Ames_x and sweetcheeks85 were now mummies

[ames_x]

Im hoping to have a good night tonight... or at least a lie in! I SO deserve it
I think Kane will have to go in the cot soon, hes so long and the moses basket wont last much longer! He looks so small in the cot though

I wish they would do something like that here! Well they do grants of up to £500 but I doubt I will get it, they are very strict with whom they give it to what you going to buy?

Its a 2 bedroom place, front and back garden and my own drive And I can decorate how I want finally! Yeah know what you mean, we still got boxes of stuff here, glad we never unpacked fully lol.

SOOOOOOOO much better, seriously I dread to think how it would be if I hadnt been going this week. Its closing up, not as 'fleshy' and doesn't hurt as much. She just sticks a laser light on near the wounds for a minute each section, works wonders. So having a break from it this weekend, go back on Monday to see if I need anymore. Have you been doing pelvic floor exercises? xxx

 

[tinkabells]

Yeah ya do deserve it love!!! Sometimes wish i had someone to help with hollie, but then again, men just wind me up haha

Im gonna buy all my paint and wallpaper, i gotta check the list for the items im allowed to buy, i cant buy carpet or lino with it though, which is poo as its what i need the most, but will get that in the new year when all the new years sales are on, are you places decorated or have carpet in them?

Oh really, have you had a look yet? Im gonna have a look in the week, i just need to pluck up the courage, i feel completely fine down there now, when i have a poo it hurts sometimes and i bleed slightly but i think thats cos i had (TMI) big poo couple of weeks ago and tore myself slightly and its just slowly healing

Least your much better down there though, so no nookie for awhile for you yet lol

Yeah bet ya glad ya didnt unpack it all, im slowly getting there, i unpacked 2 boxes today and 3 bags of clothes, i only got a few more to go and i wanna change rooma round slightly as well xxx

 

[ames_x]

Didn't get a lie in, Chris did instead. Kinda pissed off about that but hey ho...

Thats rubbish! The one I'm in at the moment has carpet in all the rooms except, kitchen and bathroom. Not nice carpet though lol, and all the walls are cream - Doubt our new place will have carpet!

Yeah I look every time after going to the toilet to make sure its clean after I've wiped lol. Nope not for a good while!!

What colours you going for? xxx

 

[tinkabells]

Well hollie was wide awake again from 3am, so at half 5, i got my mum up and she took over and i went to sleep and woke up at 9am and i felt soooooooooo much better!!!

Why'd he get a lay in? You should of kept kicking him lol

Oh really, well they say here, they take carpets away from h&s incase theres any insects burried in them etc etc

Well cos im on the ground floor, and got loads of trees around me, its very dark, so i want all white walls to brighten it all up, my bedroom is gonna be white with a flock black and white wallpaper on the back of my bed, not sure on kitchen and bathroom yet though!!!

What about you?
Do you lol, i cant yet lol thats bad init xxx

 

[ames_x]

Aww thats nice of her, my mum would do the same too.

God knows... Kane was crying around 9.30 wanting attention I let him cry to see if he got, did he fuck. So I got up and played with him, he came down towards the end of Soccer Am. He knew I was pissed off with him, so I went back to bed at 2ish and got up an hour ago, feel alot better

Yeah our front room here is dark, and I hate it we always got the bloody light on!

Well our front room will be black and white, I really like the idea of having one wall with the flowery kind of wallpaper in black and white?
Our bedroom will be brown and cream, Kane's room will be bright colours not decided yet... and no idea about the rest! xx

 

[sweetcheeks85]

Hiya girlies hows it going? Hows the wee ones? Hope use had a good weekend!!

Me and Kaiden are doing good!! Had a really rough day though yesterday, Stuart was away to a cage fighting event so me and the wee man stayed at home. It felt like he fed constantly and wouldnt sleep at all after his nap in the morning. I was in tears by the time Stuart got home, I was shattered think the month of sleepless nights really caught up with me. Ive not really been asking him to get up at night because he is working and I feel gulilty but I did have to have it out with him aswell cause at the weekends etc you would think he would offer to let me get a long lie but NO it was all about him and how tired he was!!! MEN!! So Laura Marie u arent any worse off hun atleast uve got a mum who is willing to help you out Hows things going with Anthony?

Anyways we fed the wee man at 8pm last night after a bath and we all went to bed, he slept till 12.30am and Stuart actually got up and fed him, I was too tired to argue or feel guilty. I then got up for the 3.30 am feed and the wee man went back down about half 4, result That was him till 7am this morning and then he went back to sleep (in with with me though ) till 9am!!! So im feeling great today Felt so bad as I was so crabby yesterday, hope the wee man didnt pick up on it He is making up for his lack of sleep yesterday, he is asleep just now and has been since 11.20am!!!

