It's such a long time since I have looked in on this site so I was happy when I saw this thread! So nice to hear how old friends are getting on!
Millie was born at 26+3
Millie will be six in August! She is in mainstream school. We delayed her start to school for twelve months as we felt very strongly that she was not ready to start when she was four. Socially she is doing amazingly well, the teacher said she is definitely one of the most popular girls, they all want to play with her!
She has full time support as her learning is slower than her peers. She quite often gets taken away from the class to work on differentiated material. In phonics for instance the rest of the reception are now on two and occasional three word sounds, but we are still trying to master the basic single letter sounds. We will get there though!
Numbers and counting are a challenge for Millie, but again, with patience and plenty of practice I'm pretty sure she will get there eventually.
Her speaking and eating are the two biggest obstacles we've yet to overcome. Millie has great difficulty in producing some sounds and as a result her speech is often indecipherable. Most of the time my husband and I can understand her, but I think at school etc she sometimes has problems being understood. In classroom situations she can sometimes be reluctant to speak at all. She would never volunteer to answer a question in front of the class. She often does not even want to speak to her class teacher and if her teacher asks her a question she looks up at her learning support assistant waiting for her to answer. The school have been really good, when she does speak in class she gets a certificate!
Eating is tricky, she only eats a few things and will not entertain trying new things. She will not eat anything wet! She continues to follow the 0.4 th centile which she has been on for about four years so she might be a dot but at least she is a consistent one!
She is great fun, loves pretend play, loves to sing, baking, stories, dollies and riding her bike. She is doing amazingly well, we are sooooo proud of her, but we still have work to do!