i say exactly that if i had more money and mmore space id have maybe 5. i dont think if i have a 3rd they will be as cllose. probably 2 or 3 yrs gap between them as i need a break!! x what sort of redecorating are you doin x
I'm doing pretty well thankstend to be shattered at the end of the day, as expected!! But we are redecorating at the momeny aswell so there is zero time to think about being tired haha. I *think* this is it now, OH said no more after our second but knowing how desperate I was for a third we went for it
Haydensmummy - congrats hun! Forgot you were due already!!!
i'm 22 with 2 kids, my own house and live with partner. 
i say exactly that if i had more money and mmore space id have maybe 5. i dont think if i have a 3rd they will be as cllose. probably 2 or 3 yrs gap between them as i need a break!! x what sort of redecorating are you doin x
I'm doing pretty well thanks
Haydensmummy - congrats hun! Forgot you were due already!!!
i thought i would have one the lottery by now haha and not needed to go back! .
then I took a gap year and went back after Jake's 1st birthday. I then got pregnant a little into my 3rd year of uni which was hard as I was in the middle of writing my dissertation which was 10,000 words and I had morning sickness. Sometimes I wonder how I even managed it cause I was working part time too ontop of looking after Jake. So I'm kinda proud of myself Nice to see some other lovely ladies around my age with kids/pregnant I'm 21 and had my first baby six days ago 
I hope to be a stay at home mom until Jamie is in nursery/school, though I might go back to uni before that if I can go part time x
If we could afford it I'd get married tomorrow! Getting a house felt brilliant, although it did mean having to live with my parents for a year with my OH to save up and we had to be so tight and strict with money. And, I am the opposite haha, I look younger than 20, more 16ish. Would prefer to look older because I hate getting 'looks' when I'm out and about with the buggy lol! xx Although I am applying for other jobs. I worked full-time whilst pregnant, had paid leave then returned to part-time when LO was 9 months. I am also halfway through an Open University degree in English Literature. 
Planning is so exciting! we've each told our close family and they're pretty supportive! I think we'll tell them pretty soon after i get pregnant so they can support us if anything goes wrong as well. I've told one close friend who is really supportive but not sure that the rest of my friends will understand - i know a few would think their lives were over if they had a baby and think everyone else must feel the same 
i've just finished my last pill packet today and started taking folic acid today!! 
, I'm Charlie and pregnant with my first but me and OH are young in comparison to many:
, haven't got my LO yet!!, no baby yet, no baby to send to nursery yet but I think I would like my LO to go for at least an afternoon or two for the socialising
It's tough but it's wonderful!
How old are you? I'm 22
How old is your Oh? He's 22
How many kids do you want in total? 2 - so i'm done!
Are you working? I'm on maternity leave too but I was part-time.
If you are on Matleave how long are you off for? 9 months to a year I haven't decided yet, I might not go back I might try and find a new job. I don't think I'll start my career until Lucas is about Jake's age though so about 2 or maybe even 3.
if you are working how are you finding being at work with a baby? I'll answer this cause I worked while Jake was a baby before I had Lucas. It's tough the first few shifts cause I worried to death about whether he was happy and settled cause we'd never been apart but I soon learnt he was happy and it was some 'me' time although I wasn't relaxing of that made sense.
Are your baby/babies at nursery? How many days? Jake's at playgroup 2 days a week 9:10am til 11:40am
And to answer your other questions, I have two boys, Jake is a bit over 2 and Lucas is 5 weeks. I fell pregnant after my 1st year of uni during the Xmas break so I did my second year pregnant and handed my last assignment in 3 days before my due date
Oh and I worked part time at a supermarket and studied advertising. For all I enjoy media and stuff I wish i'd done something else cause it's the kinda career where hours aren't at all flexible.
Hi
How old are you?
I'm 21
How old is your Oh?
22
How many kids do you want in total? I might stop at this one! We'll see, I'm undecided.
Are you working? On Mat leave? A SAHM? - If you are on Matleave how long are you off for?
Not working, I'm a SAHM for now
If your a SAHM mum how long have you been? and do you think you will be a SAHM permintently or till at school etc?
I've only been a mom 6 days lol, but I dropped out of uni when I became pregnant pretty much
ooh how is the open uni going? how long is the course? i was thinking of trying to do open uni but then i remembered when i wanted to do a course after college coz i didnt complete it it was those home courses and i didnt even do it. but who knows maybe i can now im motivated. but im also easily distracted.. id love to be a psycologist or something similer. and thats true it is nice for the kids to interact with the other kids! and so nice that ur oh ad mum look after oh the problem with my oh job is his shifts change every week so with nursery you have to pick set days and if i choose not to bring lo in when oh is off work you still have to pay anyway! x
Waiting that long cause we need to save, plus round here you have to book venues quite a long time in advance
How old are you? 20 (well nearly!)
How old is your Oh? Nearly 21.
How many kids do you want in total? Definitely another one, then maybe a third.
Are you working? On Mat leave? A SAHM? - If you are on Matleave how long are you off for? I work part-time 3 days a week at Mcdonalds
If your a SAHM mum how long have you been? and do you think you will be a SAHM permintently or till at school etc? I was a SAHM for 9 months during my mat leave, always intended to return to work (although only doing part-time. I like the extra money and the variation it gives me in life.
if you are working how are you finding being at work with a baby? Well I only do three shifts a week so I find it great. It's easy once your baby is in a bit of a routine and I look forward to doing something a bit different, as well as having lots of people my age to talk to. I also think it's good for Oliver to have a bit of time away from me and spend it with his daddy or my mum.
Are your baby/babies at nursery? How many days? Nope, not currently. I usually schedule shifts when my OH is off work so he can look after him, or if not my mum will happily do the odd bit of babysitting and refuses to take payment. I would love for LO to go to nursery a day a week next year so I can crack on with studying. I think it'd be nice for him to interact with lots of other babies every week, as well as all the different activities they do there.
xx
Thanks
i'm 21, my other half is 29. we want 2 or 3 kids.
I'm at uni right now, my course finishes in April which is when we plan to start TTC. I'm planning to take two academic years off to be a SAHM, and then i'll go back and train to be a primary school teacher!
How old are you? 21 but with be 22 when LO arrives
How old is your Oh? 21
How many kids do you want in total? I wanted 2 but OH has always wanted 3 so think we're just going to wait and see
Are you working? On Mat leave? A SAHM? - If you are on Matleave how long are you off for? I'm currently working full time - work doesn't know that I'm pregnant yet either. Not sure how much maternity leave I will take tbh
If your a SAHM mum how long have you been? and do you think you will be a SAHM permanently or till at school etc?
If you are working how are you finding being at work with a baby?
Are your baby/babies at nursery? How many days?
We're both very excited about the pregnancy, it was planned as we own our house, both work and felt that we wanted to be young parents so decided there's no time like the present!!!
I hope that's ok