Oooo and im getting my hair done on wednesday, so badly needing it!!

Well thats me for now nothing else to report

 

[tinkabells]

Awwww i think we need that release of a good cry, was like that and was thinking i was getting PND, but im much better now, hollie seems much better sleeping bit better now, she actually went to sleep at 11pm after her feed and didnt wanke up til 5.30 this morning drank a bottle and half and then we both went back to bed at 7am and didnt get up till 11am, she's alseep on me now, cos poor pickle, was having a poo and my mum even heard the fart in the kitchen and i was letting her finish and i noticed it had come out of her nappy and all over her WHITE jeans lol
so striaght in the bath for her
she was so pleased with herself after and was smiling away as i was wiping her up!!!
Are you still giving him formula at night vicki?!

Amy have you still got those slow flow teats?, i did reply on your thread, if oyu have i would like them, as hollie will only use slow flow

What you having done to your hair?
Im sooo looking forward to my night out on friday night, a whole night away from hollie its gonna be weird!!!
I dunno, his got abi depressing for me and im getting bored of him, im terrible i get bored of them so quickly lol so i aint spoke to him since friday ahahah xxx

 

[sweetcheeks85]

What r u like!!! LOL!! U are quite right doll, dont tie ure self down if ure not ready after all ure young free and single so just enjoy urself!! Where u off to on friday night?

Way to go Hollie!!!

Yeah he is still getting formula at night, he is taking less and less BF's now and my supply is dwindling. He gets a big BF first thing and I try and do alternate feeds during the day. I also express what I can. The wee man is happy though and is sleeping better. We have also started the bath, bottle, bed routine inorder to get him to distinguish day from night.

Im getting my highlights put in, havent decided how I want it cut yet, but its needing a good bit taken off it!!

 

[ames_x]

Vicki so know how you feel, and you know what it happened to me not getting a bloody lie in!!!

Yeah I still got them hun xx

 

[sweetcheeks85]

Hiya girlies wats been happening? Thats Kaiden 10lb 8oz now!! We are also 100% switched over to formula now. He was a bit erratic to begin with and was taking little often sometimes only an hour and a half inbetween feeds. He has been better today though and has been taking between 2.5-5oz every 3hours.

Thought id follow in Laura Marie's shoes and show use the new me

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Its a big change for me as ive went dark, saves getting my highlights done all the time, had to keep some blonde though so got flashes just at the front. Also had alot cut off, can hardly get it up in a bobble now lol x

 

[ames_x]

Looks lovely hun!!

LO got weighed today, hes 9lb 4oz

 

[tinkabells]

Awwwww Vicki ya hair looks lovely and loving the bold blonde streak, i had more blonde put in mine on thursday, well hollie has been good lately, been sleeping at night for about 5 nearly 6 hours, hoping it stays that way!!!!
But she's been abit chesty again, and i think she maybe teething, dont think the teeth are coming through yet, but you can see them in her gums and she keeps gnarwing on anything she can, her hands getting most of it and she's dribbling like anything, so i went and got her some teething gel and Tommee Tippee do teething dummies they look really strange but she doesnt mind them
Hollie is constantly lifting up her head now and turning it to follow everyone, she proper smiles now as well she gave like a little giggle but not a proper baby laugh if that makes sense.
I've been well, i went out friday night for my bday night out, and i got wrecked, i lasted so much longer than i thought i would, and i said i wouldnt do shots and 7 sambuccas later lol, i went back to me mate jemma's her bloke had to take us both home, cos we was so gone, shes a lightweight on drink since she had her daughter nearly 4 years ago lol i was sick and then i knocked out, i woke up at 6am and i was so lost and didnt know where i was and where hollie was, luckly realised and went back to my mums, my dad said he'd look after hollie while i went for a shower and back to bed for abit, i must admit i could smell the drink on me!!! and had to get up at 11am as dad was going back to work, but did feel rough had bit more sleep with hollie and was up at 2pm and had to g shopping.
I weighed hollie myself and i think shes about 10lb 6, that was roughly how much weight i had gained wen t put her on scales with me

How's you all else, how you finding the bottle now Vicki?
Amy how's Kane doing now, he sleeping better for you?
Well im waiting for me mum to finish work and were going food shopping lol then she's buying me a take away for dinner and taking me home, lol thats my birthday plans xxx

 

[ames_x]

Happy Birthday Hun!!!

