mum and has had no support other then her OH.

 

[Jayden'sMummy]

Just read my reply and it sounds bloody immature lmao, just did it quickly as I had to go do something BUT it's none of their business, tell them you're mature enough to want whats best for your baby.. it's your life, no one is ever going to agree with everything you do. As for people that hardly know you, they're the ones you want to tell where to go...

I WISH I COULD SAY THAT TO SO MANY PEOPLE AT THE MINUTE, I NO I AM BEING IMMATURE AND STUPIT NOW CRYIN AND COMPLAINING TO EVERYONE BUT I REALLY DON'T THINK AM CUT OUT TO BE A GOOD MUM ANY MORE, WHAT KID WANTS A MUM WHO FLIPS AT THE SLIGHTEST LITTLE THINGS AND GETS DEPRESSED LITERALLY ALL THE TIME! I MEAN SOME DAYS I THINK TO MYSELF, I KNOW I WILL BE A GOOD MUM BUT THEM DAYS ARE SLOWLY DISAPPEARING.

 

[Ellianna]

Come on girly! Your gonna be fine
Like MadWolf says keep your chin up and carry on
You're gonna be fab

xx

 

[kookie]

i know how you feel i was 16 when i had my first 18 with my second and just had my third at 23 i got all those comments 2 my father and sister even said "well hopefully she'll lose it"as much as that hurt i tried to ignore them i knew i was gonna be a great mum people can be so cruel sometimes even those closest to you but fuck if they cant support you they can get fucked i know its hard but try and ignore them your gonna make a great mum.

 

[Tilly]

It's only normal to have those worries Rachel, but they are just magnified (if that makes sense) because you're being told you're too young and no good. Im sure you will do the best for your baby and prove everyone wrong, just because you're young, doesn't make you a bad person or a bad mummy.

 

[Jayden'sMummy]

IS IT NORMAL FOR ME TO KEEP HAVING THESE STUPIT FEELINS THEN?
THAT AM GOIN TO BE A CRAP MUM..

I WANNA IGNORE EVERYTHING WHAT THERE SAYIN BU ITS HARD, AN AM NOT WA YOU CALL THE STRONGEST PERSON TO DEAL WITH ALL THAT. EVERYONE THANKS FOR LISTENING TO ME GO ON AN ON ABOUT THE WAY I FEEL JUST NEED TO GET ALL THIS SHIT OUT OTHER WISE AM GONNA GO MENTAL.

XX

 

[Always&4ever]

I'm sure you will be a great mum, every pregnant woman flips out at things, its the hormones sweetie

 

[Tilly]

I thought I was going to be a crap mum and sometimes I still don't feel confident. A baby is a huge responsibility, women in their mid 30's get nervous and you are quite a bit younger, so it's definitely normal.

Hope you are ok.

 

[Jayden'sMummy]

WISH THESE DAMN HORMONES WOULD LEAVE ME ALONE THERE DRIVING ME NUTS, FUCK KNOWS WHAT ID HAVE DONE IF I DIDNT HAVE ALL YOUS TO TALK TO ON ERE XXX

 

[genkigemini]

Hi Rachel,

When I was in HS, a good friend of mine got pregnant at 15 and had her son at 16. She had to leave school but now has a beautiful 12 year old son and she is a great mother to him. Age means nothing. As long as you love your child, that is all that matters. I wish you all the luck in the world and I am sure things will be okay for you.

Please try your best not to let stupid people get to you, ok?

Sarah

 

[Ellianna]

Racheal! Listen to me huni
You are not going to be a crap mum! You are going to be a great mum
And you know why? Because you are doing the best you can and every step of the way you're thinking about your baby.
Stop being so hard on yourself huni, everybody feels down sometimes. I have James by my side all the time and I still feel shit and want to cry and shout at him! And I do both of those things! lol
What other people think doesn't matter because at the end of the day you're going to have a beautiful baby who you will love more than anything. Its a massive thing you're having to adjust to and you need to stop beating yourself up about it because you're doing just fine.

OK?
xx

 

[Jayden'sMummy]

I thought I was going to be a crap mum and sometimes I still don't feel confident. A baby is a huge responsibility, women in their mid 30's get nervous and you are quite a bit younger, so it's definitely normal.

Hope you are ok.

Thank you, il be fine just not at grips with my moods changin so fast over nothing owa u ?? x

 

[Serene123]

My mum keeps saying her baby is having a baby. I've never really taken it as a negative thing though. When I'm 30 I'll still be a baby to my mum. Have things calmed down abit now?