Hi all
I posted on here in Jan last year and have been stalking too...
Briefly.....
Approached agency in Jan 2012, decided to use nhs iui....iui successful fur later loss.....contacted same agency in Aug 2012...they never replied to me so I took that as a sign I should use the nhs ivf...
Nhs ivf April 2013...successful but lost again.
Now we can get into debt, credit cards, beg borrow & steal but that's not what I want. Our love as parents isn't limited to a biological child.
I want to pursue adoption seriously and I feel ready to learn more about it but I'm worried they will tell me to go away an grieve etc for X amount of months.
So my question is, how long did you leave it before pursuing adoption/when will they allow us to adopt. The agency I'm interested in specialised in ethnic adoptions as we're a mixed couple so I don't know if they have lots of children waiting they'll be happy not making us wait a year?
Thank you in advance x
I posted on here in Jan last year and have been stalking too...
Briefly.....
Approached agency in Jan 2012, decided to use nhs iui....iui successful fur later loss.....contacted same agency in Aug 2012...they never replied to me so I took that as a sign I should use the nhs ivf...
Nhs ivf April 2013...successful but lost again.
Now we can get into debt, credit cards, beg borrow & steal but that's not what I want. Our love as parents isn't limited to a biological child.
I want to pursue adoption seriously and I feel ready to learn more about it but I'm worried they will tell me to go away an grieve etc for X amount of months.
So my question is, how long did you leave it before pursuing adoption/when will they allow us to adopt. The agency I'm interested in specialised in ethnic adoptions as we're a mixed couple so I don't know if they have lots of children waiting they'll be happy not making us wait a year?
Thank you in advance x