Any solo mum's out there?

Discussion in 'Assisted Conception' started by K.N, Aug 31, 2013.

  1. Cinderella

    Cinderella Pregnant with number 1

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    How's everyone Doing?
    It's been a while! I had to stop TTC so I could wait for surgery and then have my gallbladder out. That finally happened In Nov and I'm now in my first tww since the op. I find it really frustrating to be on the forums when not TTC because it just seems like I'm so far away from my goals. Donor has been great about having a break and then starting up again. I'm massively frustrated that we're only getting one donation a month at the moment because of our work schedules. I know the first time I got pregnant it only took one go, but that was definitely a fluke. I'm starting to feel really negative about the whole thing, like I probably won't ever get pregnant again and if I do it'll probably end in miscarriage. I know that attitude isn't helpful but I can't seem to shake myself out of it.

    Anyway, I'm around 11dpo (didn't confirm o) and all tests so far are bfn. I was having some cramping around 7-9dpo so was hopeful that was implantation but I think that was just wishful thinking. I'm not having any symptoms now and AF is due in 3 days.

    Hope you're all doing well and had a good holiday period!
     
  2. Rags

    Rags Mother of 1 boy

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    Hello Cinderella, so glad to hear you've had your surgery and have recovered well. That's good that your donor has been so accommodating, he sounds like a decent guy. The TWW is always awful, it's easy to forget how much time you spend questioning every niggle, you're at day 11 so not long to know either way - good luck. Xx
     
  3. Cinderella

    Cinderella Pregnant with number 1

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    Just popping in to say I got my bfp two days ago! Obviously after the miscarriage I’m really nervous that this isn’t going to end well again, but I’m at least pleased that I managed to get pregnant for a second time and it wasn’t a fluke.

    Hope you’re all well!
     
  4. Rags

    Rags Mother of 1 boy

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    Oh Cinderella, I'm really pleased to hear your news. I know that things must be nerve racking for you just now, I really hope everything goes smoothly for you and will be watching to see how you're doing. Good Luck.
     
  5. Rags

    Rags Mother of 1 boy

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    Hello Cinderella - well it's not the start of 2020, I'm so very much hoping 2019 went smoothly for you? How are things going?
     

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