anyone 12 dpo and tested yet?

[j1405]

hi ladies,

have u tested yet or are u guys still waiting??

 

[Ava G]

Hey I'm 12dpo today! I never test just coz I can't stand the let down every month. But I went shopping yesterday and went into poundland and saw these tests and thought ah nice and cheap beats buying the clearblue expensive ones! Did a test this morning and it was a BFN!! Surprise surprise! On to the 14ttc I suppose!x

 

[maisie78]

The only reason I haven't tested for the third day in a row is because I have no tests left!! Been looking up the most sensitive over the counter tests online and counting the minutes until Boots opens

 

[Ava G]

It's sooo depressing though isn't it when you see jus the one line! I've been thinking well maybe i am this month because I've had fluey symptoms and really tired and i always get sore bb's around cd22 and didn't til cd25. And last night i was sure I could feel like a pulling sensation in my lower abdomen, now I'm thinking I must of been imagining it coz I had a bfn this morning! I try not to symptom spot but I just can't help it! What do you think of the test I did? Reliable or not?? Clutching at straws now I know!x

 

[anorak]

I am 12DPO now. I feel the pulling sensation, but I am not holding out hope. I tested this morning. .

 

[Ava G]

Your not out until the witch arrives though, thas what I'm telling myself x

 

[j1405]

wel i tested yesterday and got a bfn. i read that hcg levels only double every 48 hours. i'm not testing today, i;m 12dpo as well. i'm going to test tomorrow morning. i have nearly no symptoms left.. i have a little nausea every now and then and abdomen pains.. not cramps, more like stinging pains around my ovaries and abdomen.

there's still hope tho!! when are u testing again?? maisie78 let us know when u've tested!!

 

[Ava G]

I to have abit of nausea but then that could just be cause I've been unwell the past wk. Don't think I'll test again til after Tuesday or jus wait for the witch! I hate the witch! I did abit of research on those poundland tests and apparently you can only use them if your 7days late so that has given me abit of hope. But then again I'm having leg cramps! Sign of af. Have you had any different symptoms? Do you think you will get your BFP?xx

 

[j1405]

I to have abit of nausea but then that could just be cause I've been unwell the past wk. Don't think I'll test again til after Tuesday or jus wait for the witch! I hate the witch! I did abit of research on those poundland tests and apparently you can only use them if your 7days late so that has given me abit of hope. But then again I'm having leg cramps! Sign of af. Have you had any different symptoms? Do you think you will get your BFP?xx

wel i had leg cramps, loads last month. i actually thought that might be a positive sign since i never get them but low and behold, af shows up as usual. some ppl do get them before a bfp so i'm not sure if you can trust anything ur body does during the tww!!

my boobs was sore but now they don't hurt at all.. i don't think thats a very good sign!! this always happens pre af... i have noticed that i'm extremely hot at times, don't know if that means something. i'm not tempting so don't know what my temps are.

i just get so frustrated!! i mean i try my best! bd the right times, live healthy, drink vitex wich is doing miracles with my hormones!! i used to have a lutheal phase defect but thats all sorted now since i've been very regular the last 3 months.

i just don't know what to think anymore!!

 

[anorak]

wel i tested yesterday and got a bfn. i read that hcg levels only double every 48 hours. i'm not testing today, i;m 12dpo as well. i'm going to test tomorrow morning. i have nearly no symptoms left.. i have a little nausea every now and then and abdomen pains.. not cramps, more like stinging pains around my ovaries and abdomen.

there's still hope tho!! when are u testing again?? maisie78 let us know when u've tested!!

That is what my pains feel like. Stinging! Not the typical AF cramps, plus I don't get cramps until AF has arrived anyway....We will see. Having a very stressful day today though, boiler has broke and toilet has blocked! So waiting for gas guy and plumber!!!!!

 

[Ava G]

Anorak doesn't sound like your having a good day! Although if your having different pains that could be a good sign! J1405 I know the frustration feeling! Fed up of seeing baby reminders everywhere I go! Television adverts, I go out and all I seem to see is pregnant women! Grrrrrrr I also try and do as much as possible, bding and taking the right supplements but nothing! And then I hear from a friend that she had a 1 night stand and has found out she's 10wks pregnant!! What!!! I mean how can that be! And she doesn't even want to have a baby and she's asking me for advise. Hmmmm at the moment I am not the best person to be giving advise in that area. I know I'm ranting but jus one more thing...... My oh doesn't understand all he says is oh never mind maybe next month well after hearing that 13 times it's wearing a little thin! I'm thinking maybe jus take the relaxed approach cause you hear of so many ladies that relaxed and whahey it happened but everytime it gets to ovulation which I find myself secretly charting in my head I'm like right let's get down to business! Do not want bding to become a chore! Do feel sorry for my OH. Bless him he is good with it all. It's also difficult cause we both work shifts so sometimes it's just not possible...... Okay and breath...... Anyway ladies theres my rant for the day. Hope your having a lovely wkd xx

 

[cariecarie]

yup 12dpo tested at 9dpo and 10dpo all bfn.....but af not here yet so waiting to test again when it is late

 

[j1405]

