bambino156
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I don't really know quite where to start, I feel a bit silly and very selfish in how I'm feeling atm. We already have a beautiful 2.5 year old daughter and we found out today that we are now expecting a little boy. I didn't expect to feel this way, but I'm pretty gutted tbh. When I was expecting dd I actually quite liked the idea of having a boy, I would've been very happy, we didn't know what we were having so when dd popped out we were equally pleased. Having had 2.5 wonderful years with dd I've come to realise I love having a little girl, it's just everything about it. I really had my heart set on having another girl, a little sister for dd. So today when the sonographer said it looks like a little boy, my first reaction was "oh a little boy!" Now it has started to sink in I'm feeling allsorts of emotions, mostly negative ones. I just don't know how to get over this, how will I know what to do with a little boy? I don't have any boys names that I like. I don't like anything boyish, boys toys, boys clothes- they're all so dull and boring. Will I love him, even though deep down I wanted another girl?
I feel bad for feeling this way, very self indulgent, there are many people that would love to just have a baby regardless of gender, but whom cant, and here I am complaining. I know in my heart that gender shouldn't matter, as long as he's healthy, but I can't get my head around it.
Any help, advice or tales of similar feelings would be much appreciated. Thanks x
I feel bad for feeling this way, very self indulgent, there are many people that would love to just have a baby regardless of gender, but whom cant, and here I am complaining. I know in my heart that gender shouldn't matter, as long as he's healthy, but I can't get my head around it.
Any help, advice or tales of similar feelings would be much appreciated. Thanks x