Another BFN..couldnt be more discouraged!

[mandm1904]

On day #2 of waiting for AF to NOT show up..I took a test this morning and it was negative. I still am having breast tenderness and slight nausea but the lower abdominal cramping is coming on stronger as well as low back pain. I am also having general stomach cramping/tightening and hiccups. With all of these symptoms its hard to tell if AF is coming soon or could it be dare I say..I might be pregnant. I want this so badly that I feel that I might be stressing my body out and causing AF to be late. I know I need to relax and be patient, but easier said than done. Its very discouraging to know that AF is late and the pregnancy test says negative. Weve been trying for 8 months now. It gets harder each month that goes by. Im a hot mess!!!

 

[bdb]

We just started ttc and it's hard seeing bfn so I can't imagine your frustration! Sending you lots of baby dust! Always here if ya need to vent I need a tww buddy anyways

 

[mandm1904]

Thank you bdb! I never thought TTC would be this nerve racking! I got pregnant when I was 19, the second time I ever had sex...but now that I want a baby and feel I am ready, I cant get a BFP. Starting to wonder if something is wrong with me.

 

[bdb]

Hang in there... from what I've read it happens to most couple who ttc give it a few more months then consider clomid I've heard lots of positive feedback from it....

 

[bdb]

Ohhhh if you don't get your bfp this cycle I've heard alot of ppl ttc have problems not bc anything is wrong but bc of cervical mucus I've heard good things about pre seed too. ...

 

[mandm1904]

what is pre-seed??

 

[bdb]

From what I understand it helps with cervical mucus around ovulation. ... I'm not currently taking it bc this is my first full cycle ttc but I've done a lot of reading due to the fact that I have major anxiety and I'm terrified of not being able to conceive. ... my hubs said I can get it after 6 month if we haven't got our bfp then clomid at 12 mo.... hopefully it doesn't take that long but realistically it could

 

[mandm1904]

Ill look into it. Our plan since it has been 8 months already..we just started OPK's this month, I was using an app on my phone to help with ovulation but I didn't think it was helping. We are going to try the OPK's for a couple of months and if we don't get a BFP then the next step is Clomid.