Anorak doesn't sound like your having a good day! Although if your having different pains that could be a good sign! J1405 I know the frustration feeling! Fed up of seeing baby reminders everywhere I go! Television adverts, I go out and all I seem to see is pregnant women! Grrrrrrr I also try and do as much as possible, bding and taking the right supplements but nothing! And then I hear from a friend that she had a 1 night stand and has found out she's 10wks pregnant!! What!!! I mean how can that be! And she doesn't even want to have a baby and she's asking me for advise. Hmmmm at the moment I am not the best person to be giving advise in that area. I know I'm ranting but jus one more thing...... My oh doesn't understand all he says is oh never mind maybe next month well after hearing that 13 times it's wearing a little thin! I'm thinking maybe jus take the relaxed approach cause you hear of so many ladies that relaxed and whahey it happened but everytime it gets to ovulation which I find myself secretly charting in my head I'm like right let's get down to business! Do not want bding to become a chore! Do feel sorry for my OH. Bless him he is good with it all. It's also difficult cause we both work shifts so sometimes it's just not possible...... Okay and breath...... Anyway ladies theres my rant for the day. Hope your having a lovely wkd xx

i so know what you mean.. i have tried the ' taking a break ' month but its like when o comes my head does the math automatically and then i get angry when i cant bd the right times!! lol my oh doesnt mind but i don't want it to become a chore either. we bd'd every 2nd day this month and on o day so its just like i cannot understand how i can still not be preggers!!! i;m sure the problem is with him!! i had a check up in nov and obgyn says all looks great! no blocked tubes, no pcos, no endometriosis, ovaries look great so i just cannot get it!!! i'm regular every month so i'm out of answers.

now i'm ranting lol... and yeah, how do you do a one night stand and get preggers!! my mind says its not possible!! i mean we have like a 33% chance of getting preggers every month and she gets it right first time!! its just unfair!

 

[Ava G]

I'm lucky because I have a 3yr old from my FOH who is an ass and doesn't have anything to do with my little one and my OH is daddy and treats her as his own. But we long for a child of our own. I can relate when you say the problem must lie with your DH because I fell pregnant with my lil one on the pill and she wasn't planned!! And I've also had scans to check or my tubes and ovaries prior to having her cause of abdo pain and all was fine. Now I keep saying to my OH please can you make an appointment to go and get checked out and all he says is yea of course I will!!! Uh helloooo I've now been asking for like 2mths and still he hasn't gone, now I know it's probably cause he's worried that there is something wrong with him so he's jus burying his head in the sand but in the meantime I'm going outta my head!! But I dunno about your OH but mine is so chilled about the whole bding thing, I'm like right we need to do it now then this evening then the following morning and maybe afternoon and if we can that evening...... He's like yea whatever you say darling.....aaaaaaaah well c'mon then lets get to it but we never manage to keep to my schedule! I'm mad yes I know but I can not help it x

 

[maisie78]

So I tested again with one of the early tests and guess what... I'm not really surprised. It says clearly on the test that you can use it up to 4 days before af but if you do use it early it should be the first pee of the morning. I'm still getting the twinges in my abdomen and bbs and have a bit of heart burn today but tbh that could just be the stress I am putting myself under right now.

As for your rants ladies I so know where you are coming from. The trouble I have is that I have to outwardly appear to be completely relaxed about the whole thing. I don't tell OH when I'm oving, I just know the pressure would to perform would be too much for him. He wants to have a baby but he's just the kind of guy who needs to know after I'm pregnant and not get too wrapped up in the mechanics of how we get there. I hope that doesn't make him sounds awful, he's lovely, it's just he's more a see what happens man whereas I am a planner.

I so want to be pregnant this month I'm just afraid my mind is playing tricks on me

 

[j1405]

yeah i get where ur coming from maisie78. my oh is kinda like that also but we do bd allot anyways so i'm happy with how we're going about it so far.. what i'm going to make him do tho is take a multivitamin every day fom feb along with some extra zinc if i'm not preggers this month. that would help his soldiers a bit... that is if he is the problem.. i'm thinking of trying evening primrose oil as well from feb, maybe it helps with fertile cm..

geez ladies i'm out of ideas i tell you... wel, ava G, u have a baby girl!!! thats like my hearts desire!! and what an ass does not want to be a part of a beautiful little girls life?!?! i mean wtf!! and i can see u don't have the problem if u got preggers on the pill.. maybe u should have ur OH try vitamins first if he is not already using some. it helps with the motility and the amount.

 

[Emma051980]

I always get cramps a week before af is due, she's due on Friday next but the types of pains i have had since Friday evening last have been somewhat different! The normal pains are like af is just about to arrive, kind of low down pains. Since Friday, i have had pains in my left side, pretty bad pains too (although i have no pain threshold whatsoever so thats why pains to be worse than they would be for other people!!) Last night, i had kind of like a fluttery feeling in my tummy too. Cold like symptoms the last couple of days and sore boobs in bed when i lie on my tummy! Hopefully they are all good signs, i tested yesterday with an IC and obviously got a BFN but i'm only 9DPO today....really hope this is the month for me - my friend found out she is pregnant with twins so i'm kind of thinking my symptoms are in my head too!!

 

[j1405]

wel its still early so in a few days the test might look allot different i really do hope u get ur bfp! i know what it feels like trying for so long!!

i must say, i don't want to be picky or anything but i really DONT want twins a friend of mine had her twin girls 5 days ago at 29 weeks!! how insane is that!! they have to stay in nicu for the next 8 weeks. that would drive me crazy.. and they're so small.. like teeny tiny! but hey those who get blessed with twins are really special human beings!!

 

[j1405]

ps emma051980 ur symptoms sound promising!!! flu symptoms is good in the tww

 

[Ava G]

Ladies I know what you mean about the imaginary symptoms! I don't know if I'm having them or not! I think I'm having sore bb's well yea I defo know thas true, pulling in lower abdo but then that could just be the witch flying around in there! I am tired but that could be related to shift work. Who knows!! Just wish it would hurry up now fed up with waiting! J1405 I don't know why the ass FOH doesn't want to know, he doesn't deserve to know her. His loss and I'm glad cause she's better off without him! When's everyone testing?? I don't think I can put myself through seeing yet again another single line!!! But thanks for the advise on the vitamins that's a good idea. I'll be off down to boots tomorrow to get some for OH x