Any SMEPers!!!! 43 Testers! 22 BFP!!!!

[snowflakes120]

May - I would say it's safe to assume your 2dpo. I have a feeling your temp will raise again tomorrow. I call that those my lightning bolt charts!!

Army - Good luck testing tomm. I know Jaime got a + OPK before her BFP. Sounding good girl.

Sunny - Oh hun. I know that feeling all too too well - very familiar to me. But my co-workers don't know about my issues - but I would think they would have an idea by now considering whenever they talk about PG or whatever - I get up and leave the room and never participate in the convo's.

Krystina - Sooo glad to hear limbo land is coming to a close. My RE says spotting is not considered as CD1. Once you have "full flow" = enough to have to use a tampon or pad she says that is CD1. I loveeeee me some wings!

 

[threemakefive]

Army test!!! I think a few of the girls got pos opks before bfp!!

May sounding pretty good...

Lisa when is iui?

Krysttina...let's get u some clomid twins

 

[armymama2012]

I tested and bfn. Testing tomorrow with FMU. If Bfn then I will just BD and wait for her to show.

 

[snowflakes120]

Maybe it's just too early yet Army.

Emily - Hoping AF doesn't come (wishful thinking!) but if she does then I have to make an appt for some more testing and we would do it next cycle as long as the cyst resolved itself. But I am thinking, the IUI should take place around Labor Day time.

 

[threemakefive]

How many dpo are u Lisa? And hope u don't need the iui but good to have a plan

 

[Sunny skies]

May - I would say it's safe to assume your 2dpo. I have a feeling your temp will raise again tomorrow. I call that those my lightning bolt charts!!

Army - Good luck testing tomm. I know Jaime got a + OPK before her BFP. Sounding good girl.

Sunny - Oh hun. I know that feeling all too too well - very familiar to me. But my co-workers don't know about my issues - but I would think they would have an idea by now considering whenever they talk about PG or whatever - I get up and leave the room and never participate in the convo's.

Krystina - Sooo glad to hear limbo land is coming to a close. My RE says spotting is not considered as CD1. Once you have "full flow" = enough to have to use a tampon or pad she says that is CD1. I loveeeee me some wings!

Very few people at work know about my etopic so I can't get upset about those that don't know but some of my friends have been a little insensitive. I think because they've never experienced a loss and it's been a while since the surgery sometimes i feel that they assume I am over it already. I know they care and people sometimes don't know what to say. I know the feeling about having to remove yourself from the situation. Just the other day at lunch, I left the room as I just didn't want to have someone ask again when I am planning to have kids... Ugh.

I love having this site with other women who can relate to our struggles and truly support and be happy for each others BFP after a loss.

 

[armymama2012]

Holy cow! I just took another OPK for the heck of it and it is 2x darker than the control line. I swear its so dark purple its almost black! I will take and post a pic in a minute. Still going to test tomorrow!

 

[mammaspath]

oooooooh i really wanna see it! post post post!

 

[armymama2012]

Here are the pics:

 

[mammaspath]

seriously...........can you post your pg test????

 

[mammaspath]

how many dpo are you?

 

[armymama2012]

As of midnight, I am 11 dpo.

 

[armymama2012]

I will post my pg test once I take one at 10 a.m.

 

[jrowenj]

Hmmmm. I did have a super positive opk when I got my bfp but I am very anti opk as hpt bc I researched the heck out of it and soooo many women get lh surge before AF and got disappointed. I hope you get your BFP I just don't want you to get ur hopes up based on an opk and feel let down : ( FX FX FX FX

 

[Jennifer1212]

Ladies - mind if I join? Suffered an MC 3 weeks ago - waiting patiently (or impatiently!) for my AF to arrive then starting SMEP in earnest. Looks like there have been many successes here - hope to be one of them!

 

[krystinab]

Welcome Jennifer, sorry about the mc Good luck on SMEP.

Sunny, its def difficult for someone whos never experienced a loss to not understand. One of my EX best friends told me "well at least you know you can get preggo" BITCH! Like you Im so greatfull to have women I can connect to through this TTC journey! We are blessed to have one another.


Army, I really hope you get a BFP. Like Jamie I dont really depend on OPKs for pregnnacy BUT I hope in your case its right

Lisa! Hey girl! You are just moving through your TWW, how awesome would it be to cancel your IUI becuase your pregnant?!??!

AMF, well nothing AF didnt pick up...other than a few drips yesterday FUCKING NOTHING...really CD 37, really???

 

[snowflakes120]

Jennifer - Welcome! Sorry about your MC. Happy to have you in our little group here.

Krystina - WTF!! Do you think it could be implantation? I had implantation with my last PG and it was brown... I would love that but highly doubt that things will play out that way.

Having a bit of a down day today. I feel quite useless as a woman. I am supposed to be able to provide my hubby with a family and I can't conceive.

 

[krystinab]

Jennifer - Welcome! Sorry about your MC. Happy to have you in our little group here.

Krystina - WTF!! Do you think it could be implantation? I had implantation with my last PG and it was brown... I would love that but highly doubt that things will play out that way.

Having a bit of a down day today. I feel quite useless as a woman. I am supposed to be able to provide my hubby with a family and I can't conceive.

HELL NO! I think my body just hates me....an entire fucking month missed...ugh..talk about feeling useless...I try not to get my self thinking like that but I feel you...BUT we can conceive and we will! For whatever reason we just need an extra push

 

[Sunny skies]

Welcome Jennifer, hope this thread is lucky for you and sorry about your Loss.

Kristina and Lisa, don't give up, I know we all have our moments when our bodies don't cooperate but it will happen for us. Sometimes I feel like half of a women for just having one tube. Lisa I've felt the same way as I feel I may never be able to give my hubby a child and experience motherhood.

Army, good luck

 

[armymama2012]

Tested and BFN. I guess I am ovulating today.