Thanks for all the info ladies, & its great to know I'm not the only one having troube weaning lo from the boob. I'm away at the moment & hubbie says she is taking bottles without too much of a fuss, so hopefully on my return I can cut down & finally wean her completly.
I'm expressing at the moment as I had not cut down enough to stop cold turkey, but would like a few months where my boobs are my own before I start in ernest again (want to wear a nice bra for a change)
That said, my friend tandem fed her two girls & had no problems with supply. Only problem being jealousy of the older child (this is what I would really rather avoid) when she was nursing the new born, but her hubbie was on hand to help with toddler so she coped ok.