Laska5
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I'm 31 and have an 18 year old step son that lives with us full time. His mother is an awful manipulative B***** & I wish she was never apart of his life.
He resents us as parents, has no respect for us & makes our household a hell to live in. For years I have put off having a baby because of him. The environment would not be conducive to raising a child. Now that he is 18, we are SO SO close to kicking him out of the house, especially since I'm tired of waiting to have a child. The only reason he is staying home is because he is only a junior in high school & we want to see him succeed, get his high school diploma & then decide what to do from there (he is thinking about the military. Just imagine actually hating to be a parent! That is unfortunately how my husband feels at times right now towards his son. There literally has hardly been any joy the past 7 years that we've been married & have had He full time in our house- he's caused so much strife despite our love & support for him. It's sad but we have given him so much love, patience & support & he constantly chooses to hate us & treats us like we are the enemy! It's so hurtful to both of us & years of therapy has not helped.
Just wondering if anyone else is in the same boat with TTC with teens in the house. It makes it sooo stressful! I know we don't have any local friends to relate to, none of them understand.
He resents us as parents, has no respect for us & makes our household a hell to live in. For years I have put off having a baby because of him. The environment would not be conducive to raising a child. Now that he is 18, we are SO SO close to kicking him out of the house, especially since I'm tired of waiting to have a child. The only reason he is staying home is because he is only a junior in high school & we want to see him succeed, get his high school diploma & then decide what to do from there (he is thinking about the military. Just imagine actually hating to be a parent! That is unfortunately how my husband feels at times right now towards his son. There literally has hardly been any joy the past 7 years that we've been married & have had He full time in our house- he's caused so much strife despite our love & support for him. It's sad but we have given him so much love, patience & support & he constantly chooses to hate us & treats us like we are the enemy! It's so hurtful to both of us & years of therapy has not helped.
Just wondering if anyone else is in the same boat with TTC with teens in the house. It makes it sooo stressful! I know we don't have any local friends to relate to, none of them understand.