Another good reason to get a job where I can work from home

[hayz1981]

At work and all I can hear is my colleague talking about her sister who is pregnant and due any day now. All day every day for about the last 3 weeks she has been telling people here the latest, or on the phone talking about her. Don't get me wrong, it's an exciting time and I know I'd be excited if it was my sister, but I'm just finding it hard to hear all the time. Especially as I know she only started trying a month before I did, and now she's going to have a baby, and I haven't even had a single BFP.

Anyway, I know this is similar to lots of other posts, but just felt I needed to vent.

It's so frustrating to want something so so badly and not be able to get it and to watch it come easily to other people.

Plus I'm now cycle day 34 or something equally ridiculous and haven't O'd and haven't had any EWCM.

xxx

 

[hayz1981]

oh cycle day 35 - the ticker never lies!

 

[BigFoot1980]

I know how u feel. Sometimes I just want to crawl into a hole, so i don't have to deal with such discussions.

I hope u get ur really really soon.

 

[Nathyrra]

There can never be enough threads about this topic imo lol.. always makes me feel slightly more normal!

I wish you all the best this month with there's no doubt that this is SO baby season right now!

Our bodies need to stop fobbing us about!x

 

[CareBear]

It certaintly is baby season, must be something to do with the cold weather. These sort of feelings never get any better as everyone said we all feel the same.

 

[HAYS]

I hear ya lady, very very frustrating!!!

 

[Trying4ever]

Aww I know its awful when poeple all around you are having babies so easily! I'm also on very long cycles....cd39 today....where is that damn period so I can just get on with it in the next cycle!!!! But I'm probably not ovulating anyway so whats the point ey?

 

[hayz1981]

and now my other work friend has announced she's pregnant and due in april. She had her first son in August 07, just a few weeks before we started TTC, and now she's well on the way to having another one. While I'm still not getting over the first hurdle. I want to be happy for people, but my first feeling is just jealousy and sadness that it's not me.

 

[Puddleduck]

Yeah I hear you hayz....I have 2 chaps on my team both who's wives are expecting in April and June. Both fell pregnant first month of trying... oh lucky them................... I am sick with jealousy and they are always talking about it...I am fed up fed up. I am the only female on the team and I am their manager and hate it when they say, 'isnt it about time you had kids?' I have had to bite my tongue so many times to stop myself snapping at them. They just don't know how hard we have been trying for over 2 years without a sniff of a BFP. Just hope our first round of Clomid will work FX.

 

[hayz1981]

Yeah I hear you hayz....I have 2 chaps on my team both who's wives are expecting in April and June. Both fell pregnant first month of trying... oh lucky them................... I am sick with jealousy and they are always talking about it...I am fed up fed up. I am the only female on the team and I am their manager and hate it when they say, 'isnt it about time you had kids?' I have had to bite my tongue so many times to stop myself snapping at them. They just don't know how hard we have been trying for over 2 years without a sniff of a BFP. Just hope our first round of Clomid will work FX.

People just have no clue sometimes, and just assume its that simple for everyone. At least we know we will never be that person who keeps asking people when they're gonna have kids.

I'm starting clomid next cycle too - if this cycle ever ends. I think I'm going to go to doc this week as still no O and usually I'm pretty regular so this is a bit of a worry. I'm just getting impatient to start the clomid now.

Have got my FX for you xxx