I seen the photos on FB, you look fab!! Doesnt look like you need to loose any weight you bitch lol. Love the dress and your hair too!!!

Way to go Hollie sleeping through the night

Think he is having a growth spurt, he was awake from 1pm until late at night with just an hour nap and was feeding non stop,but hes amazing SO strong with his neck etc we started buying him some Xmas stuff too, just clothes and dvds and a pair of shoes dont know what toys to buy?

But yeah hes getting alot better, how many oz is hollie on now and how often? xxx

 

[sweetcheeks85]

Happy Birthday doll!!!

Way 2 go Hollie You need to come teach Kaiden how to sleep through the night The wee soul is actually not doing too bad and is going 4 hourly between feeds at night, its the getting him back down thats the problem! We tried the hot water bottle trick last night and it worked!!! He is taking the bottle well and is now taking 3-4oz every 3 hours, sometimes 2

Was that ure first drink since having Hollie? Did u get wasted super quick? We r meant 2 be going out on Sat for halloween but im in 2 minds about leaving the wee man. Wat we were going 2 do was get stu's mum to watch him and then go back and stay there so I dont feel as bad. Im sure ill be plastered after one drink though!!!

Awwww sounds like uve got the wee man spoiled Amy, lucky boy!! Hope the growth spurt passes soon

I havent even though about xmas yet, just found out on fri that there r payoffs at stu' work so waiting 2 hear if he is going to be out a job for the second time in this damn recession!! Hopefully not !!!

 

[tinkabells]

Thank you
I do, i need to lose about another stone that dress hides it all underneath!!!
Hollie is on about 5oz every 4 hours, whats kane on?
Oh is he bless him, how much does he weigh now?
How many times have you seen the HV? I've only seen her once when she 1st came out?
I bought hollie a musical toy to put on her pram and and car seat, it plays music and spins around it has 2 different age stages on it, it seems to calm her down and she just sits and stares and smiles at it, i got hollie a couple of xmas outfits and some activity toys, dunno what else to get her though its hard xxx

 

[ames_x]

Yeah come teach Kane too Lauramarie

Aww hope its good news for you and Stu hun when will he find out?

A stone is amazing!! I have to loose fucking 2 and half!!!!!!!
Kane is on 4oz every 3-4 hours and he now weighs 9lb 4oz! I have seen her 3 times, I see her once a week.. cant believe you have only seen her once?!

Yeah know what you mean, think we are gunna buy toys for when hes abit older too, as most toys are from 6m onwards xxxx

 

[tinkabells]

Am i supposed to see her more then? She nly came over mine once and filled in hollie's red book, and said if i needed anything else to go along to the clinic on baby days
Haha my little trick is ladies, i got one of those cheap annoying ticking clocks and put an extra scoop of formula in her night bottles and she thinks im next to her with the clock.

I am back in all my old clothes, i got my 6 week check on wednesday and i wanna see how i can start to lose the weight, im also gonna go and do pram-cise, with one of the girls from my classes, you go to the park and see all those nutty mums doing exerices with there pram's i'll be one of those haha xxx

 

[sweetcheeks85]

Yeah I see my HV every week too hun, although I dont have a red book, should I? Thats him 10lb 8oz!!!

Its going to be 2 weeks before we find out wats happening!!

 

[ames_x]

I would assume so hun? Maybe its done differant here to there, maybe phone up and ask her?

Well i'm currently in size 14, would LOVE to be in size 12 nicely by Christmas, so thats my goal! LOL! I really hope I can start doing exercise after my 6 week check, will dust off the wii fit and my weight watcher books ha

Vicki you should deffo have a red book hun, but then I dunno if its differant in Scotland compared to England and Wales?!

I'm sure you will be fine hun xxx

 

[tinkabells]

What do you do with them? Mmmm i may go along there on tuesday then, cos i need that grant paper signed by HV for that £500, hopefully i will get it, but only got till she's 3 months

OH i came on my period today, today of all days, it is bad, im very heavy and it hurts like it did before, but im having a nice glass of wine, had a nice day, and just waiting for X factor to start and hoping the twins go and looking forward to westlife coming on

I got hollie a halloween outfit from asda today, its a little pumpkin and says mummys little pumpking on her hat, so sweet!!!

I've also just realised the xmas clothes i've bought hollie arent going to fit her at all, i keep forgetting she's gonna be over 3 months and i bought her all 0-3 and shes nearly out of them already, her legs are sooooooo long!!!

xxx